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HELP! lol
hey, you seem good at giving advice for relationships, i was wondering...i have this boyfriend right now and we're both in 8th grade and highschool's just around the corner but theres a problem, we're going to diff. schools and we dont wanna end it but i already have boys after me like crazy. i dont wanna break up with him bcz he means the world to me but..i'm afriad we're both gonna find someone new! what should i do? I'm so confused.
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BREAK IT OFF YOUVE GOT BIGGER AND BETTER GUYS AHEAD OF YOU IN THE FUTURE!!!!!!
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yeah... I've got issues with the samething, this girl I really like & I are going to differnt high schools & it sucks, but I mean, if you think you can make it work, try it, & if it dosen't then you'll find someone else! high school is alot bigger than middle school! & you sound like a very attractive girl, so I'm shure you'll find another guy, ok? ;)
-Cameron
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Staying together while at different schools is hard but you can get through it. Since highschool's just around the corner... you both should be getting permits and can get around to dating alot more. Sure, parents are going to be around, but you still get to see eachother. You can be friends with other people at your school, but that doesn't mean you have to break up. Long distant relationships(or going to different schools) relationships last as long as you want them to. Your in control. If you want to stay together, you'll find a way. Just don't stop talking and seeing eachother. Those guys just don't get the picture yet... you're taken.
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you might both find people your attracted to.. or whatever.. but.. if yall really like each other.. then you can stae together!! and that might sound hard.. but.. its really not.. if yall can styll see each other on the sk0ol daes... afetr sk0ol.. and on weekends.. i kno like.. 97326478216 couples who have dunn that!!
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Try convincing you parents (or whoever chose your school) to go to the same school as your boyfriend, If yo can't, Spend alot of time with eachother like hanging around after school and invite him over to do stuff.. And for weekends, try being with him like the whole weekend. Try having sleepovers?? (i know sounds stupid but trust me it gets you to spend more time with him)
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Well, you have control over half of the situation. If you don't want to break up with him, then don't. Be very clear with new guys that you're in a relationship. The other thing you'll have to do is trust that he will do the same. You guys will need to be open and honest.
All of that being said, none of this is concrete. If you meet someone else, or even just decide you don't want to be with your boyfriend anymore, then you can end it. Every relationship you're in will help you learn and grow, and it's okay to move on when you outgrow the place you are currently at.
Examine your heart and figure out what you really want to do - and then do it every few weeks. Hearts can change, and it's important that we listen to what they're saying.
Best of luck in high school and love!
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I think you should definitely continue going out with him. Enjoy the time together while you can. It is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all. If you two DO find new people in high school (I hope it doesn't happen though), don't be afraid to break it off. There is not rule that says you can only date one person for the rest of your life. Dating is about bonding with someone and finding what you like and don't like and finding your soul mate. Plus, you never know if you'll find someone new in high school for sure anyway, so better to take a chance.
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