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ExBoyfriend
Alright.. so I was hesitating to talk about this topic but I thought I might as well give it a shot. I dated a guy two years older then me in highschool.. and at times it was sort of on and off.. only because it was hard since we have completley different friends and when i was going to be a junior in high school he was going to be a freshman in college. We broke up because we knew the college relationship would be impossible..and I didn't want to tie him down.. nor did he want to be tied down. We try to just get on with our lives, but it's just not working.. we somehow always end up talking again after a long time..and we just miss eachother. He's not very open to me about his feelings because he doesn't like want a girl being in control of him or what not??... he is very close with his group of friends who are also very nice people.. although a problem with that, his friends want him to date a girl in their group.. last year he dated her for a very short time and told me how he wasn't attracted to her the same way as he was to me.. His friends don't hate me.. they'd just rather see him be with the other girl. He left again for college and I don't talk to him unless he talks to me first because I know him well enough that he like's his space and he needs time to settle into college. He's a very smart kid and has high goal's for his future... There's much more to this story..but I can only type so much right... so basically I don't know what to do.. because as much as I try to get over him and just move on.. nothings ever the same..this is the guy I was with throughout highschool, my first for everything basically...and if any guys can give advice on what they think is going through his mind..if he is over me or what?
(sorry this is so long).. but i appreciate any advice.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
it's just like the quote
"your first love....never dies"
maybe nows not the best time for the both of you..
but maybe in the future it will be.
you never know. but always remember
your NEVER going to forget your first love.
see how it's like to stay friends.
and if that cant happen, maybe you guys are meant for each other =]
call him up, most defiently.
and just ask how things are.
like in college & stuff.
dont be afraid!
he was once your boyfriend.
the one person that was there when you were down.
he'll love to hear your voice
and see how you are.
hope things work out!
<3
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Seems like yall will always depend on each other if another relationship fails considering you guys were a couple for a long time.And you did alot of firsts with him.I think you just need to either wait to see what he wants or leave it all.Sometimes it takes completely erasing him from your life in order to get over someone,But if he comes back to you then let it be.If he really likes you and wants a relationship between you then you have to work things out.He can't kind of want it.He's in college, there's alot of partying and meeting new people involved.Plus, your also meeting new people and making new friends.There might be a guy you'd be somewhat interested in.Let things settle and see how things go.Good luck to you and I'm sure everything will turn out okay.Hope I helped. :]
~ Lacey
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