Question Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 10:30 pm
my best friend and i have been best friends since 6th or 7th grade. now we're going into 11th. last year a lot of drama started and she stood by me and defended me the whole time and i really appreciated it. over the summer we lost touch because i had to go to summer school so i didnt get to go to a lot of parties and hang out. now she's best friends with one of the girls who was against me in the drama. i might be over reacting but on myspace she moved me from her top spot to number 4. her new bff is first and she has two cousins before me. when i first saw it my heart sank. tonight i also found out that she had people over without me. i want to know how i can reconnect with her. something to do that can be just us. this girl is like a sister to me and i really really need her back. her parents absolutely hate her new bff because of something she said about their family a long time ago. what kind of friend insults a member of their bff's family!! my bff's mom absolutely loves me and treats me like her own kid.
please help me. i wont settle for second best when it comes to the girl that means the most to me.
so maybe you should just call her up
and ask if she wants to go to lunch
and maybe start talking like the way you guys used and things might get better!
u can always talk to her other bff too.
u know..maybe the girl that was involved in the drama wants to forget & forgive.
u never know! just do the best you can.
& definetley DONT be afraid to call her up
or go to her house.
she was once your best friend, and its possibility
maybe you guys will go back to being best friends!! =]
oceancityx answered Thursday August 16 2007, 12:12 am: invite your friend places or over your house. dont worry about myspace tops. they ruin friendships all the time ! i've seen it happen. its happened to me before too. if nothing happens, then she really isn't a good friend. and i know everyone says that, but its true ! [ oceancityx's advice column | Ask oceancityx A Question ]
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