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hey help
gey well my good friend monica likes my ex boyfriend jeremy well jeremmy likes her and i dont want them to go out b/c the thought about my best friend and my ex it hurts okay she has alwaysed liked him and hel iked her to but i am with this guy and i cant get jeremy out of my head we have been broke up for a week now. so anyways how can i not let it bother me see he wants a girlfriend so he can get his mind off me and i am all he thinks about and i told him if you go out with monica it will harder for you to get over me b/c she is my best friend well one of them. see what i really need help on is should i let them go out and if i do will i stop our friendship b/c she knows that i still have feelings for him and she knows it kills me but do you think i can get through it? i mean i know i have a boyfriend and everything but he is 4 yrs older than me and i am 16 and jeremy is 16 monica is 16 so i want him back but if monica goes out with him do i need to break off our friendship? i am so confused plz help
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okay if your friend is that important to you don't dump her for this guy, and about your current boyfriend, which do you like better, only you can decide that, if you think you're over jeremy then you might want to try letting him and monica go out, my friend and the guy I used to like are dating, its hard I will say, but if you're over jeremy then let them go out, if not explain that to your friend, she should understand, just talk with her about it, hope I helped, good luck
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Well, I was in a similar situation. I was friends with this girl and her boyfriend. I met him first, and have liked him since first grade(which was when we met), and just kinda forgot about it because we both moved. I became really good friends with this girl in 10th grade..Then not too long after her and i became friends, they started dating. I was completely happy for both of them because i considered both of them to be my good friends. I kind of hid my feelings because they were happy, and i didn`t want to ruin anything with either of them. Well after they dated for a year, they broke up. Him and I continued to be friends and her and i became extremely close, then slowly fell apart. Currently I am with him and we're 100% happy. SO i guess what i`m trying to say, is that you can`t really help who you like...theres no set rule saying don`t date your friends ex's.(as much as people say its not right) It might hurt, but if you two weren`t meant for each other, why not let a potential relationship develop with them? you never know. All i can say is in the end, if he`s meant to be with you, then it will happen in the end. Only you can decide whether to continue the friendship with her.
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you dont brake a friendship over a guy. anywho, he's single and she's single. you kno that thing that ppl always say about its bad to go out with your friends ex? well, you dont always have to go by that. your friend and your ex have a chance to go out with whomever they please. you wouldn't want your frined to hold you back from going out with who you wanted to be with. i kno what i said doesnt sound the greatest, but its the truth.
besides, if you went back out with your ex, then i kno that you wouldnt feel the same way like before. also, you might just end up dumping him again. i did that, and i regret it. but actually, your not supposed to regret the things you take part in.
remember that
sammie
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Well, you are in a pretty tough situation! If Monica knows you still have something for Jeremy, than she shouldn't go out with him. You should tell Monica how you feel and if she doesn't care for what you say and goes out with Jeremy, she is not a true friend! Just try talking to her.
~oxkatekaylaxo
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Ugh that sucks. If she knows that you still like him, she would deff. not go out with him. Friends are not suppose to go out with their best friends ex boyfriend! Tell her how you feel, and if she still does go for him, she is no a true friend. Hope I've helped.
-Brianna
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hey, it looks like you're in a real hard situation. If your best friend (monica) knows that you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend then she should be able to think for herself that it's not right to go with him. In a friendship this would be wrong...On the other hand, you have a new boyfriend. If you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend then what are you doing with that new guy? If you plan on trying to get back with your old boyfriend (Jeremy) then you should end your relationship with your boyfriend as soon as possible...I think you should talk to Monica as well, tell her again what you still feel for Jeremy. Is she decides to date him anyway, then I think your friendship might not be real and certainly not worth it. You don't do that to your friends.
~~Naly~~
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