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I've never really been happy at all.
Things have happened to me and everything sucks. People hate me and I feel like everyone else fits in and I really lack that. I don't know anymore but I've never been happy and its starting to make me want to end everything and not have to deal with guys that don't like me and girls that hate me and yeah guys that hate me. I really need help I think.
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I went through exactly what you're going through! The trick is to always be positive...I know it can be hard sometimes, but you have to try. Never think that everyone hates you! Why do you assume that both guys and girls hate you??? I'm sure you didn't do anything mean to them..so why would they, just out of the blue, hate you? If you wanna get on everybody's good side...just be really friendly, smile, and give lots of compliments! Then, I'm sure people will like you because they'll see how nice you really are. Now, in order to be this friendly, you have to be a positive person...a optimist! You think you can do that?...I hope so!
*Good Luck*
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i'm sorry to hear that everyone hates you.
maybe once school starts, you can join a club that your interested in.
and you'll make friends that have the same interest
and you'll proabably ALSO meet guys with the same interest.
cute or ugly? i dont know.
but im 100% you can make new friends by joining a club.
....and if you REALLY hate how things are with girls at your school or with guys.
trying going to a new school.
trying being in a differnt enviroment
with differnt & new people.
DONT ever think about suicide.
think about all the people that are dying right now & not because they WANT to but because they dont have a choice.
i hope i helped!
and i hope things get alot bettttttter<3
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Get yourself professional help. If you sit here & do nothing about it, nothing is going to get better for you.
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I can honestly say that I know what you're going through. My advice to you is to get help before its too late. Try talking to your parents about it. If that doesn't seem to help or if you're uncomfortable talking to them about it, talk to another adult like a school counselor, a teacher or another member of your family. You definitely need to seek professional help, though.
I hope everything gets better for you and I hope this advice has helped you.
xo, Whitney
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Hey!
In our life, we go through weeks or months sometimes even years where we feel like life is just this evil thing where everyone on the other side of the glass window is living this awesome life, but all we get is this horrible unfair treatment. The only way to get out of the funk is to push past it and not let every little thing bother you.
First, I want to talk about how you said you dont fit in. there are a lot of different places in your life where you wont fit in with everyone else, but sometimes people go out of their way to be their own person, and end up scaring people who want to befriend them, away. So heres my suggestion, now in no way am I telling you to change yourself in order to be liked. But I think that you should just try and fit in. smile and be nice to everyone. Think about what you do to make people hate you, and if you can figure it out, try and tone it down a bit. DOnt change yourself, just try and do it alittle less obviously.
There will always be people who hate you in your life. What you have to do is push past them and find people who do like you. If you're being bullied then its different, but if they just hate you, who cares they're one person, you're this amazing person who even I can tell not having ever met you, but these people are mean to you and dont like you, but they dont see who you are deep down inside. You dont need them in your life. So go out and find some one you do need.
I think you should focus your intrests on things like clubs and get to know more people with the same intrests as you. You'll make mroe friends.
Look I dont know what you mean by "starting to make me want to end everything" so I'm not going to assume. but if you mean what I first thought you meant, then look, you're this caring person who will be missed and you cant just let this stuff drop. you are important, and maybe you're not fitting in, but one day you will find these amazing people and you will touch their lives. You were put here to do something with your life and beating the odds is so much better than giving up. Life can be hell. but if you ever and I mean EVER need someone to talk to let me know. Because you're this special person who is in a funk that you will get out of, you just need alittle help. If you need help, then seek it, but dont end everything. Because you'll regret it. lifes tough but you can do it you're strong, and with others help this will get better I promise okay?
I hope I helpped and good luck. Remember I'm there for you.
Love ya,
angie91
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i dont think you have a mental problem i think every girl goes through a stage where the think AH LIFE SUCKS and all that stuff, but you are making your self think your never happy and if you think your never gonna be happy then you never are gonna be. so instead of focusing on the negitive things focus on what you do have.
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