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My boyfriend who I truly love just broke up with me. It was because I told this one guy I was going to break up with my boyfriend but soon I realized how much I loved my boyfriend. I apolozied so many times but he said he doesnt believe me. He still loves me. My question is how can I get him back? I love him. Dont say "Move On" because I am not giving up hope plus my school is really small and only has 50 people I already dated 3 guys and dont want to look slutty moving on so fast plus I love my ex. I will rate high for good advice
!Lilcutie1212!
the like. best thing ive ever done to get someone back is not to talk to them cuz if you dont.. then they realize how much they need and want you. tHERES NOtHiiNG A GUY WANtS MORE tHAN SOMEtHiiNG HE CANt HAVE!!
hey, you seem good at giving advice for relationships, i was wondering...i have this boyfriend right now and we're both in 8th grade and highschool's just around the corner but theres a problem, we're going to diff. schools and we dont wanna end it but i already have boys after me like crazy. i dont wanna break up with him bcz he means the world to me but..i'm afriad we're both gonna find someone new! what should i do? I'm so confused.
you might both find people your attracted to.. or whatever.. but.. if yall really like each other.. then you can stae together!! and that might sound hard.. but.. its really not.. if yall can styll see each other on the sk0ol daes... afetr sk0ol.. and on weekends.. i kno like.. 97326478216 couples who have dunn that!!
last week was spring break for me, and i went to the beach. While i was there, i got sunburned. My face is peeling and all. My question is, will it be ok to get my eye brows waxed tomorrow or will it make my face peel more?
i dont thynk it will make it peel more.. but it will probably really hurt!! i would wait till your face gets better!!
14/f
I hate my legs. They are freckled and ugly. And to make things worse, they are hairy. I hate shaving; it takes too long, I cut myself, I get bored, and hair grows so fast you have to do it every 2 days or more! At my school, and lots of places, it is "gross" for girls to have hairy legs. It's so unfair! How can I rid my legs of hair without shaving? (Not Nair because I'm allergic.) Please help.
ew.. l0l.. you need to get them waxxed or sumthyng then..
Im too scared to use a tampon im in my 1st full year of my period and ive been using pads how safe are tampons i read in my bliss magazine that a tampon made this 18 yr old girl slip into a coma for 2 weeks what if that happens to me!! Do they hurt? After you used one are you classed as a non-virgin? Do they tickle? What are they like?
Luv ya x
no.. they dont hurt.. and i dont thynk your gunna go into a coma.. and they dont take awae ur virginity.. your styll a virgin till you have sex.. i dont think theres any.. like.. bad thyngs about them.. and you cant even feel them
i dont no why,but i cant sleep at night anymore! i get so tired in the day! Could anyone help me with this?
omg.. im like that too!! uhm.. idn what to do.. i try to like.. stae up during the dae.. so i can sleep at nite... and sometimes that works.. but like.. i fall asleep in maii classes.. and then when i get home.. so.. yuh.. just try to make youself stay up during the dae..
I stareted writing a story today at school, its about 6 pages long. So far it is about a girl, Melody, and she has the best boyfriend ever, Justin, and some friends, Ashley, Kirsten, and Kirstens boyfriend to be, Mike, and i'll add some other people too.
well melody and kirsten are best friends, and they have a double date, and are going shopping.
thats what i have so far!!
I need some cute names and if you have any good ideas, or just soemthing cool to put in the story!!
Thanks In Advance-
-*KeLs*-
okay.. they could be at the mall.. and melody can run into her ex boyfriend {cameron}..and she alwaes knew the reason they broke up was because he cheated on her with another girl.. but.. all of the sudden.. from the way kristen is acting.. she figures oyut that it was kristen.. so.. they end theyre shopping trip.. and they still went on the date and the whole time.. they were being rude to each other.. then finally.. justin was like.. oMg!! whats going on?!? and melody just spilled it all.. so.. mike got mad at kristen.. because she knew when melody was going out with cameron that he was hers.. and you kno? they were BEST FRIENDS!! so.. the date ended early.. and mike and kristen.. got mad at each other.. and melody and justin just went back and chilled at melodys house.. anywaes.. so the next dae.. kristen is starting to feel really bad.. but all of the sudden.. cameron calls her.. and he was like.. wow.. you looked so good.. i realized how much i miss you.. and omg.. so then she was being stupid.. (like most girls are) and was like.. omg.. i want you back.. so.. she met him up and they ate lunch together.. and he told her all the crap that guys tell girls.. so.. okay.. her and cameron are starting to like each other again.. and melody.. omg.. shes pissed.. so.. she.. and mike.. go and start mean rumors all over the school about kristen and pretty much make her life hell.. well.. justin doesnt like that his girlfriend is being sooo mean just because of something that happened in the past.. so.. justin and melody break it off.. okay.. so.. now.. mike and melody are like.. starting to fall for each other.. but like.. only because they both hate kristen now.. okay.. so.. kristen was on the phone with cameron one night.. when justin called her.. and was like.. "hey.. im really sorry about what melody is doing to you.. i understand that that was in the past.. " and like.. we all kno that kristen kind of deserves it.. i mean.. who would do that to a friend.. but then again.. whyy would melody be freaking out so much?!? so.. justin convinces kristen to call melody.. okay.. so she did.. and melody was at the mall with mike.. looking at prom dresses.. and she was like.. " uh huh.. what ever.. blah blah" and all of the sudden.. she sees cameron.. at the mall with this slut from theyre rival cheerleading squad.. neveah.. and melody was still on the phone with kristen.. so she was like.. "ommggg!!! okay.. i kno were fighting.. but cameron is here with neveah.. " and of corse kristen didnt believe her.. so.. melody took her camera phone and sent it to kristen.. and they were like.. omgg!! we have to get him back.. and you kno.. they were best friends again.. so.. melody is with mike.. and she was like.. okay.. lets go.. and they did.. and kristen was like.. omg.. lets go get justin.. i feel bad for leaving him out.. and kristen and justin started to have a little fling as theyre trying to figure waes to get cameron back.. so.. now.. its like.. completly flipped.. melody and mike.. and justin and kristen... but now.. theyre all going to get back cameron.. because he was leading kristn on while he was with thys slut you kno?! so.. they all go.. and justin gets neveahs attention.. and she is flirting with him.. and cameron is getting pissed off.. well.. as he is about to whoop justin.. kristen comes out.. and shes like.. hey hun!!! and camerons like.. omgosh.. im getting caught.. and then mike and melody come out.. and (neveah is wearing alll whiite!) and melody pours blue slushy alllll over her outfit.. and she was like.. "omg.. thys jacket was like.. 2o0o dollars.. " and mike was like.. danggg.. that sucks.. then mike and melody and justin and kristen left the mall.. leaving cameron and nevaeh humililiated...
l0l.. omg.. wow.. that was fun.. l0l.. :) gawd im a loser
omg. ok like when i walk around all the guys like 15 to 16 ask me to get in a car with them or try to get me 2 hang out with them and stuff im 13 but they think im older but i mean you have to addmit that 13 year old guys are really inmature some arent even into girls yet. well at laest in my world. id want a bf older but then it seems like theyd just use me or try to have sex with me.like one tryied..... do yeah i dont no what to do i dont want to go out with a guy my age i want one older. and like where do i meet them? ok sry if this is really dumb im leaving before i make a bigger fool of myself
lol.. well.. ive alwaes gone for older guys.. and ive met them at sk0ol.. like.. but when i was in junior high.. i would meet them.. at like.. the mall.. or maii friends spanish chrch.. .. haha.. good tymes.. but yuhh.. like.. at malls.. and guys arent all like that.. and they usually dont mind going for younger girls... :)
Be4 anyone reads this that is a punk i have nothing agints you. i just dont understand you.
My problem is that my BESTEST friend in the whole world was like a pretty girl and was well prepy and now all she wants to do is be a sk8 boreder and wear black and she is always like pink is and evil color! She used to let me brush her hair and put her make up on but now she wont even let me touch her. I think that are relationship is floating away and i never wont that to happen. I know she has a right to be her own person but i dont like the person she os becoming and I dont want to change her bak its just i wont to understand wats going on with her and y she want to change all of a sudden i just am confused plz help me dont let our friendship fade wat should i do to figure this out and be able to understand her again.
-confused-
omg!!! lol.. same thing happened to me last year with maii bestststtst friend ((isabellll)) l0l.. yeah.. she was turning all punk and weird.. {{no offence to punk people either.. it was weird for her.. cuz shes sooooo preppy}} anywaes... she grew out of it in like.. a month.. so.. you friend probably will too.. :)
my name is amy iam 18 and i recently got out of my three year relationship with my first love david. we had an awesome relationship with no major difficulties. the only pitt fall of us was that early in our relationship i cheated on him, it was nothing serious, but it took a lot for us to get through it, but we did and we were very happy up until now. i was the cause of our breakup because we were both going into our senior year and i felt like some healthy space between us would be good. we both agreed that we didnt want to just be completely done so after about three months of taking things slower and casually dating around we both decided to get back together. a week after this mutual he decided to date erika. she had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years just a couple of days before her and david got together. her brother had recently committed suicide due to steroids that had been supplied to him by erikas boyfriend which promoted her to break up with him. i was mad and hurt when i found out and just gave david all the cliche "i hope you know what your loosing" and "no one can love you the way i can" lines. he only replied with an "iam sorry i will always love you". we didnt talk for two weeks, then he started to randomly call and text message me, while he was still dating erika. i stayed strong and resisted him for a month. over thanksgiving break i finally gave in and answered my phone. we talked for hours about nothing and made plans to go job hunting the next day and try out our new relationship as "friends". although i acted as if nothing was wrong the next day, i was hurting inside so bad. all i wanted to do was say how much i missed him and how i wished he would take me back. but i didnt. i held back my emotions until i was in the privacy of my room. i promised myself then that i was never going to call him first, and i haven't to this day. if he wanted to hang out he could call me. we went a couple of days without talking when he called me one night and asked me to come over to look at something he got for his car. it was late and against my better judgement i went. we ended up getting intimate and we both cried to each other and came to what i thought was the understanding that we both werent ready to be "friends" and to just treat this night as closure and i asked him to not call me anymore. that lasted about a week. since then we have been off and on for five months now, he has intimately cheated on erika countless times with me that she doesnt know about. i know that our relationship is wrong and unhealthy and ive tried to cut it off many times but i always give into him becuase he doesnt listen to me when i tell him not to call. i would always avoid the erika subject around david mostly because i was afraid of what i was going to hear, but i recently got up the courage to ask him if he really loved her. he said that he really did and i told him that i didnt believe him, and i still dont. i told him to leave my room if he really loved her and he quickly changed the subject and stayed the entire night. when i asked him how and why he loved her he said she was really caring, implying that i didnt care about him because of the mistake i made so early on in our relationship. i dont believe that david loves erika not only becuase he cheats on her, but he doesnt even have the decency to tell her about it. i feel as thought david feels obligated to her because of her brther and becuase of how fast she attatched herself to him because of how vulnerable she was. although we have finally stopped telling each other we love each other i know with everything that we still do. he still tells me that he doesn't want to lose me and that he has a lot of feelings for me still. ive told him that that is pretty hard to believe when he has been saying i love to someone else for the past five months and he never says anything back to me. i know iam not being nieve because i can feel how in love we are still when we're together, and not just physically, our best friend connection is still there. ive told him all of this and he doesn't agree or disagree. when i asked him recently why he never responds with anything relevant to what i ask, he said that he didnt want to say something to get my hopes up. i told him that i didnt care what he said to me as long as it was what he truly feels and if he truly feels like hes ready to just walk away from us and be with erika then he needs to say it so i dont sit around thinking something is there when its not. that conversation took place yesterday and he didnt reply and that was the last time we talked. i know the right thing to do would be to just move on and forget about him, but thats so hard to do when everything inside of me knows that we're going to be together and that he truly loves me. we are going to be starting the same college in the fall so it not like its going to end after high school. i dont want to lose my best friend but i cant handle being on his back burner anymore. i know that we could be happy again, and i know that he doesnt love erika. i just really want to know the right words to say to him, and if i should follow my heart and try to be with the one person i have ever loved or if we are just doomed. i want my best friend back. please help me :(
okay.. this is how i see it.. he doesnt love her.. because if he seriously loved her.. with all his heart.. he wouldnt keep coming to you.. and he should not rub it in your face that you cheated on him.. because what hes doing is just as bad. i also think she deserves to know.. if she knew.. she could get over someone who is cheating on her and be with someone who truly loves her.. also.. i know you love him.. but seriously think about it.. if you and him ever started officailly dadting again.. he would probably cheat on you.. because it obviously doesnt bother him to cheat. at least you had the decentsy(sp?) to tell him.. he is leading this girl on..
what i would do.. is.. when he calls.. doooonntt answer.. and if you MUST answer.. tell him you guys can chill and hang out.. but.. nothyng like that.. tell him its because he has a girl and you dont thynk its right that he's cheating on her..
then stick to it.. dont just say it.. and not go thru with it!!
once you havent done anythyng in a while.. he might realize how important you are to him.. and that he wants you more then erika..
until then.. i would go to clubs.. and go party and meet new people.. try to find someone in the mean time.. and dont sit at home.. because that will make you want him.. find things to take your mind off him!!
... good luck!
Is it okay to fall for someone if they complement you and make you feel amazing when ever your feeling down and make you laugh all the time?
What if they were 6 years older than you?
Please help...
yes.. thats sweet.. and dont worry bout age.. unless... ur like.. 12.. and theyre 18.. omg.. lol.. or if ur 11.. and theyre 17.. wow.. well.. maybe it would be better if you were like... 18 and they were 24
ok well i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot we talk on line and sometimes on the phone (i always call him he never calls me) and at school we don't talk at all. i am his first girl friend he has ever had but i can't stand not talking to him. i want to talk to him at school but i'm shy and hes shy not good not good at all. i was just wondering what i should do? i rate high
just.. go up to him and start talking.. if you act like your not nervous.. and its no big deal.. then it will ease thyngs up with yall!! good luckk
thongs are like really in and i was wondering if anyone who has used one can give my pros and cons of wearing them since at this rate i'll never where one myself
*pros*
no pantyline
cuter then other underwear
more comfortable
*cons*
there are none
i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you.
.. like.. rub their arm.. or.. sit really close to them.. lol.. and some guys like it when your abusive.. haha
ok i have wavy/curley thick hair and i striaghten my hair most of the time with a blow dryer and i was wonderin if anyone know how i can striaghtn my tips they are always wavy i dont know how to get them striaght. i used to iron my tipes which made them go striaght but i dont do that anymore because it damages my hair too much. can advice i can use?
omgg.. thats how maii hair is.. and maii haiir is alwaes soo strate cuz i have a chi.. theyre kinda expensive.. but theyre worth alll the money.. they work sooo good.. and dont damage your hair!!
gOoD LuCkkk!!
im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
omg... why would you sae that about ur friend? well.. no offence hun.. but if i were a guy.. i wouldnt care if you were the hottest thyng ive eveerrr seen.. i would NEVERRR even talk to you.. you sound like a stuck up little... girl.. and you need to grow up.. and.. believe it or not.. you can be gorgeous.. but if you act like that.. youll never get a boyfriend!
sorry hun.. but.. its tru
:) andie
Ok, I'm like head over heels in love with this one guy. I know, cliche. But i'm only 15, and he already is planning us getting married and all this stuff. Now, dont' get me wrong, i wanna marry him, but i dont' want him to start saying all this stuff and end up hurting me. So i'm having trouble telling him i love him, but he means the world to me. How do i tell him without the risk of gettin hurt?
.. gawsh.. thats like.. exactly like whats happining with meh..like.. i kno i like him.. but i thynk.. if i tell him.. or like.. admit it.. then i will be the one who gets hurt {{again}} but.. what maii sister told meh is that.. people are gunna get hurt.. but if you really like him.. then you shuud risk it.. and if he is all that you thynk he is.. then he wont hurt you...
well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?
thanx a bunch!
omg.. be paris and nicole.. and make shrts and omg.. okay.. make shrts and whoever is being paris.. make hers sae "thats hot" and whoever is nicole.. make it sae " loves it!" and wear skirts.. and high heels!!! :)
Ok here it goes.. sometime when i get depressed from school (either from friends or sumting else) my way to get over it is to eat. Sometimes when im not depressed i eat anywayz. When my mom goes on walks, i eat more and she doesnt know. I want ot lose wait but i know if i start eating right it would help alot! do you know how to make me stop eating all this junk!?!?!
please help me!
take out all tha junk food in ur house.. and tell ur mum to go and get healthy food.. and when you feel like eating.. at least you will be eating healthy food!
my friends r getting on my nerus because this boy asked me out & that is the same boy they wanted to go with. what should i do?
two opinions
1. i dont thynk you shuud go out with him then... alwaes pick your friends over guys.. bcuz guys probably wont last as long as friends.. and its not worth risking
2. if your friends are the type of people to backstab you.. and they would go out eith him knowing you like him and you know they would... then go out with him.. lol.. yeah..
hOpE i HeLpeD!