okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/
hey, that is not someone I call a friend. Friends don't call eachother names behind their backs. What she is doing is very unreasonable. You should end the so called friendship you two have, but...if you do, it might get worse. Seeing the way she acts, she'll probably act bitchy towards you any time you see her and she'll continue saying things about you behind your back. What you can do is confront her with the situation, maybe she's just jealous if you have other friends,..but either way, the way she acts is stupid and if she keeps on acting like this, just end it, it can't be any worse then it already is.
~~Naly~~
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gey well my good friend monica likes my ex boyfriend jeremy well jeremmy likes her and i dont want them to go out b/c the thought about my best friend and my ex it hurts okay she has alwaysed liked him and hel iked her to but i am with this guy and i cant get jeremy out of my head we have been broke up for a week now. so anyways how can i not let it bother me see he wants a girlfriend so he can get his mind off me and i am all he thinks about and i told him if you go out with monica it will harder for you to get over me b/c she is my best friend well one of them. see what i really need help on is should i let them go out and if i do will i stop our friendship b/c she knows that i still have feelings for him and she knows it kills me but do you think i can get through it? i mean i know i have a boyfriend and everything but he is 4 yrs older than me and i am 16 and jeremy is 16 monica is 16 so i want him back but if monica goes out with him do i need to break off our friendship? i am so confused plz help
hey, it looks like you're in a real hard situation. If your best friend (monica) knows that you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend then she should be able to think for herself that it's not right to go with him. In a friendship this would be wrong...On the other hand, you have a new boyfriend. If you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend then what are you doing with that new guy? If you plan on trying to get back with your old boyfriend (Jeremy) then you should end your relationship with your boyfriend as soon as possible...I think you should talk to Monica as well, tell her again what you still feel for Jeremy. Is she decides to date him anyway, then I think your friendship might not be real and certainly not worth it. You don't do that to your friends.
~~Naly~~
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well theres guy that i like like and were friends and yeah he flirts but then again he has a lot of friends that are gurls and well he flirts with them to but how do i find out if he likes me but what i was thinking since he's gradurating this year should i tell him at the end of the year that i like him but i think if i do than he'll just think that i was just another one added on to the list but what i fear most is that he's going to leave with my heart and i didnt do anything about it but then again i act like i do and he can pretty much see it in my eyes i think
Hey, I know this might sound really hard, but I think you should just tell him. If you're planning on telling him when he graduates then you might as well consider on telling him right away. Of course this is easier for me to say then you actually doing it. People think it's hard to expres their feelings to others, but in this case it can be so simple. Who knows if you might grow apart after he graduates,...you've got nothing to lose
~~Naly~~
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Well lets see, theres this guy and i like him alot and we went out before but he broke up with me after like a week, now supposably he likes me again or somethin and i still really like him, but hes 3 years soon to be 4 years older than me and there are plenty of other better looking girls that he knows, and if we were to go back out, who knows what will happen, i guess im tryin to say that im scared of getting hurt, what should i do? what if he doesnt really like me, and i probably like him alot more than he likes me so if he broke up with me if we went out it would be like easy for him and soo hard for me..
hi, it's obvious how much you like him. There are so many things in life that can go wrong that'll cause you to feel really bad. You'll never know what'll happen if you don't try. The feeling that he is going to dump you is probably just your feeling of insecurity coming up. I think you should try and work it out with him.
~~Naly~~
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hi well i just broke up with my ex about 2 going on 3 months and he quit school the day after we broke up well his bestfriend and him is saying that i am bisexual and i need to leave his sister alone b/c i dont need her or something like that. well my boyfriend now got told about it and now he dont know who to believe i never wrote a note about saying stuff like that what shhould i do i think he is trying to ruin my life at school he is physco and nuts well get back with thanks
hi, well first of all I guess your ex is pretty angry about the fact that the two of you broke up. This is probably his way of dealing with it, which is very unreasonable I may add. I think the thing you should do is talk to your ex and ask him why he's acting like that. If he's really angry then he'll probably won't listen to you and trying to contact him will make things worse. If that's the case, you're going to have to wait untill he cools off.
And about your (new)boyfriend, he should be able to trust you. It doesn't matter what other people say about you, it's your word that should count, not theirs. If he doesn't believe and trust you then he can either try and work on that or both of you should seriously think of where your relationship stands.
~~Naly~~
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