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omg. ok like when i walk around all the guys like 15 to 16 ask me to get in a car with them or try to get me 2 hang out with them and stuff im 13 but they think im older but i mean you have to addmit that 13 year old guys are really inmature some arent even into girls yet. well at laest in my world. id want a bf older but then it seems like theyd just use me or try to have sex with me.like one tryied..... do yeah i dont no what to do i dont want to go out with a guy my age i want one older. and like where do i meet them? ok sry if this is really dumb im leaving before i make a bigger fool of myself
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you are right about the maturity thing. im in 8th grade and there are only a few mature guys which makes it hard on us mature girls. but personally, i wouldnt go out with a 15 or 16 year old when i was 13. at that point in their lives, all they want is sex like you said, at least most of them. there are a few, but they arent going to be the guys that ask u to get in their cars, so thats a bad idea. i cant really answer this question well seeing as though i dont know the personality of these guys, but if you really want an older bf, hang out with one your interested in, BUT make SURE your with a friend so they cant try anything you dont want on you. do that until you gain their total trust, then decide if their right for you. hope i helped!
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well dont go for a 15 -16 yearb old guy maybe 14 the highest
jenn102
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By dating guys that are "mature" you are making a fool of yourself, Guys who are 15 or 16 are not anymore mature than 13 year old boys. Guys who use you for sex are no good either, and you need to stop walking around by yourself, or just stop walking around, because soon they won't take no for an answer. Yes, in the teen girl world, guys are immature at your age, but you need to deal with it, because not waiting and rushing yourself into an older guy gets you into trouble. You don't need to find somebody right now. You have much more time, all you need to do is wait. Or you will find yourself getting into sex at your age, they won't want to wait until you both fall deeply in love and then have sex. Don't try to get older guys, stay at your age range, because dating guys that are older make you a bigger fool, it makes you immature, and it makes you pregnant at 15.
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Sounds like you're already meeting them!
You are to young for sex. Dating doesn't have to mean sex. Just say no. Don't let them pressure you into it. They will all try you at some point, just let them know you aren't ready for that yet. The good ones will ask you out again.:)
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Why dont you just be friends? You treat it like every older guy you meet you have to go out with.
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Are you on speed?
Anyways, you should only date older guys if you are mature and you don't seem mature. You seem kind of dumb, which means they probably just want you for sex.
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lol.. well.. ive alwaes gone for older guys.. and ive met them at sk0ol.. like.. but when i was in junior high.. i would meet them.. at like.. the mall.. or maii friends spanish chrch.. .. haha.. good tymes.. but yuhh.. like.. at malls.. and guys arent all like that.. and they usually dont mind going for younger girls... :)
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