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I lubs me some chicken nuggets!LOL!!! Hey my name is Samantha,
im 15, and im here for
anyone who needs advice
So if you need to talk...leave a question in my inbox and i will answer it ASAP.^_^ ti-hee
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gey well my good friend monica likes my ex boyfriend jeremy well jeremmy likes her and i dont want them to go out b/c the thought about my best friend and my ex it hurts okay she has alwaysed liked him and hel iked her to but i am with this guy and i cant get jeremy out of my head we have been broke up for a week now. so anyways how can i not let it bother me see he wants a girlfriend so he can get his mind off me and i am all he thinks about and i told him if you go out with monica it will harder for you to get over me b/c she is my best friend well one of them. see what i really need help on is should i let them go out and if i do will i stop our friendship b/c she knows that i still have feelings for him and she knows it kills me but do you think i can get through it? i mean i know i have a boyfriend and everything but he is 4 yrs older than me and i am 16 and jeremy is 16 monica is 16 so i want him back but if monica goes out with him do i need to break off our friendship? i am so confused plz help
you dont brake a friendship over a guy. anywho, he's single and she's single. you kno that thing that ppl always say about its bad to go out with your friends ex? well, you dont always have to go by that. your friend and your ex have a chance to go out with whomever they please. you wouldn't want your frined to hold you back from going out with who you wanted to be with. i kno what i said doesnt sound the greatest, but its the truth.
besides, if you went back out with your ex, then i kno that you wouldnt feel the same way like before. also, you might just end up dumping him again. i did that, and i regret it. but actually, your not supposed to regret the things you take part in.
remember that
sammie
My webcam comes out a little blurry, is it just my cam or can i fix that..
maybe if you fix the contrast on it then maybe it will come out clearer.
i dont kno if that's it but i hope i helped anyway.
sammie
hey well im now 14, and embarringly i havnet had my period is this a bad thing?? I mean i havent know anyone that got it in high school , and like im embarrased to talk to my mom about it help me please
it would be best if you talked to your mom about it, and then you should go to a doctor to get it checked out if your freaked out about it.
i've answered a question just like this one today. lol no matter
always here to help
sammie
hey i hate the mintiness burn of toothpaste and i heard baking soda works, but how do i use it as a toothpaste?? thanks for anyone who helps!
my mom's dad used to use baking soda as toothpaste. i actually does work cuz my grandfather's teeth were amazingly white. LOL! the thing is, it tastes really nasty.
really all you have to do is, get your toothbrush and put it in the toothpaste, then start brushing your teeth.
sammie
How can i loose a few inches fast before summer (Pref. around my stomach and thighs) ? I rate high!
you should do the pilates workout. you can go to walmart or some store to get the tapes for the workout. it really works.
sammie
i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!
mostly yes. the latest age you can get your first period IS 14. but if it scares you to the bitter end, then go get checked, just to be on the safe side. the doctors will tell you what to do.
sammie
ok ther is aguy at skool and we r friends.. he is always tells me thing that he doesnt tell other people ... and same thing i can tell him stuff like that to.. and we always talk on the fone 24/7..... and we always flirt .. i dont kno if he likes me .. i really do and how can i find out??
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if you and him can confide in eachother than you should just ask him and tell him how you feel about him.. plain and simple.
i kno that's not much...but there's really nothing else to say about it.
peace out girl scout
sammie
I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!
there's times like this when you have to just let go. Being with a man that is married is not in the category of a good relationship. there's too much conflict and its not easy to cope with. you should kno, you've been dealing with this for a while, ya? I kno that the guy has no idea what he is doing, and he is effecting you by holding on to you so dearly. If you feel like he's never going to leave his wife then why do you stay with him? i kno that most of this may sound really rude...but im not trying to make it sound that way, its just the truth.
stay cool girlie and good luck...
sammie
I have acrush on this boy and he doesn't know it! My friend is supposed to tell him tommorow... but i dunno if he will!!! Im worried cause i dont really wanna know his reaction... i really dont think he likes me and i dunno wat to do!!!!!!!
I think that you should tell the guy on your own. its only better that way. yes, it is very stressful, but once you tell him on your own you'll feel more confident with yourself. sending your friends to do your dirty work just isnt the key to acheiving anything. also, if you told him on your own you'll get to see his reaction instead of wondering what the reaction would be AND he can talk to you about it.
to be honest, it actually is ok to send your friends up to tell the guy, that you like, how you feel about them SOMETIMES. i just feel that you should not have to be afraid of a new challenge.
i really hope i helped sweetheart
sammie
ahh guys sorry..i didnt know where to put this as a category so i just put that -- but anyways does anyone know how to put the URL thing for your column? i wanna put a picture but i dont know how to..please H E L P !! aim- liljazzy013 much love xOx
go to profrile settings
it will say upload a picture of you and it will have a box that says browse
you click on browse
then you find the file that has the picture of you in it
you click on the picture that you want to put on your advice column
and then you save your changes
hope i helped
sammie
Well first I would like to say hi to everyone! I just found out about this place. But i was wonderin if u could help me out. K my family wants to move but i don't want to move so far away from my friends and when ever i try to talk to them about it they tell me to ignore it cuz i have no say in it. Wat should i do? Thx
Your parents are wrong for not giving you a say so in the move (becuz its supposed to be a FAMILY decision). the real excuse that they'll have is "do u pay the bills?" or "when your older and live by yourself THEN you can make the rules." i hate it when they do that. but as always...its in their nature. if what your saying doesnt have any effect, then maybe you should just make the move and then you can have a fresh new start/chapter to your new life. it will take some adjusting to but i kno you can do it. you can always write to your friends and maybe visit them in the summer with your parents permission, just think of it that way.
stay cool
sammie
I met a wonderful man one month ago. We were dating happily for 2 weeks when all of a sudden his ex-girlfriend now wants him back. They have 2 children together. He is now not sure what to do, he doesn't think she will ever commit, but he thinks he needs to try for the kids. He phones me every night and at the moment we are just friends. Do you think I stand a chance at keeping this man, and any advice on how I can keep him. Do you think I should be bold and tell him that I want him and that I would be the best thing for him ? He does really like me.
Just give it time. He will work out things on his own. I kno that the only reason that he is trying is becuz of this kids. i dont think that he wants to be with her. he wants to be with you. in time he will come back to you when he gets things straightened out.
hope i helped dudett
sammie ^_~
If a guy liked you, and you liked him alot, and he is gonna ask u out, thenyou hang out with him at a bandfest with friends one nite and hes ALL over you but at the end of the night he doesnt even talk to you anymore or n e thing, not even a good bye or anything, would you think he doesnt like you anymore?? would you give up on him?? or keep trying cuz you like him ALOT!!
honestly i would keep trying, you cant be completely sure, of how he feels about you, if you give up on something that you really wanted. keep trying hommie, get your special guy...
sammie
Sorry this is long, but I rate high.
Im moving soon, August to be exact. But there is this guy where i live now that Ive had a crush on since Feb. of 2004. I guess it's more than a crush now. Anyways, some people say he likes me but he never tells anyone who he likes so they just assume he does. Well, now that I'm moving I want to truly find out if he likes me so I can possibly make a move or I know to flirt more and w/e. Im so confused. I don't want to leave wishing I had done something. What do I do? Sorry this might be a little confusing...but Im just as confused. PLEASE HELP!
Go for it, by all means.. but try to leave not liking too much becuz that would leave you thinking about him a lot. But i think that you are right and i think that you should go for it dude!!1 whatever floats your boat on this one.
sammie
Me and my girlfriend had been goin out for a while but then the other day she broke up with me i asked her why and i found out she wasnt goin outr wit this other guy already. Please tell me what to do!
I kno that this is gonna sound extreamly simple. but forget about her. she doesnt deserve you. just keep your options open....dont focuse on one girl too much. it'll hurt your brain...LOL!!
sammie
okay theres this guy named ryan. i love ryan. ryan says he loves me.. but me nd him get inalot of fights.. not big ones though they last like 1 hour. soo today is my birthday.. me and him were gonna hang out and i walked really far to hang out with him and then he callz my cell and says he is hangin out with (people i hate) kansa and victorea... (there on drugs) i got mad.. very mad.. nd started to walk home.. then when i get home he callz my cell again and says wanna hang out.. and it was like 8 so i was like no and blah blah then i notice he was ingoreing me.. i got mad.. and i told my friends the story. he hurts me.ditchs me.. they think i should forget about him but idk what i should do i really love him.. i cry myself to sleep every night thinking about him.. every mintue of my class i cant stop thinking about him! should i leave him or no?
p.s me and him are not going out .. we love eachother though.
please help i rate high!
Sweetheart..i really think that you should just not talk to him anymore. dont waste your time on someone that seems like he doesnt really care even tho he says that he "loves" you. I think that there is another great guy who deserves your time...or if you dont want a guy after that dope than just hang out with your friends.. your friends are great for trying to help you hold your head high, now im another one if you want me to be a friend. You kno what to do.. you dont want to love someone that is like him, just be friends with the guy. besides, were naive on love right now. HA!!
~Sammie~ ^_~
Okey, my friend told me to ask this question. She has been shaving her mustach for about a year now..and it looks really bad!! what can she do? she cant wax because she gets rashes and for some reason it doesnt even work..and she cant tweez because there's too much hair. And she cant colour cuz it still shows..any suggestions?
I kno that this is gonna sound really bad and rude...but im not trying to be rude. tell her to stop shaving it for about 3 weeks and then go to a beauty store and then they will give her somehting to remove it with. trust me...it SHOULD work.
good luck
sammie
Okay Me and my botfriend just started going out, and i have ALOT of feelings for him. He is moving in April though and I dont want to break up with, but i dont want to get hurt. He told me that he would come back every weekend and wednesday, and he is finishing out the year. What was so convient is that he lived right down the street. I need some good advice for this one.
much love yal!
dont give up on the relationship. go with the flow basically. if you and him brake up becuz of him moving than that wouldnt have been a relationship in the first place. since you and him like eachother so much i think that you guys can make this work. you wouldnt want to brake up knowing that you didnt explore something or someone different, which is your boyfriend.
good luck girlie
sam
my 11 year old sister got her period, and she doesnt want her stuff in the bathroom or anywhere, because of my dad and brother.
may i suggest her putting it in her clothes drawer. or she could also hold them in her purse and not let anyone hold it. uh yeah, she could also put them in her closet.
hope i helped hun
sam ^_^
I'm 13 and i've never had a boyfriend! i know at least like 6 guys that like me but i never get asked out. what should i do??
So, there's six guys. GO GIRL! lol
well, pick one of your guys out and get to know him more. if you like your choice then yall should hang out and go to a movie sometime. Then, sooner or later that guy would work up the nerve to ask you out. ^_^
i hope i helped and good luck!
sam
P.S. update me on how things go with your special guy. ^_~