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a jerk? So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?
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Well most guys, after they brake up with someone, they try to avoid there feelings by trying to be manly and flirt with a nother girl.
so hes acting like a jerk but if you really talked to him for like and hour or more then you would find out whats really going on
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Yeah, he is. What a bastard. ]
I don't know what he might have been feeling. He could tell you that. I think for now though you are probably better off just being friends (if you want to be), because he seems to still be hung up on the ex. Wait until he is over her for good before trying to pursue any relationship with him. :) ]
I think you should talk to him, ask him if he really liked you, or was using you.
Tasha ]
yeah, you hit the nail on the head. a true class act asshole. I hate to be the bearer of my worst case opinion, but i think he gave u a line of horse crap so he can get back w. his ex. im so sorry, ik how it feels. i hope i helped, and if theres anything u need, uk where to drop it. hope i helped
drew ]
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He is definetly a jerk if he really liked you he would have found/made time to spend time with you ! and being all over his ex thats just wrong it sounds to me that you were just a girl that he was using to get over his ex just like you said. Forget about him u dont need a guy like that. ♥Kate ]
yes he is a jerk! you did a good thing by ending the relationship with him instead of living a lie wit him pretending that he cared about you. dont worry about him you can do better. he isnt a great guy dont get sad and deppressed. he is the one missing out on you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* ]
yea he is i would go to him and ask him that question ]
Yeah, I'd call him a jerk. And luckily you found out now and now later! He probably did like you -so give yourself the benefit of the doubt there - but things change and when you guys broke up maybe the other chic sweated him really hard and he took her back. Or maybe he just a good 'ole player that likes lots of options. Either way - count it as a blessing becasue you don't need to deal with that kinda stuff anyway. I wouldn't give him the time of day - let him miss what he had. All the other girls probably take him back -you will set yourself apart and rock his little world if you don't sweat him and don't take him back....don't fall for the bullsh*@ lines when he's begging either - let him sweat and love it girl!!! ]
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