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Me and my boyfriend did it on the 11th (i remember because i went to my friends party afterward). The first time we did it we used protection then we took a break and did it again but didn't use protection bc we didn't have any and I know that was stupid of me. The second time we only did it for about 5-10mins. A week or so passed and I took a test to see if I was pregnant, I wasn't. On the 25th I was suppose to have my period which didn't happen. Should I be worried or whats going on plez help I can't ask my parents bc they'll never look at me again.

ah this must be hard on you, just calm down and try and take a test to see if your pregnant before you jump to conclusions, its common for girls to be late, im late all the time, and of course..im younger than you..way younger, and i have never had sex, so i know im not pregnant, im just late, so try not to freak yourself out, and just stay calm, dont tell your parents until you are sure you are pregnant, hope i helped
goodluck!

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Hey I dont want to be a bother but when I was cooking near the toilet , my penis got stuck in the seat.. I really need you to answer this , Im on a laptop.. help me! my penis hurts.. Help! thanks i rate 10's

lolol hahahaha lmao, number 1, it goes up to 5, not 10..lol, number 2-thats nice, maybe you should try lifting up the tolite seat
*nice joke* lol..
Goodluck with that..!?!

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Ok this is a really stupid question...but please bare with me. I can't apply eyeliner! Whenever I do, it looks very fake, and it looks like I just drew a line around my eyes. How do you apply it properly so that it blens and looks my natural?
I rate 5's!!!!

try getting this...so you can maybe blend and fade it into your skin..
its called..
perfect point plus eyeliner, and its by cover girl, you can get it in black,brown,blue..ect.
hope i helped!! o and i forgot to add..it has a fader at the other end of it,so u can fade it and blend it in with your skin!

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Ok I'm scared to kiss my bf. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too, but we're both really shy. How do I get him to kiss me or gather up enough courage to kiss him myself?
I'm 13/f by the way.
Thanks I rate 5's

well ive been there!! its very nerve racking, but hey we only live once, so live it up!! just go for it, im sure he will like itt!! just Stay confident, and it comes natural, take it easy..make it slow..(preffuabully in the movies) and just have fun and dont worry about it, its a moment you will always remember so make it last, and make it worth remembeing!! and p.s.make sure u chew some good smelling gum or a mint first, or just brush your teeth before you go and dont eat popcorn or anything, but if you wanna have a good time, eat popcorn and just chew gum..or take a mint, or those listerine strips!! just remember we only live life once!! SO GO FOR IT!! hehe well i hope i helped you..
goodluck!!

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this guy i really like always stares at me in the hallway and alot of times comes up and talks to me. and he sat by me when i was on his bus one time. i dont know if he likes me.. what do i do?

try and get as good friend of yours to ask him if he likes you as mroe than a friend, or get one his guy friends to ask, but make sure they dont tell him its because you wanna know, and make sure they dont just go up and say.."hey do you like_____"..tell them to ease into the topic, well hope i helped, goodluck!

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I can only access internet explorer on one user account. Access is forbidden on all other users account. How do i change this to allow access for all users?

i think you have to get on the user that runs it everything, like when you make a new user, it says something like..what kind of user would you like this to be, and theres somethinglike a master user (more than one user can be this)..and so yeah..but im not sure how you change it, but yeah, i know you have to be in the master user..well im pretty sure
hope i helped atleast a little haha
goodluck

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I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?

I rate.

hhmm...well it may not be LOVE LOVE like our parents have, but i think of it as..."our kina love" like..lets say your a teenager, id call it teenager love, theres not only ONE kina Love i dont believe, theres all kinds of love! love isent Notebook (the movie)..it is, but it doesnt have to be, love can mean you would die if something happened to them, or if they got hurt. see..i think of it as, your own kina special love you have for somebody, so yes, it could be a love feelings of your own!!
kina confusing to explain lol
but i hoped i helpedd!

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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks

looks like you have all the advice you need, but remember this..

LISTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY!! dont sit there thinkng.."o i just wanna get into your pants, and makeout with you..ect."...look her in the eyes when shes talking 2 u, and show her you care for what she has to say!

hope i helpedd

goodluck

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how do you find out if a guy likes you without having to ask him straight out? please helpp

get a CLOSE friend of yours that you trust to ask him, but easing her way into it, not just.."o do u like_____" tell her to just..ease into the subject, or get one of his guy friends that your friends with to ask him, and making sure he doesnt tell you wanted to know.hope i helped

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i like 2 guys at school but dont know who i should pick to really like. 1 of them i have liked for a year and a half. the other i have liked for only like 4 months. please help me!! what would u do?? i am a female and i am 13.

hhm ive been there before!! well i cant tell you whitch one you should like, but i can tell you that dont go for the looks..i would say go with the person you know best!, makes you laugh more, ect. and follow your heart on whitch one to like. Now..also..no one ever said you couldnt like 2 guys at once ;), but since you only want to like one..just follow your heart, and look for the guy you find yourself more attracted to. well i could use advice on this subject to, lol, so i hope i helped!! goodluck! *p.s-im sure whoever you choose will be the right desision, let me know how things turnout!!

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My friend told me about a free place where you can download music called Ares. The thing is, it's not a legal program. My friend says that it doesn't do anything to mess up her computer, but I'm afraid to put it on my computer. Has anyone ever had any experience with Ares? If so, is it safe to put on your computer, or will it mess it up? Please help!

no go with BEARSHARE just to be safe ;), its a good program!! and legal!! and doesnt give you viruses!! well hasent given me any! hope i helped out some

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what happens when ur best friend likes you and u like them but going out might ruin the friendship??

i have totally had this problem before!! yeah sure it might ruin the friendship, but before u ask her/him out..make a promise to eachother wutever the reason being that you break up will not cause yall to ruin your great friendship!! and if not that...dont do anything to make yall break up and hate eachother lol, but if after you break up and its just wierd talking, sit down and talk to him/her, and tell her/him you would like to put the past in the past and remain good friends as before!! so go for itt!! never know until you try, hope i helped!! goodluck

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i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?

ah this is the EXACT situation im in!!! hopefully i can help a little!!get to talking to him again, give him a random nice phone call one day, or text him, become good friends again! maybe it will make you feel bettter by talking to him again! its totally normal to still have feelings and trying to get him off your mind..doesnt work, hes still there!! but this is some advice a GREAT friend gave me..maybe it will help you..
***its hard to get over a breakup with a guy you REALLY liked/like! Trust me.. I went out with a guy for 5 months.. and I felt TERRIBLE after the breakup.. wow I cried and cried my eyes out.. but thinking about it now i laugh and we are pretty good buds now!
talk to your friends.. thats pretty much what I did.. I didn't get over this guy until about 4 months after the breakup, but I always went to my true friends and told them anything that I was feeling or thought, thats what friends are for right? My friends kept me busy so I couldnt even think about it!! Ask your friends if they could take you out, but you may not want to go out with your friends and their boyfriends for a while, becuse that could ruin your whole night out. It's hard to know that you just can't go up to the person that you loved and talk to them like you could before, and that that feeling may never come back, but day by day.. you'll realise.. he's so yesterday!! *hahahah
but feel free to talk to me about it anytime if this didn't help ya out.. and I know that I am trying to get over someone myself!
When your alone, do something maybe to keep your mind off *him*! Listen to music.. talk online.. watch TV.. exersise*haha they say it relieves stress!!* Hope i helped a bit! talk to me netime!

^^my friend erica told me that! it helped me ALOT..hopefully that helps you to maybe get him off your mind or to get over him!!

another idea is to..
get to talking to him again abd become goofriends,oviousally like a goodfriend..Support him!! and his girlfriend! when they break up..give it time..start talking alot, and maybe he will come back around and decide he likes you again!!

i kno this was long,and i hope it helped!! lemmie know how things goo!!goodluck!!-

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i liked this guy and then he liked me and everything was great and he waited to long to ask me out and then i stopped liking him.... and then we stayed friends for a couple of months and now he was a gf and im starting to like him again..... i dunno if i should tell him i still like him or not

well this is wut i would do! are you good friends with this guy?? if so..this is wut i say..
*if your good friends with him, then he is probabally expecting you to support him in his relationship as hard as that might be!show him you care, and you will always be there, and that you are very happy for him and his girlfriend! once they break up..if he gets dumped..comfort him...and wait a while to start flirting, and ask him if he has feelings for you!..if he dumps her,then theres no need to wait, hes obvoiusally PROBABALLY ready for a new relationship (if not..give it aleast a week or 2)..then maybe confront him on how you feel about him ask him if he feels the same way! but overall follow your heart! i hope i helped out! let me know how things go! goodlucky!

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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty??

ya sure..ur right..personalitty should come first, but personally im with you, i would change my look..lol im sure you can full it off..anyone can..well almost..hope i helped..goodluck

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Hey Ya'll,
First off Im male and 15. I've kinda got a problem... There is this girl that is pretty much one of my best friends I guess you'd say. But we hang out alot or atleast when we can. And for the last few(2) months I started liking her as more than a friend. But the problem is that I don't know if she likes me as more than a BFF. I mean some days she really seems to like me as more than a friend in my opinion and some days it just seems like were just like best friends. I really don't know what to do cause i dont want to hurt our friendship if she doesnt feel that way... Because I love hangn with this girl shes so awsome!

I was thinking of asking her to prom (my schools screwed up and small so I can go to prom if I pay) because I know she'll make it a fun time even if she doesnt like me that way because she just makes me have a great time hangn with her... Should I ask her?

ask herr!! and if she says no, then...yall can go as just best friends..hope everything turns out good, goodluck!!

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he does have a girlfriend and he has moved on i asked my friend and she said that he doesnt like me anymore!!!!!
but i am still having feelings?
u kinda helped with looking up his number in the phone book
-Kittie-

well maybe just wait until they break up, then ...kina work the charm..haha, and well im glad i kina helped..:) hope everything tuns out ok!! goodluck

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Okay I'm goin out with this guy and it's goin good and stuff...but i think im starting to like one of my good friends and he likes me back. i dont no if i should dump my boyfriend and go out with him or just keep goin out with the person that i am goin out with. help!

toughie!!..but think...who makes you laugh the most?who makes you feel better? who makes you feel more importaunt or special! just follor your heart!!..and remember that if you decid to wait until you and your boyfriend now break up, the guy you like may not like you back then, so choose fast!! and go with your heart, it most liky wont let you down, let me know how thing work out, i hope i helped.goodluck!

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ok i need help me n' my x broke up brutal and he likes my best friend but my best friend says he's a sissy and she doesnt like him at all but the problem is i still like him

ok ill try my bestt!! first of all..that sucks he likes your best friend!! but it is good she doesnt like them..that would hurt worse!! and if you still like him..here are some ideas..hope they work
*try making him jealous and want you back
*try MAYBe telling him you still have feelings for him, but if he likes your best frind, i duno if that would work
*or just maybe try and forget about him, and find a new guy to sweep you off your feet!!because remember there are So many great guys out there! boys will come and go! but you will find that onee!!
*this one ALWAYS ALWAYS helps me..
Remember that..friends last longer than boyfriend/girlfriend anyways! (unless they get married) but we arent talking about that riht now lol..so like become GREAT really good friends with him, and then he will come to you whenever hes down..and you see those movies..once you become best friends..maybe he will relise he wants you again, but anyways..just remember friends last the LONGESTT!!..well i trie my best and i hoped i helped! goodluck! let me know how things turn out!

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ok..on my lower buttcheeks i have little red bumps..i dont know if theyre pimple(they dont have heads) or if its just a rash from my undies..im realli not sure what it is..does anyone know or even have a remote idea what it could be? thnx

well personally if i had them..i wouldnt worry so much since like noone sees your but anyways im hoping..haha well depends on your age, but if your that concered on getting rid of them, try a drugstore creme or medicine, like over the counter, or go to the doctor for sugjjestions. or maybe a dermatoligist..i think they are the people that work with pimples and rashes. but if its a rash, go to the doctor, well tried my best, hope i helped out, goodluck

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