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I really want a boyfriend.All the boys say how ugly I am and that they'd never go out with me! I have brown hair and blonde highlights, brown eyes, a few light freckles, I guess you could say I'm thin, why don't boys like me?? there are girls at my school who look just like what I described and the boys go NUTS for them. It's because they're cheerleaders. I don't want to be a cheerleader, but i want a bf. Should I become a cheerleader?? Can anyone tell me why boys hate me???? I'm not mean to them at all!!!
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Okay honey first of all .. ALL GUYS ARE JERKS. I sware you come upon a few good ones every now and then. Beleive me in my middle school years i had guys makin fun of me but then i had guys appreciating me for who I am . Darling i can relate to you.. you sound like a pretty girl and i'm pretty to but most guys are intrested in boobs and buts ! try to start dating guys outside your school. Forget about those clowns at your school. thats wut i did! Dont worry you will get plllllenty of boyfreinds in your life !
-caitlin-
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No, don't become a cheerleader. You said you didn't want to, and you shouldn't! I don't know what age you are but having a boyfriend really isn't what it's cracked up to be. I'm sure boys don't hate you. They sound really dumb to me and you don't deserve those boys at your school if thats the way they treat you, but if you REALLY want a boyfriend, you can try doing new things like different make up things (if you wear makeup), new hairstyles, even try new outfits. You could try glueing rhinestones to your jeans or something. Be creative. I hope things get better for you and you sound like you are really nice and deserve somebody special.
-Caydee
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why should anyone be this desperate for a boyfriend? Maybe you are trying to hard.. I mean, have you ever thought that maybe all the guys around you.. are only looking for a bj? You don't want to be one of those girls.. and you don't want to be a cheerleader just to get a fucking guy.. ok? ok.. I'm guessing your in the jr. high area.. Listen, hormones are probably driving you to feel this way.. *sigh* I haven't ever had a boyfriend.. and really, knowing that middle school relationships almost NEVER make it, and only a handful of highschool ones do makes me think that it's probably better to wait for someone right when I get older..
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boys are like that. i know its hard not having a boyfriend but the right boy will come along. you just have to wait even though its tough. good luck!
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okay, your obviously young. why do you want a boyfriend so bad? boys arent everything. you're probably only like 14, am i right?? you dont need a boyfriend..its not like your relationship is gonna last that long anyway
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Everything isn't about looks. It's not about being a chearleader either! It's about your personality and how you treat guys and how you make them feel! Be nice, flirty, and outgoing! Give them sweet compliments! Don't become a chearleader if that's not what you want. Just be nice and friendly and make the guy you like feel good about himself!
♥ Always,
Maria
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You shouldn't be concerned about your looks as far as getting a boyfriend, only shallow guys look for the bared-skin and thin-bodied cheerleaders. One day you'll find someone who likes you for simply being you, and that's who you'll need to go out with, not a bunch of losers who are only looking for the "popular" girls.
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Don't be a cheerleader only if you want guys to like you! That's silly! And why would you want to go with guys that think your ugly? That's also silly. How do you act around guys? You should go to the mall or some place around in your area where guys would be and talk to one. I bet your pretty so don't even worry about that. You just need to forget the guys at your school and find someone better!
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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dont become a cheerleader if you dont want too! and do you really wanna go out with guys who would ay that about you? n im sure ur gorgous! maybe just try flirting with them a lil more...and see what happens! if something is meant to happen it will, so dont sell urself out or anything! jsut have fun n get ur flirt on! haha! gl xxo
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YOu shouldn't worry about it now when its time a really nice boy will come along and if he has a nice heart but is ugly then still go out with him because over time he will become better looking than anyother guy.
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