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help me plz someone answer me
hi well i just broke up with my ex about 2 going on 3 months and he quit school the day after we broke up well his bestfriend and him is saying that i am bisexual and i need to leave his sister alone b/c i dont need her or something like that. well my boyfriend now got told about it and now he dont know who to believe i never wrote a note about saying stuff like that what shhould i do i think he is trying to ruin my life at school he is physco and nuts well get back with thanks
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Wow...
First of all, you should tell your ex to bug off. Then tell your boyfriend to ignore your ex. If he is trying to ruin your life at school, tell him to just leave you alone.
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Hopefully your new guy will realize that the old one is just making the whole thing up. He has to trust you.
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hi, well first of all I guess your ex is pretty angry about the fact that the two of you broke up. This is probably his way of dealing with it, which is very unreasonable I may add. I think the thing you should do is talk to your ex and ask him why he's acting like that. If he's really angry then he'll probably won't listen to you and trying to contact him will make things worse. If that's the case, you're going to have to wait untill he cools off.
And about your (new)boyfriend, he should be able to trust you. It doesn't matter what other people say about you, it's your word that should count, not theirs. If he doesn't believe and trust you then he can either try and work on that or both of you should seriously think of where your relationship stands.
~~Naly~~
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uMm.. okay? well tell someone about it maybe a counclor so then maybe the problem can get resolved
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Well.....
I would love to answer your question. But to be able to do that I need some more information. How old are all of you? How is this info being spread around school if he is no longer a student? Does everyone know about the breakup and exactly how it went about? I'm going with you on the fact that you didn't write the note, but do they claim to have proof of this?? If so, why hasn't he shown everyone since it's sooo true??
And about your so called boyfriend.....
That's really nice how he could believe everyone else about what's going on with this situation instead of trusting you! That's a bunch of b.s!! He should be there for you no matter what if he really cares about you! I say dump his @ss too!!
Even if you don't answer my questions and my answer doesn't help you I hope it all works out for you!
Best of luck!
~ Amanda ;)
Updated after receiving response on my column:
Nikki,
Since you said that you don't really know why this is getting to you it sounds to me like you just need some peace of mind. There are many different ways you can get that. But if I were you considering this situation I would confront the ex myself. Tell him that you are tired of the b.s. and he just needs to find another way to boost what self-esteem he has left. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if you made a fool out of him in front of everyone, but hey...if he does...why not?! Maybe that's what he needs to shut his mouth ... a taste of his own medicine. Give it to him good girl!! He needs to take it and like it!! :)
Again, best of luck to you!
~ Amanda ;)
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