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umm.. hey! well my name is caitlin frances cartozzo and i'm 13. i'm currently at st. catherine of siena butttt i got into dominican for eigth grade next year and i'm sooooo excited! I CANT WAIT. welll check out my advice column and if u need advice just ask me a question !! i'll be happy to help u out !

-caitlin-

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I have been looking for some shorts for summer. I like SHORT shorts. Does anyone know where I can find khaki or denim shorts that are short? (Lately, everyone has been selling the long, bermuda shorts)

american eagle or abercrombie..that's where i get mine !

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Is coffee fattening? Like just black coffee, nothing added?

no i dont think so .. actually if you do drink a lot of coffee it wil make u less hungry so u dont eat as much!

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Hi! I have a hugeeee family. The number of people that live in my house is 12

Okay you should definatley let this girl know that she needs to get her nose out the air and live a little. Because nobbbody likes a bragging snob. She may get mad at you for saying that but beleive me IT WILL BE WORTH IT ! nobody deserves to be put down by how much money they have!

-caitlin

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okay... me and this guy... i dont know if were "talking" or anything.. we have made out like.. 50 times.. and he calls me everyday.. but.. then the next day he comes and tells me about how hot the girls at his new school are and how everyone knows him and missed him.. and all this stuff... the other night.. his friend was talking to him.. and i was sitting right there.. and his friend was like.. " i can hook you up with any girl you want.. " and he was like.. "na man.. i dont need help.. they already love me" and his school is known for having the prettiest girls in katy... so.. i dont know what to do? please help.. i will give you 5's

Well maybe you need to confront this guy. You need to talk to him about it and let him know how you feel about him talking about other girls in front of you and going on about how hott and wonderful they are. You need to let him know that if he's gonna b like that then you will just go on your way and do the sammmmmme thing !

-caitlin -

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my skin sucks ass. its been about a year and a half with ance. My dermatologist hasnt made a single difference! not alloud 2 go on birth controll pills. and my dermatologist wont let me go on accutain!!!!! HHEEELLLPPPP.

P.S. my days are so much harder with acne..everyone around me has perfect skin...and if u say "it will go away soon.. or in a few years" ill kill u!! lol.

ohh honey i know what acne is like ! beleivvvvve me. fortunatley he dermotoligist worked for me. But before i went to the dermotologist i was using eeeevery cream and ointment on the shelf and it neeeeeever worked. and even before i went to the dermotologist i noticed that acne is usually cause by pubirty or your period. hope i helped. don't worry !

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i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!

Ok.. well you should explain to your freinds that they should accept the fact that you have other freinds. Explain to them that just because you have other freinds doesn't mean they are taking their place or anything. and just because they dont have you over much doesn't mean they aren't jealous. Maybe they think if they invite you over and you go places people will give you more attention then her. Just think about it

-caitlin-

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

yeahh that very normal most girl dont start makin out till they are like 14 or 15! you say ur 14 tho and it will proabbly happen soon don't worry. I'm 13 and i haven't kissed yet. i'm cool with it !

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Well leaf, my sex life sucks cause there is no excitement, so if you dont mind will you give me some advice on how to stir up excitment in the bedroom? thanks a bunch
-sleepless in seattle

hmm.... no

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ok, so this is the deal..i met this wonderful guy this summer, but he has a GF. Anyway, we spent 6 weeks together and we made out, held hand and all that (IT WAS WONDERFUL!) please dont tell me what i did was wrong, i know it was but i dont care cuz i love him, i really do. And he's told me that he loves me too. We made a deal yesterday (he's been with his GF for about 2 years, and he says he loves her too) he said, he doesnt want to cheat on her anymore cuz he loves her but if the feeling is right-something could happen between us this summer. And i was like: what do you mean? and he asnwered: well, im gonna have my place all to my self this summer soo..who knows what could happen between us!? ;) anyway, i live in japan and he lives in america so we only see eachother during the summer. Hmm, id ont really know what my question is..im just so cofused..i love him so much, and i miss him..i really dont give a damn about his GF (i know i sound like an evil person, but i really really really love him, i cant help i.)Is there anything i can do to get over him? should i even try to get over him? should i sleep with him? (he's 18 and im 14) what's gonna happen between us? ( sorry, i know you cant answer that question) he's just so amazing i dont know what to do. Alot of guys like me here in japan, but i dont like anyone of them im just soo stuck on joshua.
Help! please?- mariana

Okay honey. first of all DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM . god your only 14 do you know about HIV and STD's. they are so contagious. you could also get pregnant. THERE ARE JUST TO MANY RISKS ! thats all i have to say about this.

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okae yeah i'm one of the people who give advice but this time i need the advice. lately i just haven't been thinking straight and i don't kno why. okae well i have been going out with this guy for a while and well i don't kno maybe i'm jealous or something but he spends more time talking to his best friend who is a girl and is his ex girlfriend than he does talking to meh. i kno their best friends and i have to respect that and i really am trying but i mean is it wierd that she so happens to be his ex girlfriend too and like they flirt alot. and the girl is always in my face saying meh and him blah blah and she even hooked us up. my boyfriend even said if meh and her were ever in a fight he's take her side. i don't know what to do. he says he loves meh sooo much but i'm not sure if i should trust him. sorry if its longgg.

uh uh girl if this playa is tellin you straight upu that he would take her side over yours cuz she is his so called "bestfriend" please dump him now!!! He probably has somin goin on with her and i'm sure you think the same thing! girl get over with and DUMP HIS ASS!

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I really want a boyfriend.All the boys say how ugly I am and that they'd never go out with me! I have brown hair and blonde highlights, brown eyes, a few light freckles, I guess you could say I'm thin, why don't boys like me?? there are girls at my school who look just like what I described and the boys go NUTS for them. It's because they're cheerleaders. I don't want to be a cheerleader, but i want a bf. Should I become a cheerleader?? Can anyone tell me why boys hate me???? I'm not mean to them at all!!!

Okay honey first of all .. ALL GUYS ARE JERKS. I sware you come upon a few good ones every now and then. Beleive me in my middle school years i had guys makin fun of me but then i had guys appreciating me for who I am . Darling i can relate to you.. you sound like a pretty girl and i'm pretty to but most guys are intrested in boobs and buts ! try to start dating guys outside your school. Forget about those clowns at your school. thats wut i did! Dont worry you will get plllllenty of boyfreinds in your life !

-caitlin-

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im nice and a sweet guy and all, but i tend to get real mad about little things. i punch holes in my walls and break all kinds of stuff in my room and i even put my head through a window once over a real dumb reason. so what i wanna kno is if i should look sumthin up to calm my anger or to get anger management? (after all im only 14) i just want to stop myself before i end up doin sumthin crazy

Ok next time you have a freak temper tantrum on something little you need to just sit down and take a deeeep breath and calm down. You can't go around punching holes in walls and uhh.. putting your head through a widnow all the time. You gotta think about your freinds too. They will be scared of you if you do this crazy stuff in front of them. Get your freinds to help. They're the best people to go to !

-caitlin

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I'm installing a fence on my friend's property and the posts have to be rammed into the ground with a tool that wears your hands out. Is there anything I could do to keep from getting horrible blisters?

YESS... wear gloves !

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for my b-day i got thes iron-on rhinestones, where you can put them on denim, and they come in shapes and words, like stars and circles, and words like 'hot', 'sweet' and 'sexy', or you can make your own designs. i have two questions. 1. would they look better on a jean jacket, or jeans, and 2. what other designs would be a good idea?

That's cute. Well personally I think they would look better on like the back of a jean jacket because it's more eyecatching because people are usually looking up when they are walking. And some designs that would be cute would be like your name, cherry's, maybe something u like to do, a team your on. There's lots of things!

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Okay I am 14/female. I weigh 157 lbs. And I eat too much. Like when I am bored I will eat food. I am fat and I really would like to lose weight. I will look and feel better if I do. My Mom is on Weight Watchers and I want to do that. I am going to most likely, but what I want to know is what are some ways that you can excercise at home? And what are some ways to discipline yourself not to eat so much? I know that if I lost weight then I would be prettier then I am. Also what are some ways to build leg muscles and stomach muscles? And how can I get rid of the stretch marks on my stomach. If anyone knows of some quick ways of losing weight please let me know. During the summer I will be able to lose a little bit of weight because I have a pool and I will be swimming a lot. I am sorry that this is so long. This is kinda off topic of the question but also I am pretty pale skinned. What are some easy ways to tan at home without having to be soaked with tanning oil?

♥power to be pretty♥

Well i see you want to lose weight but you don't know how to go about doing it. Okay not to long ago i wanted to lose weight soooo badly because i thought i was overweight. So what i did was joined some kind of sport. I joined a dance team because i love too dance. But if you dont like to dance just pick a sport that u liek and i promise you will build strong muscles and lose ALOT OF WEIGHT. I promise. You say your pale you also say u have a pool. well DUH go outside and layout for liek an hour a day. MAKE SURE TO PUT ON SUNSCREEN OIL. Well i hope everything works out for you. i hope my advice helped you. Also walking a few blocks a day REALLY WORKS.

-caitlin-

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