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Hi...Im at school right and im not the most popular person.but, im really funny and have a great personality..(not to be cocky) But, I seem to be more on the loser side, which is bad :( I dont fit in anywhere...i just take up space in the school. I need advice ..How do i get people to see me for me, and actually just judge me on what other people say. Yes, i know i should talk to them, but they're always like...wtf you suck.. yea im not kidding eaither. Everyone just .hates. me... please help :(
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Even though you think that noone likes you, you should start trying to talk to alot more people. Maybe if you talked to some different people, they would see that your not so bad. They would probably end up thinking that your really nice! I'm sure you could make a lot of friends. You just have to be more open and talkative. Try showing people that you really are nice. People that judge people before they even get to know them are assholes. I know alot of people that do that. You shouldn't feel bad, because me and my best friend are the biggest losers at my school. We can't stand it.Well, I hope I helped ya! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer your questions the best I can. Good luck hun!
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Who wants to fit in? Be different. Or, dress up like the hallway. You'll really fit/blend in that way.
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dOn't feel bad everyone hates me too. and my bestfriend it's really sad. so wen you find out tell me
sorry i couldn't help ya
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Dude i am really sorry..but maybe your trying to impress the wrong crowd. Or if that you kno that is the group that you wanna be in then if you hear them talking about a band..just join into the conversation. I'm sure your not a big loser because somewhere in your school there are probably people wanting to impress you! Trust me on this one hun. hope i helped! mauhh
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believe it or not, it may be your sense of humor that pushes people away. some people think the funny guys are annoying. try being a little less sarcastic and more sensitive (not saying you aren't, im just saying act that way)... and unfortunately people judge others on the way they look, slash how they dress (i know thats sad, but its true) so you can try changing that, even tho i strongly support being yourself tho. just change your attitude. ask people how they are, and how their day is going. and when you pass people in the halls just be like HEY WHATS UP! and people will like you more. trust me, i've been thru it all...
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change biatch.
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I think that you are a great person already.. You are confronting what you feel right now...to me:). I know that it is hard being in highschool, but there are many obstacles that you are gonna have to overcome, like this one for example. I know that there is a friend for you there, trust me. If i went to that school i would be all like,"what is up HOMMIE." I get along with a lot of people. :) Anywho lets get to the point of advice...try to make yourself stand out a little..maybe you could change your style (BUT NOT YOUR UNIQUE PERSONALITY) your personality is what sets people to like the REAL YOU.
here as a friend FOREVER! LOL!^_^
~Sammie~
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Aww! Don't let yourself get too down about this. EVERYONE can relate to what you are going through. Junior high and high school can be rough time if it doesn't seem like you "fit in". It's unfortunate that it has to be that way. Remember, it's not quantity it's quality that really matters. You don't have to have a million trillion friends to be happy. And you can popular in your own way-by being friends with everyone. That's what I try and do..like I'm friendly with all sorts of people in school and then I have my closest friends. Don't let other people's immatue perceptions about you keep you from doing what you want, and being who you are. I say just try and make friends with everyone. Switch up your lunch tables. Join some clubs. Run for student council. Get involved. Be active. Talk to kids in your class, in the halls, everywhere. Just be a talking machine a casually strike up a convo..if they says something along the lines of "you suck"-well then that's their loss and they are obviously not the kind of friend you want. The real people who matter will see how great you are! Show off your personality and humor. Tell a joke to your class just randomly or do something dorky. Just show your true colors. Have fun. Don't be afraid. What do you have to lose? These snobby people are no better than you-we're all equals! :)
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