the guy i like broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago because he liked me, but then he started going out with another girl. they just broke up. he knows i like him and he told his friend that i'm cool and hott but he needs to get to know me more. and i'm not sure what to do because i talk to him like everyday. any suggestions? is this a lost cause?
iddybitty09 answered Monday March 28 2005, 10:00 pm: Well, let him get to know you, and dont ask him out just yet, this happened with me once, because he didnt know me, and i asked him out and he said no, and went out with another chick, but whatever, guys are a little bit tarded at times. but yea just let him get to know you, like go to a movie or something. [ iddybitty09's advice column | Ask iddybitty09 A Question ]
coolpool0509 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:08 pm: ok try and hang out with him, get together with him on the weekends and stuff, mostly just try and be his friend because then if you end up going out you will know him a lot better and it will be easier to talk to him... i dont think it's a lost cause but dont act like you're gonna be around for forever and dont act needy, just be yourself around him and if he doesnt like you then it wasn't meant to be and there are plenty more guys out there that are probably better... good luck!!
luv2swim109 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 12:03 pm: invite him somewhere out or something. to the movies or ice skating. sit down and talk or just have a good time together. he'll most likely see a different side of you that he'll like!
BLONDEalErT28 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 11:52 am: okay.... i think that this boy knows you like him and he likes you but he wants to know you personally... i think you should talk to him more talk about his interest and stuff but also talk about yours... guys like to hear about you and like it when you are interested in theirs. Just be yourself and show him who you really are. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im me at kellerblondie28. Good luck!
-BLONDEalErT28 [ BLONDEalErT28's advice column | Ask BLONDEalErT28 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday March 27 2005, 11:49 am: If he needs to get to know you better, then you just need to start hanging out with him. Sure, talking to him everyday may help but that won't let him get to know how you act and such. Call him up or IM him and ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something. Talk to him in school and so on. Once he gets to know you, I'm sure he'll ask you out, since he thinks your "cool" and "hot."
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