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Question Posted Saturday March 26 2005, 10:48 am

im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

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calirae010 answered Monday March 28 2005, 12:34 am:
that is completely normal
♥ cali rae

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday March 28 2005, 12:05 am:
chill.. that's normal.. haha, it's the same for me, if people would be considered normal. Take things at your own pace, you don't need someone else to complete you always remember and don't get desperate to be with the wrong person. Just wait, you'll find someone. :)

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CloudDweller009 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 8:44 pm:
Laugh out loud. No, I didn't get my first kiss until I was 14, and my sister until she was 15. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about! ;-)

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twynelyne answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:18 pm:
no ur not i used to be that way.. now im 16 and everythings changed. give it sometime and just be friendly with the boys...youll find one you want sumtime to go after or one will find you. you have quite some time
hope i helped please rate!

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SuGaRuSh3810 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 8:10 pm:
Yeah, its totally normal. Its just that you havent found the right person yet. Dont feel so abnormal, Im sure lots of people are lke that. I'm positive. hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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RoadkillSalad answered Saturday March 26 2005, 5:16 pm:
With all honesty, I'm older and have never had a girlfriend. Maybe to most people that's not normal, but personally I think it's just fine. Most of my friends are also older and have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, so I think you're just fine right where you are.

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angiesue67 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 4:22 pm:
no dont feel bad, sure most of your friends probabally have..am i right? but it will come, trust me! i thought mine never would,im 13 also! but it did! so dont be worried, you will get it sooner or later, there are tons of people that havent gotten there first kiss yet (some i might mention are even in like highschool) so dont worry! you will get it!! just keep your confindence high!! goodluck and i hoped i helped

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday March 26 2005, 4:19 pm:
thats perfectly normal! dating b4 15 isnt really that serious anyway. and i know tons of ppl that age that are the same way, so dont worry bout it. <3

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gessyka answered Saturday March 26 2005, 2:40 pm:
Don't worry about it. I heard that most teenage girls get their first kiss between the ages of 13 and 15. Some before, and some after. Don't feel abnormal. I mean I haven't ever made out with someone and I'm 15 in a week. The most I've done was a small little peck-kiss thing. I mean, I just didn't feel the chemistry with him. But I mean, when you know the right guy has come along, it will work out..and don't rush it. You'll get it. =)

`jeSsie

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Peachgirly answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:51 pm:
don't worry itz normal. everyone is different and gets a boyfriend and first kiss at different times. plus you have a full life ahead of you and eventually you will meet someone. xoxo peachgirly

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karenR answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:24 pm:
perfectly normal! Don't worry about it. Some guy will find you one of these days. You have plenty of time yet!:}

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:58 pm:
so your only 13. you're probably in 8th grade right?? WHO CARES!!! its not like its gonna last! its just someone to help boost your self-esteem they arent gonna be there forever

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MyPainIsReal answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:45 pm:
It's normal. I know it seems like EVERYONE is dating and making out. But that is not true. I am in the 8th grade among many 14 year olds and TONS of them haven't had boyfriends or girlfriends or been kissed. Teens these days grow up fast and that's probably why a lot of us have been kissed. Consider yourself a lucky one. You haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed at a young age, so you haven't had to deal with the hurt yet. Your time will come and probably soon. x0

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Teza answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:41 pm:
Yea its normal! Dont worry about it! Theres noting wrong with you something is probablly wrong with the dudes! When you find the right guy it will be fine! x0 ` t3za ..

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XxnickixX answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:36 pm:
yes it is normal, you will find a special guy in your life when the time comes!
luv nicki xxxxx &hearts;

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BLONDEalErT28 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:24 pm:
okay well this is a pretty good topic for me to answer since im 14 also and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. Its okay your not the only one out there with this problem..... you, me , and other girls that have this problem will find a special person for us, its just a matter of time. Just be yourself and have fun with your life... be friends with all the guys that helps out alot i know its helped me a few times... and look your closest guys friends could be the one for you. You just never know... if you ever want to talk about this since its happening to me also just im me at kellerblondie28. I hope i was of some help. Good luck and just be friends with a bunch of guys and be yourself.

-BLONDEalErT28

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xOtWiXi answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:21 pm:
You aren't! Just like everyone physically grows at their own rate, they also emotionally grow at their own rate. In simple terms, you probably haven't found anyone good enough for you yet, so don't worry!

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leafonatree123 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:20 pm:
yeahh that very normal most girl dont start makin out till they are like 14 or 15! you say ur 14 tho and it will proabbly happen soon don't worry. I'm 13 and i haven't kissed yet. i'm cool with it !

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kittiekat_404 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:18 pm:
i think it is normal some people just get kissed or get boyfriends at a older age all thoughi just turned 13 about 3 months ago and i have had 5 or 6 boyfriends and have been kissed like 10 times! my friend turned 13 5 months ago and has had 7 or 8 boiyfriends and has been kissed 2 or 3 times. but anyway i think it is perfectly normal so dont worry about it you will get a boy friend soon and will have a first kiss.
:-)
-Kittie-

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:16 pm:
No of course thats normal you just havent found anyone special enough dont worry about it.

luv roxie

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FunnyCide answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:02 pm:
I'm almost the same age as you (fourteen.. I've got a little less than three months to go :D) and I've never kissed, held hands, or been hugged in that manner. (what I mean by "that manner" is I have a super close guy friend that I'll hug occasionally. But we don't like each other, so maybe that doesn't count?) I think it's perfectly normal, it happens to everyone at a different time, place, age, year, city... you get the idea. There's no "right" or "wrong" time. But, it'll be more special the fewer times you do it because it's like a "treat". (confusing?) You're not abnormal.. maybe you think that every one has done all that stuff, but sometimes girls will lie about what they've done to impress people. I think that answers your question..
-FunnyCide

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hopelessnlove answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:52 am:
na its normal..i didnt get my first kiss till middle of 9th grade...everyone has there own time. Just make sure yourfirst kiss is special!

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Wenzie answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:24 am:
Lol no your perfectly normal dont worry about it, im 16 and i havent even been kissed so dont worry about it!

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xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:24 am:
don't worry... its fine... one day the right guy will come your way... don't rush your first kiss cauz then it will just be wasted... try talking to guys more often if you don't do so already... just relax and enjoy your time being single

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xcuriousx0 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:24 am:
no it isnt abnormal. Plenty of my friends havnt been kissed yet. boyfriends...dont worry about it. Maybe you havnt met the right guy yet.

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SwEeT-aS-CaNdY_x3 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:22 am:
It's normal trust me...it's not your fault or anything. You just haven't found that one person yet. Don't worry.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo

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Karen answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:20 am:
Sweetie, don't worry, it's definitely normal to still not have kissed or have a boyfriend yet. Some girls get their first boyfriend and kiss at an early age and some get their first boyfriend and kiss at a late age. Love comes at different times and you aren't abnormal.
-Karen

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