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Scared Of Getting Hurt
Well lets see, theres this guy and i like him alot and we went out before but he broke up with me after like a week, now supposably he likes me again or somethin and i still really like him, but hes 3 years soon to be 4 years older than me and there are plenty of other better looking girls that he knows, and if we were to go back out, who knows what will happen, i guess im tryin to say that im scared of getting hurt, what should i do? what if he doesnt really like me, and i probably like him alot more than he likes me so if he broke up with me if we went out it would be like easy for him and soo hard for me..
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He's probably to old for you. But, if you want to try it again go ahead. People get hurt all the time. If we did things based on not getting hurt we'd never get anything done!
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I have gone through the EXACT same thing as you.Except that the boy is about 6 hours away from me, 2 years older than me, and my parents had no clue.I got back together with my guy about.....hmmmmm....well really a year ago but we had a little fight,but now we together.He broke up with me in June,he went away to California for a month and then came bak asking for me.He came bak just for me!If this guy really likes u,he will come bak.But,if he is a shy little boy then go ask him does he like u anymore.If he doesnt,then oh well.Right?I mean,us women dont always need 1 man to support us!So ask.I am sure u can find a better guy.Plus,i read in a magazine that older men accept younger women because of their pure soul.Or something like that,not sure!But anyway,just ask and get it over with.
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grow up ....
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hi, it's obvious how much you like him. There are so many things in life that can go wrong that'll cause you to feel really bad. You'll never know what'll happen if you don't try. The feeling that he is going to dump you is probably just your feeling of insecurity coming up. I think you should try and work it out with him.
~~Naly~~
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You've got to take risks. It seems you took one in the past, but you can't give up on things you love. Take risks and see what happens. Yes, something might happen, but you don't know if it will be more hard on or him. Who knows, maybe your relationship with him will grow, and he'll grow emotionally. What I mean by that is the only girl he will see is you, and you are the only girl he wants to see. Remember you'll miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
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aww seems like you like him - alot. i understand how you feel. everyday i worry about getting hurt. its something that you cant get off your mind once its happened to you. i think you should g for it and try to be with him as long as possible and cherish the time that you have with him. lots of luck 2 u.
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