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:'( i hav frigging sweat circles under my armpits! i wash with soap in the morning and at nite and i put antipersperant on or i go to the washroom when i start sweating and reapply the antipersperant but i still SWEAT! i'm tired of this and i really want to put a stop to this! .. okay i've heard of certain dri but i live in Canada and i've looked and looked but they don't sell it here! i also asked over the counter pharmicists and they told me about this stuff thats like 20 bucks and most of the stuff that like makes u stop sweating that isn't generic are like 20 bucks and i don't have that kinda money so please please help me, its really really embaressing!

you dont have that kind of money? just ask your parents for the money. explain to them your problem.

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ok well my acne is getin pretty bad an i was wondering if any1 knew some good products out there..one's that aren't too expensive please let me know..

clean n clear and then you got it under control.

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I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!

you shouldnt have been messing around with him in the first place, whore.

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I burnt my finger on the cooker around half an hour ago, ran it under the cold water tap until it stopped hurting and forgot about it. But it's just started to hurt really badly again. I put a cold compress on it and put some antiseptic cream on but it doesn't seem to be stopping the stinging. What can I do?

wait for it to go away.

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I'm a 15 year old female. I really like this one boy, but the thing is he's always teasing me or hitting me. Sometimes it's actually funny and we play around but other times it really hurts physically & emotionally. Very little of the time he'll come up to me and start a normal conversation, flirt, etc. I have a strong feeling he likes me the way I like him. I know that if he told anyone, his immature friends would start on him. He wouldn't straight out tell me either because he's shy about that kind of stuff. What could I do to make him realize that if he makes a move, I'll go along with it?

Well if hes abusing you physically and mentally then i dont think hes the right guy for you, and if hes that immature around his friends then hes no worth it.

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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy! so that guy already knows cause 1 of my friends blabbed and he said i was pretty and all, but he hasn't asked me out! i talk to him whenever i can in class and stuff, but it doesn't seem to be working! oh ya, he's never had a gf before! how i do i get him to ask me out? pleaz help!

maybe you should find out if he might be gay first. Or maybe hes just really shy and thinks that your too pretty to go out with him.

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Ok well im bi and my friend is freeking out about it and he is going to tell my parents and if they find out they will freek out and i dont know what to do cause he is really serious about this and i need help

you shouldnt have told him in the first place. and your parents need to accept you for who you are anyways.

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Ah. Another iPod question. About the battery, I just don't get it. When it dies, I heard 1-2 years, you send it back to the company and they replace it [the ipod or battery?] or something, for $100. Can someone explain better for me and if it's really worth getting or not?

call them and ask them. or maybe write a letter or go to their website...or just ask your mom and dad.

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hey there. im thinking about using proactive for my zits. the ones i usually get are either small painful ones, and these huge, cystic ones. they scar, and i have so many scars on my face from acne..and i was wondering if proactive works for both the little ones and the big lump ones that are really painful and beneath the skin, does anyone know what i mean? well if anyone has any personal experiences with the zits im talking about, and/or proactive, please help me!! im just wondering if proactive is right for my kind of skin? thank you!!

yea proactive works for almost everyone. and you could try Neosporin for the scars and make them less noticable.

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I have a problem my dog, just recently died and so we got a new puppy Razberry. But as he has gotten older he has become vicious. I just go into the backyard to try to play with him after school and i throw a ball or two. Then I go check if he needs more water in his bowl or not. But then out of the blew he jumps up bites me really hard in the back then I turn around and he bites me in the leg which leaves a scratch and a popping out bruise. Then i try to get away from him and out of the backyard but he keeps biting me. This has been happening for a while now and I dont know what to do to make him stop. I love my puppy and I dont want to give him away. He can be soo sweet to me and i can just tell in his eyes that he loves me too. I think he is just trying to play but doesn't know when to stop. I just would like any suggestions on something I could do to understand that biting me like that is wrong and it hurts. I have tried disciplining him but then he becomes more vicious and bites more. Please help me!
thnx a bunch!

get a dog trainer for the dog, and take pain killers for you.

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okay this guy im going out with is so shy! i can never get him to talk... lol.. any ideas!!??

haha threaten him. yea say something like "this just isnt working for me, if you dont start talking im gonna have to take action."

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okay so i like have this one friend and like noone likes her and im a more social person than her like i have friends in "the crowd" and i have friends in my own crowd and then i have friends in other crowds but this girl she is so rude! Not to me but to other people and its not necessarily the way she looks but mostly the way she treats people. But now she like follows me everywhere and when people look at me they see her and give me bad looks and i HATE it! And like every time i try to say my opinion she always tells me to shut up and its like um all im trying to do is give my opinion and then its all whatever. I mean i cant just say " im not ur friend anymore" cuz that would be rude and would make her really upset but i dont know what else to do...help

talk to her about it, tell her that you dont like the way she treats other people, because shes giving you a bad rep too. and if shes a bitch about it then tell her to fuck off and find a new friend.

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Okay heres the deal...
Ive been dating this GREAT guy i mean he's perfect..But im not exactly the most loyal person..So over spring break i lost mah virginity 2 some one else..Yeah i kno its bad and n a way i regret it..But the otha guy well call him Will is soo hot, popular, cute, sweet, and hes jus a lil freak and we mesh good togetha. PLus i think (i know) i could really stop my game for Will which would be a HUGE achievement for me!! Now on 2 mah boifriend again well call him Jay. Jay is okay lookin, sweetheart, says he loves me 2 death, hes perfect ecspect..he cant make me laugh like Will and he thinks hes funni when hes not @ all..Me & Will jus have more n common PLUS he took my virginity!

Well i dont want 2 be with Jay anymore but im n fear of hurting him AND everyone says ill be making a huge mistake because hes so good 2 me.

But I would prefer 2 date Will jus for the simple fact we have more n common..

But i dont know what 2 do OR HOW 2 DO IT!!


-Caught Up-

and you having sex with this other guy didnt hurt him already?

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is there any way to get your period to go away faster...cuz i have a competition on monday and just started my period today. also..what can i do for cramps? thanks a ton!

Take Midol for those cramps.

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i brush my retainer every day. it still ends up smelling like crap somehow.. my mom called my ortho, and they said to use the stuff that you put dentures in.. i did that, and it still smells bad! does anyone know something good that will get the nasty smell away from my retainer?

i wouldnt know anymore...i accidently threw mine in the trash...

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I have very curly hair. Not like super tight curls but its verry curly, puffy, and frizzy. What can I do to help keep the frizz down?

get a chi(flat iron), i have that same problem, it works great

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im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.

its only discharge babe. your fine.

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Is coffee fattening? Like just black coffee, nothing added?

it makes your teeth yellow...i know that much.

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ok this might sound weird so brace yourself! lol anyways... ok so whenever i shave my legs (like the half below the knee) when i'm done i have like these dots all over them. My legs will be smooth but they still have these dots. I think they get more notice-able when i put lotion on afterwards too. Its nothing like razor burn tho... i dont know what it is! its like the hair underneath my skin?? but its still silky smooth!
what should i do to get rid of it?

wax em...or use Nair

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ok what exactly are guys looking for? i go to a private school and theres like 100 people in my grade... its pretty even (guys vs girls) and ive never been asked out. people always tell me im pretty and funny and i dont get it. im thinking that its just that the guys at private schools are retarded because a lot of really pretty popular girls dont get asked out.. but yea... so what are guys looking for? i rate 5s

well they're probably scared to say anything, because if you are really pretty and funny, they probably dont wanna be turned down, and they feel like they're not good enough or something, but yea, if a guy really likes you, he'll go for it.

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