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i left my fav shirt at my friends house and the next time i came over i saw it and i asked where she found it.....she said that her grandma bought it for her for her bday....which was a huge lie...they dont sell that model anymore its old.....i want it back but i dont want to hurt her feeling what should i do???

signed concerned girl

i rate high

Take it back!!! Tell her mom or do something!!Don't let her take anything thats yours!!

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I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?

Talk to her and say if your going to be mean then i don't want to be your friend anymore! Because i'm sure you have better friends than her!!


~kristy~ Rate me plz

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okay, i got this amazing babysitting offer!
*well the only thing is i'm kinda shy around little kids like 5,6,7 even 8!
And the girl is 7!
How can i over come me being shy?

Why would you be shy in front of kids!well the thing is let them do what she wants to do if you don't thing it is okay for her to do that then tell her.don't be scared or you won't be able to do it again.just be nice to her and she'll be nice to you and you will be able to come back and u won't be shy lol.


~Kristy~

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for the past few days i couldn't log into my account and i was wondering why i couldn't do it. so then i decided to try to recreate it and i was successful. i'm happy that i found out the problem but i really don't get why my username was deleted. plz help.

p.s. i don't think i was banned, because i think i would've known about it.

it was deleted because you haven't logged on in 30 days so it deleted itself.thats what mine did and i just had to make a new name.so i'm sure thats what had happened.



~Kristy~

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What would you do if you wanted new friends DESPERATELY but no one else wants to be friends with you?

Try to fit in and don't be shy mabey people will start to like you.once they know the real you.

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My skin gets bitten a LOT during the summer...are there any home remedies or good sprays that you guys can suggest
thanks (ill rate)

Get like the mosquito spray and put it on before you go outside and you won't get them bites.


~Kristy~

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What ways can you tell if a guy friend wants to be MORE than friends?

You can tell if he flirts with you.you can tell if he acts different around you.if he is real nice.

~kristy~

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I am so full of energy so after I was laying down for like 10 minutes, i ust had this blast of hyperness and i jus ran outta my room yelling..ahaha..my mom was scared..so when she realized I was just being crazy, she started cussing at me..BAD! she was like "F*** YOU! MOTHER F*** YOU!!!" i feel so sad now :-( what can i do?

talk to your mom and ask her why she said that because thats stupid for your mom just to start cursing at you because you were haveing a happy moment lol!

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My friend and I were at this party, where there was a guy that I liked. We were playing volleyball, a sport that I'm not too good at. This guy was always poking fun at me when I missed, but he wasn't mean to me except for that. Do you think he was being a jerk, or flirting?

He probably was flirting if he liked you or knew that you liked him.
Rate me please!


~Kristy~

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I'm having my Sweet Sixteen party this month and I was wondering if you had any ideas for ways to keep my guests entertained during the 4-5 hour period. I'm holding it at my house, I have a buffet, a tiki bar, a seating area, music, and giant torches. The only activities I have planned are a candle lighting ceremony, and cutting the cake and opening presents (those will help waste time), then I decided to have a bellydancing contest (just for laughs), and then a hula-hooping contest. My theme is Hawaiian/Luau. Please help me find more ways to get the time to fly by!

Well you can have a dance contest,a talent show mabey,and like you can even sit down with one of your good friends that are going to your party and make up one of your own games just to be stupid.Hope I helped
RaTe Me PlZ

~Kristy~

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