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love... maybe
Ok, I'm like head over heels in love with this one guy. I know, cliche. But i'm only 15, and he already is planning us getting married and all this stuff. Now, dont' get me wrong, i wanna marry him, but i dont' want him to start saying all this stuff and end up hurting me. So i'm having trouble telling him i love him, but he means the world to me. How do i tell him without the risk of gettin hurt?
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in all relationship type deals there is always the chance you're gonna get hurt. there's no stopping it. so your choices are go for it and hope and pray for the best or forget him and become single. he seems like a really sweet guy and since you like him so much you should tell him. that's what i would do. hope i helped.
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If he is already talking about getting married he must love you with all his heart so i dont think you should worry about getting hurt tell him you love him because it seems like you guys love eachother alot hope it helps feedback please
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Whenever you are in any relationship, there is always a chance that you could get hurt. That is a risk that you have to take. Regardless of whether or not you tell him that you love him right now you still feel it, he could still break up with you and it will still hurt. Depending on how long you and him have been together, and how strong this feeling of love is, depends on when you should say it to him. Love is a funny thing. For some it comes really fast, and for others it can take weeks even months. You will know when the time is right to express your love for him. The perfect moment will come along, and you will feel that that moment is the right time. You will just have to risk getting hurt. <b>It is better to love and be hurt, then never to have loved at all.</b>
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YOu cant. If you're to scared of the pain just dont say it.
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why would you get hurt by telling him you love him?? haha thats funny, i've never heard of a guy doing that before.
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hm tricky. but..to be honest, you cannot hide from getting hurt by love. love will ALWAYS find a way to backfire and hurt you. the more you try and hide from it, the more it backfires on you and hurts you more. its completly understandable to be nervouse 2 say those words. they are 3 very big words.has he said them to you yet? maybe wait until he says them and then try and figure out your feelings on saying them back! hope i helped.goodluck
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First of all, you don't need to be getting married at 15 years old. And love is a VERY strong word. If you love him that much, that you would want to spend the REST of your life with him, then tell him you love him. You might end up getting hurt... that's why I suggest not to get too serious with this guy. Good-luck!
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.. gawsh.. thats like.. exactly like whats happining with meh..like.. i kno i like him.. but i thynk.. if i tell him.. or like.. admit it.. then i will be the one who gets hurt {{again}} but.. what maii sister told meh is that.. people are gunna get hurt.. but if you really like him.. then you shuud risk it.. and if he is all that you thynk he is.. then he wont hurt you...
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dear love...maybe, if i was u i would start out w/ a romantic place start doing your stuff and while you are doing your stuff say i love you and tell him how much he means to you.
keep in touch
~GuMBuM~
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