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ok, so i imed this guy i liked 2 days ago, and he was talking a lot and asking me stuff..and he usually never does this so i was excited. And i wanted to ask him to this dance for friday..my friend talked to him at lunch and asked him if he wud say yes if i aksed him and she sed that he sed "prolly yes", and that he seemed enthusiastic about it. So then today, i imed him and he didnt say word...and then put an away up.. Should i not ask him, and do you think that he doesnt like me? Thanks.
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Maybe he just got shy. If he does that again just leave him a message asking him to he dance (unless you want to ask him anothr way) and either stay on or leave an away message and check it.... often. If you don't get an answer from him then. Ask him in school the next day and say so what's the answer to my question yes or no. If he has no idea then just blurt out, not loud, Will you go to the dance with me? Make sure you guys are alone so he won't be embarrassed at all.
Good luck!!
Karazi Kenzee
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Dont worry if he didnt talk to you on AIM. Just talk to him and ask him to the dance. He already said he probablly will so dont worry about it. x0
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u should ask him or have a friend ask him for u he prolly figured u were gonna ask him right then and he got nervous
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Why he didn't answer, could be a result of many things. But don't let your mind drift to far!
Have you ever gotten IMed while you left for a second, and when you get back to your computer, you see all these IMs on your computer screen? That could be one explanation...
The sad but true, maybe he didn't answer because he didn't want to give you the wrong ideas, which is why he said "probably yes"
OR he's nervous you won't like him.
I'd go ahead and ask him!!!
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I think I would ask him. He probably had someone interuppt his conversation earlier.Don't read to much into that. Go ask! :)
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Hmm, maybe he was busy and you're just over reacting.
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How is it that you can spell enthusiastic correct but not would?
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hey look this guy said he would say "yes." right sooooo dont get all worked ^cuz he wouldnt talk 2 u on AIM!!! just ask him and if says "yes." GREAT! but if he says "no" ask him y (and it is fine if he says no 2!)!!! just take ur chances!!! i hope i helped!!! *advice grl*
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I think you should ask him to his face next time. When you IM people and you talk about somehting serious or ask them a serious question, to me, its very impersonal. You never see the facial expression or anything. When go to school friday, look him in the eye and ask, that way, you'll get a definite answer.
MAd Love,
Victoria
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You should definitely ask him to the dance. Maybe he had to go do something and when he came back, he saw your IM and had to go so he put up his away message. He probably does like you, since he told your friend that he would probably say yes if you asked him to the dance. When he put up his away message, that didn't mean that he didn't like you or was trying to avoid you so don't worry.
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If you have to get your friend to ask him these sort of questions for you, it doesn't sound like you're very close. When you IMed him, he was probably embarassed because of what he told your friend. Talk to him in person and ask him to the dance.
-Kigeto
--at first I had this confused with another question and gave an answer that made no sense. Sorry about that. ^^
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Hey there,
Ahh .. the world of life and love... IM is a really hard way to meet people ... you never really know how that person is putting on a persona, no matter how authentic he or she may seem. This guy on the other hand may have just gotten scared and didn't know how to respond to your invitation. Question ... have you met this guy before in person, or is purly a written correspondence so far? I'd take a less forward approach and start of your next convo with "hi" how's your day, and talk about stuff you usually do, then as he gets more comfortable ask him why he failed to respond to your invitation. If he's scared he may just reveal that ... if he doesn't want to go, he may say that as well (in which case, girl there are much better guys than him to go with ...) Hey even going to dances with a bunch of gal friends is a blast ... let me know know if there is anything else I can help with .. .aly_boschee@yaoo.com
take care and have a great time at the dance ...
alyssa
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