okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/
confusedbabii answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:14 pm: if she's going to talk crap about you behind your back, call you a bitch, ignore you, and try to control you about who you hang out with, she's not really your best friend, now is she?
you need to take a stand for yourself and make her realize that she cant control you. and if she cant handle the fact that you have other friends besides her, i would think that you wouldn't want to be friends with her anymore.
i say get some new friends, make her jealous, and tell her to stop thinking everything's about her. good luck & hope i helped!
_eMiLy answered Friday April 22 2005, 5:29 pm: She sounds like she's being really two-faced you should ditch her. Just stop going around with her, I know it's hard to just ditch your bestfriend but if she's being two faced she obviously doesn't consider you much of a bestfriend.
Best'a luck =]
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LidDLemiSzJkiDd answered Friday April 22 2005, 4:39 pm: Its a small world after all i guess. This has happened to me many times. too many times to count. If she was a real friend, then she wouldn`t be trying to keep you all to herself. She`s selfish, and sets double standards. If she can hang out with whoever she wants, than you can too. If she doesn`t like this then shes not a real friend hun, and i`m sure theres plenty of other people out there who's friendship you would enjoy much more. [ LidDLemiSzJkiDd's advice column | Ask LidDLemiSzJkiDd A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Friday April 22 2005, 4:13 pm: heyy .. just tell her that if she is going to ignore you all the time like that then your going to start hanging with other people besides her because she is not treating you good or fairly and that if she wants to hang with you she can but she cant treat you like crap all the time
o0xbrianna answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:46 pm: She sounds like a terrible friend. She just sounds jealous. A real friend wouldn't get pissed because you are hanging out with someone that is not her then talk behind your back. Just ask her why she can hang out with whoever she wants but you can't and why she can talk behind your back about it! Good luck.
naly_cage answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:36 pm: hey, that is not someone I call a friend. Friends don't call eachother names behind their backs. What she is doing is very unreasonable. You should end the so called friendship you two have, but...if you do, it might get worse. Seeing the way she acts, she'll probably act bitchy towards you any time you see her and she'll continue saying things about you behind your back. What you can do is confront her with the situation, maybe she's just jealous if you have other friends,..but either way, the way she acts is stupid and if she keeps on acting like this, just end it, it can't be any worse then it already is.
Karen answered Friday April 22 2005, 12:35 pm: This "best friend" of yours is definitely not a good friend. A friend would never stop you from hanging out with your other friends and they wouldn't ignore you, talk about you, and say things about you. You need to let go of her because you deserve so much better. Talking to her won't help, since you've tried that, and if she can hang out with who ever she wants when you can't, then that's wrong and you don't need this girl as your friend. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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