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hey ya'll.... ummm i am BLONDEaLeRt28... and i am 14 and i love to give advice so if ya ever need anything please let meh help you ..... and if it is personal and u need more help im meh at kellerblondie28 and am more than welcome to be there to help... well thanks!

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I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f

hey..
no its not weird that you havent gotten your first kiss. I havent had mine either and i am in 8th grade also. You shouldnt rush into any thing your first kiss should be something that you would want to remember and is special to you. So dont worry and just be yourself and you'll be fine. You dont want to rush into anything and then it ends up to be not what you wanted. So just wait and eventually you will have your first kiss when its the right time! Good luck and if you need anything else im me at XxBLOsurferNDExX.

-BLONDEalErT28

Hi im Jess i really need to know how can i get more aggressive in soccer because i love the sport ive been playing for 9 years and i just cant seem to get aggressive. Ive heard people say i need t get more aggressive but i dont know how so if anyone has any ideas plz let me know. Thx
~Love Jess~

hey .. well i know where you are coming from i am the same way when it comes to volleyball. I started playing club volleyball last year and thats all i heard my whole club season is to get more aggressive and i tried so hard to do that ... but it just never seemed to work until this year. During the school season i got really good and i had a coach that influenced me so much to keep up my volleyball career and not let it go. But i was still not as aggressive so this year when i went to club volleyball again i got a great coach who yelled at me alot and would take me out of games like crazy and it made me mad and she knew it did so one time she let me in when we were in houston for a tournament and i killed the other team and i got to play the rest of the tournament it was so much fun and we ended up winning the part of the tournament. So what i am trying to say is that get mad at something and take it out in your game it helps out so much. And when you do something great it feels so good that you do exactly what you did before again. Just get mad at something and fight for the win. Well good luck and i hope i helped! If you need anything else just im me at XxBLOsurferNDExX!
good luck!

-BLONDEalErT28

I like this guy named patrick, but im not shure if he likes me. we talk a lot though, like at school and stuff. what should i do?

hmmm...well i think i know who you are lol... and if you are then i know how much you like patrick and you can tell that he feels the same way about you and i really think that you should talk to him about it. Even if you're not the person that i know then thats okay i still think that you should maybe talk to him about it and just keep being yourself because its working if he still hangs out with you that shows that he really likes your personaialty and all. But dont try too hard and talk about stuff that might bore him. Talk about stuff that would interest you both dont make him do all the talking and you never want to pretend with a guy. Just be yourself and if he doesnt like the way that you are then that goes to show that he isnt worth it at all. Believe me i have gone through this type of thing this year and it ended up that he wasnt worth it but i think and have a feeling that he really likes you and everything will work out for the best. Well good luck and i hope that i helped! If you need any thing else just send me a question or im me at XxBLOsurferNDExX!

-BLONDEalErT28

Well, ive taken all the advice, and i havent had soda and I feel great! Ive been doin regular exercises, but my thighs look fatter then ever same with my upper arms ! Whut can i do??

that is really good that you are excercising also while not drinking soda that is good for your body to keep it moving... keep that up so your body wont get worse. Your legs and arms might be getting better becuz you are working out maybe muscle. That is how mine are they use to be so much smaller than they are but since i have been working out they have gotten bigger becuz of the muscle in my leg. All you have to do is work on your legs and arms more to tighten that muscle up and it will look so much better. I promise. If you have any other questions just im me at XxBLOsurferNDExX. Good luck and keep it up! Hope i was of some help.

-BLONDEalErT28

There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female

hey... i think i might know who this is ... if you are who i think you are you know me well... so im me

if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite?

okay.... being athletic really has no effect when it comes to your period... periods are just things that girls have to go through and there is no way around it unfortunately.... but staying fit i think does help your body alot... but not when it comes to periods. If you need any other information at all just im me at XxBLOsurferNDExX. I dont mind at all. Hope i was of some help!

-BLONDEalErT28

thongs are like really in and i was wondering if anyone who has used one can give my pros and cons of wearing them since at this rate i'll never where one myself

okay... ummm... i started wearing thongs last year... and of course at the beginning it was very awkward... but i will tell you the truth they are the best.... once you get use to them you dont even notice.... i love wearing them... they are comfortable.... i really think that you should try them for yourself and see but i have to say at the beginning i didnt think i would like them either but once i got use to them they were better than regular underwear.... well if you have anymore personal questions you would like to ask me just im me at kellerblondie28. I hope i was of some help.

BLONDEalErT28

Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.

signed in love but confused.

Dont be embarassed. If he likes you and you like him then there is nothing to be afraid about. Just be good friends with him talk to him and soon he will really like you. I think you should tell him that you like him and that he is nice and a good friend guys like that when girls tell them stuff like that. I hope this helps and good luck! If you need anything else im me at kellerblondie28.
-BLONDEalErT28

im bulimic and anerexic. i dont eat. then when i do i puke. my best friend knows and wants me to stop. i want to but im not ready. what should i do?

YOU NEED TO STOP NOW! okay i know alot about nutrietion and this is not healthy. Your body depends on food. If you are worried about getting bigger thats no problem. You need to eat many small portions each day not three big portions this will help your body digest quicker. You need to always drink water and eat healthy. You really shouldnt be doing this, you need to stop right away because your body can be in some huge trouble if you dont stop now. Dont worry about what you look like just exercise and do what i told you you will be fine. Please if there is anything else just im me at kellerblondie28. You really need to stop please do! Good luck and you can do it!
-BLONDEalErT28

the guy i like broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago because he liked me, but then he started going out with another girl. they just broke up. he knows i like him and he told his friend that i'm cool and hott but he needs to get to know me more. and i'm not sure what to do because i talk to him like everyday. any suggestions? is this a lost cause?

okay.... i think that this boy knows you like him and he likes you but he wants to know you personally... i think you should talk to him more talk about his interest and stuff but also talk about yours... guys like to hear about you and like it when you are interested in theirs. Just be yourself and show him who you really are. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im me at kellerblondie28. Good luck!
-BLONDEalErT28

I'm 13, female, about 5'4" and about 140 lbs. I've tried dieting, since i'm too young i can't use diet pills, and i've run out of solutions. I can't even get dressed without crying because i can't stand the way i look. i have absolutely no idea what to do. any suggestions are greatly appreciated. thank you guys so much

okay this i can help you with. My mom is certified to be a trainer and has been in body building contest so i know what you are talking about. The best thing for you to do is eat many small portions a day. Then eat healthy snacks. Drink alot of water and the most important thing you have to excercise go to the gym work out... get an excercise plan that is good for you but at the same time pushes you to do better. I hope i was of some help if you need anything else and need to ask something just im me personally at kellerblondie28. Good luck and dont give up you can do it!

-BLONDEalErT28

im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

okay well this is a pretty good topic for me to answer since im 14 also and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. Its okay your not the only one out there with this problem..... you, me , and other girls that have this problem will find a special person for us, its just a matter of time. Just be yourself and have fun with your life... be friends with all the guys that helps out alot i know its helped me a few times... and look your closest guys friends could be the one for you. You just never know... if you ever want to talk about this since its happening to me also just im me at kellerblondie28. I hope i was of some help. Good luck and just be friends with a bunch of guys and be yourself.

-BLONDEalErT28

is it stupid for me to want to impress a guy by wearing a skirt and do my hair good? i mean i really like him and i really wanna impress him. also, do u know of anything else i can do to impress him?

okay... well this happened to me also. I wanted to impress a guy that i really liked and so i would dress nice and do my hair really pretty so then he would notice me. But i have come to find that sure he will notice you but the real way to get the guy is to talk to him, become his friend. This is what i did. Just start talking to him be friendly talk about stuff that he is interested in, you dont want him to get bored. But still tell him about you. He wants to hear what you are interested in. Talk to him most of the time but get to crazy because he will think you are trying to hard. Just look good and be friends. I hope i helped, sorry if i didnt! Good luck! If you need anything else im me at kellerblondie28.

-BLONDEalErT28

my friends always make fun of me and call me a ditz i dont like it but i kinda have to deal. One of my best friends said she thinks shes only friends with me because it makes her feel smart. Should i take that personaly? How can i change i dont liek to be ditsy.

well i mean maybe they didnt mean that personally.... but you never know ... i think that the next time you see them you should sit down with them and tell them how you really feel about this you never know maybe they dont know you feel this way.... this is a good idea and then you can tell them that it hurt you so then you can work things out... hope i helped. If you need anymore advice im me at kellerblondie28. Good luck and dont worry just tell them how you feel!

What are some good Tan Lotions to use? I don't want to get burnt or Skin Cancer, but I want to get tan!!

Any Ideas?

Thanks!

okay well i am the same way i am ready to get a good tan for summer! ... well i have my dad's skin where i get tan easy... but i use Hawaiian Tropic and its 8... i mean i put it on then lay out then maybe an hour or two later i put another coat on but not as much as before.... its great stuff and it helps alot... make sure you do wear some though because last summer i almost got skin cancer and i got bubble blisters so be careful!
Have fun hope i helped... if you need anything... im me at kellerblondie28. Hope i was some help!

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