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i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!
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they probably think you're a snob. Are they correct?
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maybe you are talking about then too much. i know how annoying some people can be when they talk non-stop about the same thing over and over. they could be jealous as well. maybe they think that sinc eyou talk about them so much that you would rather be friends with those people than your real friends. just watch what you say and see how they act. or try not talking about them at all. hope i helped!
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i think they are jealous. Next time they roll their eyes ask them why they always do that. Or you can just call them and tell them whats up and exactly what you said in your question. If they keep it up, just keep calling them and sooner or later they will get the message that you wont let them treat you like this. I hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911
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i say you ask them why they get mad over that because if they say things like that and you listen to them then they are being hypocritical but dont get in afight over it say that you just really need to talk about it because that is no way to go on with friends constantly wondering if youll do something wrong hope it helps feedback please
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these people don't sound like real friends. real friends would take their time to listen to each other and that's definately not what your friends are doing. either that, or your friends ARE jealous. you can't assume they aren't because they are always exclusive to you, that could just be a part of their act. you should talk to them about this, and if you can't then i don't see how ya'll can even get along. communication makes a friendship. your friends should never stop you from making more friends!
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I know you said there not jealous, but to me it seems like they kinda are. But anyway, you can't help what you like or who you like! So just ignore them and talk about it anyway, and if they roll their eyes say "Am I bothering you?" and ask why, because I don't see anything wrong with it! ♥ Hope I've Helped
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Pick a new batch of friends that dont PMS.
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I have a friend who also went on a cruis over the summer and she refers to her friends alot. It gets on me and my other friends nerves too because she acts like she doesnt need us any more because she met her new friends in east ja pee pee. It annoys me. Just try not to talk about them too much. No big deal
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Friends shouldn't roll their eyes or seem as they are annoyed by you when you are talking to them. Let them know how you feel. Tell them that whenever they tell you something, you don't roll your eyes at them. It seems as they your friendship with them is fading away and you should probably find better friends who will listen to what you have to say and such. You don't deserve these friends of yours.
-Karen
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They probablly feel that you are bragging and no one wants that. Just tell them that you dont like when they do that. They might not get mad but they also might be just a lil jelous. x0
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It sounds like you need new friends. I'm going to be harsh here. You are the annoying one in their group. It sucks. I've been there.
Find some friends who really like you and won't roll their eyes when you talk about boys or your cruise friends.
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Honestly, true friends wouldn't keep you from having other friends. Just sit them down and talk to them, and tell them that you DO have other friends and you know what? you shouldn't have to act carefully and not be yourself b/c true friends would love you for who you are and if they still continue to get mad, then maybe you should find some other friends. Hope I could have helped.
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well im gonna be honest with you, if there gettig mad or annoyed with you over those things. and never including you, maybe you should try to make some other friends besides those that are getting annoyed with what you say and do. they have no right to get annoyed that you talk about your other friends, and guys you like. ugh i tryed,hope i helped..goodluck
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Ok.. well you should explain to your freinds that they should accept the fact that you have other freinds. Explain to them that just because you have other freinds doesn't mean they are taking their place or anything. and just because they dont have you over much doesn't mean they aren't jealous. Maybe they think if they invite you over and you go places people will give you more attention then her. Just think about it
-caitlin-
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Just talk to them and be like look its not nice to roll your eyes at me when I have something to say. Say that you listen to them and their probs and whatever, and they should do the same! Just talk to them and if they dont seem to care, then their not that good of friends!
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