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The using friend
I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?
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omg i have been in the exact situation. i did something stupid... and what that was-was nothing, i felt bad but i just felt i couldnt do anything. but YOU can do something. i think you should talk to her and be like "hey, this may sound like gay but our friendship is important to me and its like whenever you are around those "friends" you always seem to leave me out and not talk to me. why is that" say something like that!
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She's what we call "easily influenced". She probably is just not sure that her other friends will accept you, so she can't be friends with you around them. You need to call her on it when she is being your friend, and confront her, letting her know how you feel.
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Sit Her down and tell her how you feel. Be sure to say somethng like.... YOu know, I don't need a friend who acts like this!
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Chances are, this girl is a rotten tomato..... ? DON'T EAT HER OR WATER HER! LET HER DIEEEE!!! She's not ripe yet. She will eventually grow out of her insecurity, and befriend all the other tomatoes, possibly even the carrots.
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Sometime whenever you two are alone, just ask her what her deal. Ask her why whenever you two are around eachother, you are the best of friends and then whenever her "friends" are around, she's all mean and stuff? Because she's not really being a friend if she's acting like that. So I might wanna stop being her friend and find some new ones, but first of all, talk to her about it. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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this happened to me too... what i would do is ask her what her deal is, if you guys have a friendship or not. if she acts suprised you're asking this, ask her why she acts differently when she's with her other friends. [it may not be worth your time to continue being friends if she doesn't fix the problem] i know it's hard to "just tell her how you feel" but honestly, thats the only thing that works, most people don't get hints you give them. hope i helped
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Obviously she's not that great of friend if she's just going to disregard your feeligns liek that. Try explaing your feelings to her and if she doesn't stop her behavior... i would consider losing her as a friend because true friends are there for you no matter what... especially if you consider her a best friend
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Slap her.
I am being deadly serious.
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Talk to her and say if your going to be mean then i don't want to be your friend anymore! Because i'm sure you have better friends than her!!
~kristy~ Rate me plz
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If she does thAt then she is not reAlly your friend. Just tell her how you feel And if she is still meAn to you then stop trying to be friends with her.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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Find new friend..I had the same problem when i was in 4th grade..I met this girl who was so nice to me and acted like she was my bestfriend..But then.. she forgot me.. WeLL,i didn't really care about her coz she wasn't the only friend that i had..I could find anyone else.. LOL.. Just think positive..Ok..This is my answer "Ask her 'Are you my friend??Why do you act really mean to me around your certain friends"Hope I helped!!
-ViTaChaN-
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get a life and some friends...
you are very welcome
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You should confront your friend and tell her what she is doing and see if she will change the way she is acting or if she says she doesnt act like that then see if she still does it and if she does she isnt worth being her friend anymore u can have better friend then that
*KELL REKO*
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ditch her.
1.you dont need that two faced bimbo
2.you can do way better
why force yourself to be friends with someone whos just using you for when shes bored.
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hey a bite for a bite right? when you 2 are "close" and talking like best buds...ignore her. give her a taste of her own poison. if she comes to you and says "why are you ignoring me" tell her why. say "hey you do this to me too hun" maybe it will make you closer, or maybe she will get the picture and back off. if she has no-one she will obviously be a kiss-up. dont take it..you dont need that and if she backs off shell have no-one. when she kisses up act like the queen she is treating you like. be like mmhmm and maybe even roll your eyes. be honest though if she asks. the last thing you need is an enemy. be nice but not over the edge nice.
good luck hunny
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Well I Think You And Her Should Have A Nice Calm Talk And Tell Her How You Feel...And Just Take It From There Just Dont Yell, If She Yells At You, You'll Be The Bigger One In The Situation:-)
-* i Know Its Not Alot But If That Doesnt Go GOod...Tell Me
*<3 April
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if she is a true friend she shouldnt be scared to show it. you may think that she is what you would consider a good friend, but good friends are the ones who are your friend no matter what. you need to find someone who will accept you all the time even when they are around someone they think is "cooler" than you. i think you should talk to her about it, and if she chooses them over you, then you deserved better all along. but if she tries to change that then you have most likely found an honest friend.
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well, from experience..just tell her how you feel and tell her to notice you when shes with her other friends.
-Brooke
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