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Hey yall this is Kaitlyn! I go to JCS and im 13!
Hobbies-cheering,tumbling,reading,singing,talkin on the internet,and now giving advice! I love Elmo! I think he is so cute! Wellers I love SVS! Now that i told you bout me let me help you! Ask me nething! I dont care what it is about! I dont even know who you are, so if its personal then i wont know who its bout! WEllers ill talk to you on jcscheerthang104! Love yall!

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I have this friend that REALLY gets on my nerves. She always tells me that I need to lose weight. But she is the exact same size as me. She always calls me a nerd and a dork. She also tells me that if I weren't her friend I would not be popular. She is not even popular herself. I just think that she is jealous of me b/c I make better grades than she does. I want to meet new friends but she won't let me! How can I talk to her to so that she will back of???

Just tell her how you feel. I mean that is so mean of her how she is treating you. If she was a real friend then she would treat you better. Im so sorry that you have to deal with that.
Tell me how it goes when you talk to her!
XoXoXo
Kaitlyn!

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ok i have this here friend that i really like but then theres this other freind who i used to like and now they both like me and i cant chose which one i should go out wit please help

GO with the friend you like!
ttul Kaitlyn

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ok well here it goes i just broke up with my gf cuz i wanted to b friends and theres my old gf shes really hot and i no her really well and i think of her all the time but! a part of me knows that i might get hurt cuz it hurt me really bad when we broke up wat should i do ive needed to talk bout this 4 a while

Your only hurting yourselve more by holding the feelings in. Tell her how you feel! If you love her teel her if you dont then thats ok! Hope that helped!

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my boyfriend just broke up with me. i know that he liked me a whole lot and i still dont know why he broke up with me. i think he might still like me even though we broke up. i also think i might still like him, but i am not sure! i need some advice on how to handle this. thanks you!

IM sorry to hear that yall broke ^. Ask him why he broke ^ with you and then ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he doesnt then i would start looking for someone else. Thanks for writing!
Kaitlyn!

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Hey KB,
That last advice was a joke from me (anna) lol hahahahaha! Are you mad at me now even though it was a joke?

NO anna im not mad! You scared me tho! lol love you

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Dear KB,
I took ur advice and it totally screwed up my life and im totally hurt!!! Y should I listen to u anymore???

IM srry i cant help everyone. You can not ask for nemore advice or you can be mad and us not be friends. Im sorry that the advice didnt help,but here some- If you dont think the advice will work then dont do it! Duh
Neways! First off you life isnt screwed whatever you did you can fix but i cant tell you how to fix it! Sorry!
Kb

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hey i have this really good friend and i really love her. she knows i do but whenever i even bring up the subject of maybe us goin out she just doesnt take it seriously. but i love her and i try to tell myself that she prob. just doesnt want to go out wit me but i cant stop thinkin bout her and i know i love because ive never felt like this about anyone and whenver i see her my stomach starts to hurt and i get nervous and i just cant stand to be away from her and whenevr guys r arouned her i get jealous even though were not goin out. im in the 7th grade and she is to . I just dont know what i should do , what do u think?

Aw! That so sweet. My advice to you is to be one of these guys and hang around her and talk to her alot more, then maybe she might start liking you more!
Love
Kaitlyn

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I have this friend and we are in a major fight because of something she did, but she keeps on blaming me. I really care about her and I have known her forever. I thought she was my friend. I have tried to talk to her, but she just keeps on walking away and wont listen to me. She keeps trying to get people mad at me , but i didnt do anything wrong and she is the one who caused this problem. I really want to work this out with her but what if she keeps walking away? I want us to be friends again. I know u give great advise so please help me!!

Okay! One day when she isnt around her other friends talk to her!!!!!! Ask her why she wont listen. If that doesnt work then *67 her! Then chat with her on the phone! If that doesnt work then there is nothin else you can do, but if she was your real friend then she will listen!

God says treat others like you want to be treated! Glad to help!

Kaitlyn!

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i have this so called friend. she talks about me all the time but yet when i am around her she acts like she is my best friend
she spreads rumors and and stuff that a real friend woulnt do. plus she is trying to steal one of my best friends away from me.
what should i do?

Talk to her! Ask her bout the rumors! Life is to short so dont be mad at her!

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o my gosh. there is a really hot guy that is a year older than me. he is a christian, nice, athlete, smart (i think) and he is just down right HOT. i love him to death. what do if he is to scared to ask me out?

You dont do anything if he loves you back then the time will come for him not to be scared and he will finally do it! Be patient with him tho!

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i reely like this grl but theres this other guy that likes her too but idk who she likes better and to top it all off he is spreading rumors about me that she believed and i just dont no what to do or say so plez help me
p.s. we are both in the 7th grade

Tell this girl that these rumors arent true! Ask her what she thinks of him and you. You only liveonce so have fun!

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I really like this boy!!! His name is _________...lol.. but anyways.. i like him a lot and i feel like i have to be around him all the time!! but he doesnt like me back!! I am like in love with him and it gets on his nerves b/c i always want to be around him and hug him and stuff!! I even made this book thing for him that i might give to him at the end of the year?!?! But i just dont kno wut to do!!! What do u think? he is in the 8th grade and im in the 7th so that might be a problem but i dunno... PLEASE HELP ME AND GIVE ME SOME ADVICE QUICK!!! THANX LUV YA BUNCHES!!!!

I would suggest to lay off for a while and make him wonder. You can still talk to him and flirt but take it down a notch! Let me get back to you on the book thing! Love you!

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im goin out wit this girl and shes in florida right now. i miss her a whole lot and cant wait for her to get back. i want to do somethin to welcome her back. wat should i do? should i do something to show how much im happy to have her back or not?

Yeah i think its a good idea just dont over do it! You only live once so make the right choices and have fun!

XoXo Kaitlyn

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there is a really hot guy . he is so sweet. he is perfect. i really want to go out with him but i am so scared to ask him out and i cant wait for him to ask me out. what do i do

Be patient! DOnt rush it bc if its not the right time then it may not happen. Be his friend and flirt! lol

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I love this gurl right but i dont know how she feels bout me i thinkl shes mad at me but i also think she like my friend and i dont know if she likes ma poems and if she likes ma friend then they need to get ba lil summin suminn going on ok so wut u think can u help me or not???

Ask the girl if shes mad at you then if she isnt then ask her what she thinks of you. Ask her bout your poems! Need more help just ask!
LOve Kaitlyn

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there is this boy he is my best friend but i ssoooooooooooo love him he is soooooo fine. i think he like me tooo so what should i do because really sick of wanting for him to come around but if he don't like me than i lose my best friend???
what should i do i'm so confused?

I know EXACTLY how you feel! Ask him what he thinks of you! If he likes you like you like him then tell him how you feel! Dont be afraid of losing him as a friend bc even if he doesnt like you in that way yall can still be GREAT friends!
Love Kaitlyn!

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Please help me Kaitlyn!!! I REALLY like this guy, but idk if he likes me back and im afraid to ask him out, first of all b/c i don't like to ask out guys, b/c i dont think he likes me back but im not sure b/c sometimes we just stare at each other in school!!! What should i do about it??
P.S.: The boy is in 8th and im in 7th that could be a big problem!!!!(or not idk lol)

OKay!
Dont ask him out! Wait for him! Be yourselve when your around him!
To your other question- I dont think that is a big problem, I mean if you like him and he likes you then he doesnt care. I think its actually sweet to c an older guy with a younger girl!
If you need more help ask me!
love Kaitlyn

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Who do u like in the 7th grade at jcs?

I dont like neone at JCS. lol!

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Hey i like this boy but idk what he thinks of me? What should i do?

Go with your heart. Talk to him or write a note!

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