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alright, i have really long half wavy, half straight hair, and i really would like to be able to scrunch it and curl it. preferably without any heat styling, because my hair can't take very much heat even with the protectants.
one of my biggest problems is that it will fall out of the curls half way though the day, and i really don't like looking cute some of the time, and sloppy the rest.
so i was wondering if there are certain gels or whatever that would help me with that, hopefully not too expensive (like $1-$6).
i really appreciate it
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I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering?
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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?
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Hmm, this is kind of random, but I'm not sure what CD I should buy next. I like classic rock mainly, like Pink Floyd.
Any ideas?
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Well there's this guy that I've known pretty much my whole life. He's my neighbor but we've never really been that great of friends. We both play tennis so I see him kind of a lot in the summer. The other day we were talking online and he said we should hang out more. He's gonna call me when he gets back from basketball camp. I really wanna hang out with him but thing is, I don't know him that well. I don't know what to talk about with him. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to talk about? How can I open up to him more? Thanks, any help will be appreciated! Oh and I'm 14/f
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I am having a sleepover next weekend and i was going to invite one of my best friends but she has been really mean to me.She has been telling me to shut up and to leave her alone.Should i invite her to my party or not be friends with her?
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I just dyed my hair medium brown and I really like it. How do I keep the color from fading? Are there any special shampoos or techniques I should follow?
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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?
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There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do?
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Okay well I have a myspace and I don't know how to change the background color. Do you know of any websites where I can get a background code for myspace? Also where do I go to change the background color and the font? Please and Thanks!
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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!!
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If I walked on a tredmale (however you spell it lol) for about an hour almost every morning, then ate healthy and also did pilates... How long do you think it would take for me to notice results? (Especially a flat stomach and skinnier legs/thighs) Thanks!! :)
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i became friends with this one girl named Jenna who was new this year. weve been in school for about 5 monthes now and me, one of my best friends, and one of my guy friends are her only friends in our school. well one of her guy friends from her old school likes me and i dont like him back. he saw me at the movies one night and gets mad because im with another guy, he tells Jenna and Jenna gets mad at me and says some extremly mean things to me, things that a "bff" (as she calls us) would NEVER say. she then apologizes the next day when she hears the real story from one of my friends. i dont know if i should forgive her because she really feels bad.. or shes apologizing because she needs friends at our school and if im mad at her, then she knows my friend and my guy friend will surly be mad at her too.. also she has gotten me in a LOT of trouble.. like trouble with cops.. please help!
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IF a guy kisses you how can u tell if he thinks ur a good kisser or bad kisser? Ive kissed 3 guys before and the first time i kissed a guy he told all my friends i was a bad kisser but a few years later wen we kissed he said something to me like wow u never kissed me like this before and he meant like in agood way so anyways im afraid wen i go to the movies tomorow this guy im going with wil think im a bad kisser and it makes me nervous but i realli wanna kiss him so im not sure what to do
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Hi...Im at school right and im not the most popular person.but, im really funny and have a great personality..(not to be cocky) But, I seem to be more on the loser side, which is bad :( I dont fit in anywhere...i just take up space in the school. I need advice ..How do i get people to see me for me, and actually just judge me on what other people say. Yes, i know i should talk to them, but they're always like...wtf you suck.. yea im not kidding eaither. Everyone just .hates. me... please help :(
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does n e one have any home remedies or things of that nature for liike gas and stuff haha i know its grooss but its rely embarassing haha please help!!!!!!!!! :( i hate farting!! lol thanks
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ok i recently got a new computer and dsl..i had dialup and now i can leave my AIM on all the time like everyone else does with ther away msg on! well i hav windows xp (idk if that helps) and whenever i put my away msg on and then like leave the computer for even 15 mins i go back on and it lyke signed me off and re signed me on and took my away mssg on...it ALWAYS does this whenever i hav my away mssg on for lyke 15 mins! its really annoying....no 1 nos my pw or nothing...is ther nething i can do?
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ok i hav had a bf for almsot 2 months now but ive been friend wid benefits with him for lyke a yr....well hes really causes alot of problems....he started smokin weed bout a month ago n then he told me he quit lyke 3 weeks ago n we wer surpose to go see a movie last frieday n he backed out last minute bc he had no money bc he blew it all on weed...so he lied to me bout quiting and he can never go newhere with me n emore bc he always spends his money on drugs. dont get me wrong when he isnt lyke this he is s0o gr8....but hes stopped calling n stuff n always has excuses and always backsout of our plans or will b lyke o ill callu bak n let u kno if i can go n then hell never call back....well heres the deal my brother plays soccer and theres this guy on his team named rafael....and omg he is so cute...so i told my bro to tell him wassup sexy LOL at practice....n he DID and ever since...rafael n me always stare at eachother n make eye contact with eachother at the games....wer both 2 shy 2 talk to eachother...but last game he told my brother to hook me n him up!!! he sed he wants to get to knno me n stuff...so today b4 my bro left 4 his soccer practice i was like tell rafael i wanna hok up with him 2...and so he did and rafael called my bro n then my bro gave him mai cell number n he just caled me!! it was my furst time talking to him!! hes soooo sweet! he was like ur brother tells me stuff (like that i like him n stuf) n i was like o ya lyke wat he was like go ask him n i was like i will later n then rafael was like just 2 let u kno i think the same about u.....i wa slike omg and i started blushing...hes so sweet and he actually calls when he says he will unlike my boyfriend...rafael is gonna call m tomorrow! well....idk wat to do....should i dump my boyfriend who i really lyke (but lately hes been a real ass) and take a chance n get with rafael? or wat do i do? bc it wouldnt b fair 2 rafael to be gettin with him if i hav a man,....
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i like this girl but i don't think i want to go out with her. i don't know if that makes any sense, but thats the way it is. anyway, i told my friend and he asked her if she would go out with me (i didn't tell him to) and she said no. my friend said that he didn't know if she was serious because he was acting like he was joking around and that she might have been too. I don't know wut to think. plz help. and does it make sense to like someone and not want to go out with them?
i'll rate anyone who tries to help
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Well i've been into this guy for a few months. When i met him, he unfortunately had a gf. and i had some of his friends jst come to me & tell me that he liked me.. and that didnt love his gf. that got me confused.
anyway now he doesnt have a gf because he broke up with her. and he told me playing around that he got pissed at her andt thats why he ended it. but then he told me that they took a "break" because they went off track(vacation) for 2 months.
well the thing is .. we have this obvious attraction between us. and 1 of his bestfriends always tells me that HES INTO ME alot. and wlel i try to ask him .. well i do. i ask him alot of questions having to do with his feelings towards me .. and hes always answering "i dont know". and the other day he said "you ask questions that are unexplainable". i dont know what to do!!
how can i get him to tell me straight out how he feels??? (by the way .. the most weve done is just HUG.. even if weve had opportunities to do more., so i know he wouldnt just act like he likes me, because hes "GETTING" anything. YOU KNOW?) PLEASE HELP!!!
..[14yr-female-tenth grade]
(PS: I really appreciated the 2 people that gave me advice the last time .. but i need the point of views of more hcicks that can help me!! TAHNKS ALOT YOU GUYS!!)
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