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Leaving with regrets?
Sorry this is long, but I rate high.
Im moving soon, August to be exact. But there is this guy where i live now that Ive had a crush on since Feb. of 2004. I guess it's more than a crush now. Anyways, some people say he likes me but he never tells anyone who he likes so they just assume he does. Well, now that I'm moving I want to truly find out if he likes me so I can possibly make a move or I know to flirt more and w/e. Im so confused. I don't want to leave wishing I had done something. What do I do? Sorry this might be a little confusing...but Im just as confused. PLEASE HELP!
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well the same thing happened to me i moved in 2000 in august and i had a big crush on this one guy but i never told him when i moved here i couldn't stop thinking about him i would always call and we would talk i never told him how i felt so when you have the time tell him you really like him
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since you are moving and mighty not get to see him in a very long time thn just feel him excalty how you feel that way when you move you cna know you have a lover or just mayeba freind back home and you wont be questing yourself all the time weather he liked you or not .. if you keep bottled up to yourself your going to regre it trust me!
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you may never have this chance again, do what your heart tells you to do. let him know how you feel
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Since you are leaving, what's the big deal if you flirt with him or whatever? He might like you too, don't regret not doing anything, make a move, and if you can tell that he's not interested then don't bother. As I always say, IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, IT WILL HAPPEN! If let's say it does or even doesn't work out, remain friends with him and maybe give him your screen name to keep in touch. GO FOR IT, don't move regretting ANYTHING. Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything else, message me! ♥
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Ask him out! Or at least ask him if he likes you. What have you got to lose if he doesn't? It's not like you ever have to see him again if you don't want to. If he likes you, then you can either just be happy that he does and glad you found out, or you can choose to do something about it, even though it would be a long-distance relationship.
If I was you, I'd ask him out about two weeks before I moved (unless of course you're on summer holiday then...in which case I'd ask him two weeks before the summer holiday). That way you have a little while (plus the holiday) with him if he likes you back, or you don't have to be embarassed for too long if he doesn't.
Good luck :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Here's the thing, if you find out he does like you are you going to happy with a relationship that only has months to live? Long distance romance doesn't work very well.
Of course you don't say how far you are going. If not far then it wouldn't be a problem.
The descision is your's to make, just giving you something to think about :)
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you should ask him.. i know it will be hard but its better than not knowing what couldve happened and regretting it. good luck!
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this will be hard, but, you should go up to him and tell him that you have liked him for awhile and that your moving and you just wanted to make a move!!
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Why dont you ask him? If you make a fool of yourself you're moving anyways and it doesnt matter.
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It depends on your age. Because if your like 12-16 you probably shouldn't make a move because its a very slim chance it will work out. But on the other hand if your 17- or older you have a better chance of it working out.
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Go for it, by all means.. but try to leave not liking too much becuz that would leave you thinking about him a lot. But i think that you are right and i think that you should go for it dude!!1 whatever floats your boat on this one.
sammie
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