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once again, ignor name, im a guy... i have prom.. tomorrow.. well today but the point is im wondering if I should style my hair differently. I was thinking of doing it like patrick dempsey. Does anyone know how one would go about styling your hair like that? I don't have much time so fast answers would be appreciated. (link)
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Go to a hairstyler.
Tell them what you want done.
They'll do it.
=]
And don't worry, even if you don't do your hair any differently, it won't matter.
As long as you look nice and comb your hair, you're good.
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okay well im set that my dad is cheating on my mom. these are the things that lead me to beleive that.
1. when we first got our sprint cell phones, he only got me 500 text msgs a month because he said, "if you need to tell/ask someone something, just call them" and stuff like "texting is stupid" "its so pointless" yatta yatta. but i was cool with it. well i went over twice and he said "if oyu go over again, you get your phone taken away" then like yte next day, he texts me and says he got me unlimited and he unblocked texting from his phone, so now HE could text. i was like... okay?? but COOL. then one he was texting like CRAZY and i was just like "who ya text'n" and he was like "NONE OF YOU FREAKIN BUSINESS" and he like, hisd his phone. and he talks on it every night when my moms not home and when i ask, "who ya talkn to?" (real casually) he freaks out and says "WHY DOES IT MATTER?!?!"
2 he says he need to go to the grocerie store and i was like "okay" w/e. and i asked him to get me some peach tea. he was gone for like a hour and a half but i though "oh he's probably buying a bunch of stuff" you know? but he came back and the ONLY thing he had bought was my peach tea... i was like "wow. that took forever. and all you bought was peach tea?" (cause we are like low on food, and i had nothing to eat) and he got all defensive and was like "JUST CHILL OUT, OKAY?"
3 he always talks crap about my mom behind her back. little things that dont even matter. they are pointless. like we are talking about something that has nothing to do with her and he'll bring up somthing bad about her and go on raving about it.
4 he's been late coming home from work lately
5 i know this seems gross, but they never like, kiss or flirt with each other anymore. and im pretty sure they dont have sex. (ew, but a necessity in a relationship)
so idk. what do you guys think? its freaking me out. omggg. and if you think he IS, what do i do????? i am so helpless. do i tell someone. who? do i talk to him about it??? gaww im so lost. ):
thank in advance.
xoxo (:
ps. my parents have been separeted MANY times before and devorced twice but got back together both times. (link)
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You need to sit your Dad down and talk to him.
Then you need to sit your Mom and Dad down together, and tell talk to them. Tell them that their relationship obviously hasn't worked, so maybe it's time for them to move on.
Cheating sucks.
I hope I helped somewhat.
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Okay, theres this guy, that i talk to on myspace, and we go to school togeather, and i talk to him there to.
ANYWAY, whenever we talk, we always end up "fighting" but its SOOOO fun to fight with him, and i just love annoying him, and he's the same way with me.
My friends say that this is flirting, but i dont see how it is. Cause were just pretty much arguing...
Anyway, I really like him, and i'm not so sure if he likes me, but he can be a real jerk.
So, the quistion is, should i go after him, even though he seems to only like to use me to argue with?
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no. you shouldn't. a healthy relationship is arguing all the time. you guys will both end up frustrated.
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hey everyone... im a 15/f && i have been getting bullied since 8th grade by this girl && some of her friends... && this girl in 8th grade started IMing me on the internet and started cussing me out.. && then in 9th grade she got my cell phone number and started prank calling me along with her friends... && she also would say im ugly and i try to hard to fit in... she told me this when i talked to her eariler today!!! i wuz like im not ugly && i don't try to hard to fit in && i don't care what u && yur firiends think of me... but she was like fuuck you && go to hell && don't tell me what to do... do she's going to keep bothering me!! so how should i prevent her from bothering me? i've tried to ignore her && that didn't work... && i've tried standing up for myslelf (link)
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I'd just tell her off again and keep letting her know that you don't give a shiit what she thinks and if she says something like fuuck you and tells you off again just go fuuck you I'll do whatever the hell I want to and if you have a problem with it you can shove it up your asss cuz I don't give a flying fuuck. and if it still doesn't work tell an adult. course knowing me I'd just slug her in the jaw. but violence is bad so. yeah.
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Sorry if this is semi long.
It seems as though my best friend is replacing me with someone else. We used to do so much together and have so many great memories and great laughs. Now, it seems like shes doing it all over again, but with a different girl. They went on a trip together and talk about it nonstop..now they are so close. It's like I'm not even there and shes starting over with someone new. It's depressing to see them together, like me and her used to be. We had a big fight not to long ago, but we made up..or so I thought. Tonight we went to a party and it was a blast, but it was like she was ignoring me. She was only hanging out with her new "best friend". I really don't understand what I should do. I miss her, but when we were having that fight, it was like I was the only one trying to keep it together. Why can't we all just be friends? Should I talk to her about it? Or should I just let her and the other girl be friends and get out of the way, then just loose the friendship we had?
Thank you so so much if you can help.
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Ohh this is tough, the same thing happened to me once.. talk to her. it might be tough but it'll tell you where she stands. if talking it out face to face is to tough write a note or email. but ask her how she feels. tell her how you feel. try to fix it. make sure when you talk not to lose your temper. If she reallyseems like she's not trying then I'd say start building the friendships you have with other people and move on.
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Okay, I'm 16 years old and I've been getting my period for a really long time. Ever since I started getting my period, I've had a really, really heavy discharge between periods. It's really uncomfortable and I feel like it's abnormal. I literally have to wear a pad between periods because my discharge is so frequent. Is this normal, at my age, or is it something I should tell my gyno?
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I would say that if it's that bad that you might have a problem of some sort. Go to the gyno and see if it's an infection or if it's just something that you'll have to deal with. The gyno may give you medicine or something else. But I'd definately find out if it's anything wrong. I hope i helped in some way
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K I really need girl help. I changed schools a few weeks ago because I was doing really bad at my old on. THere was this girl there that I really liked. I went to the homecoming dance with her and we talked on AIM a lot. After I left I told her how much I loved her and she was all "aw that's the sweetest thing ever" and stuff like that. We've been TXTing a lot and she even called me on my birhtday last week. I was even suppost to see Harry Potter with her and some of her friends but then I got sick. I'm falling even more in love with her every day even though I don't get to see her because we go to different schools now. I really wanna ask her to go out with me but I have two problems.
1. I have no idea how to do it.
2. Is it weird to go out with a girl from a prep school when you're going to a public school.
I really need help! x.x
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well since you already told her how much you love her all you have to do know is tell her that you wanna hook up. Say to her "I've told you how much I love you once and I would be the happiest guy on the planet if you would be my girlfriend"
and no its not weird to go out with a girl from prep school when ur goin to public school.. you can still make plans, keep texting, keep talkin on aim and callin eachother.. i mean my best friend has a boyfriend from a prep school and she goes to my public school.. they are totally in love with eachother!
Go for it you deserve her! Hope i helped! :)
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My boyfriend & I have been dating for a little over 2 months. Well that's what it'll be on Christmas anyways! I want to buy him, cute stud earrings, a Dallas Cowboys hat, & make him 100 reasons I like you scrapbook thing. Do you think that'll be enough? (link)
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That is definately enough! He should appreciate that stuff! You seem like a very sweet girl! That is perfect! :)
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Do you know any good Country songs or any hip/rap or pop songs! any suggestions welcome (link)
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I'm a country freak!
try:
Deanna Carter-Strawberry Wine
Alan Jackson-Drive, Where were you when the world stopped turning, Chasin that Neon Rainbow
Cyndi Thomson- What I really meant to say
Toby Keith-American Soldier, Angry American, My List
Dixie Chicks-Long Time Gone, Soldier
Jimmy Wayne-I Love You This Much
John Michael Montgomery-The Little Girl
Plenty more but those are just a few suggestions
For good dancing songs
try:
Ciara-1,2 Step
Will Smith-Switch
Plenty more of those too
Try listening to the radio, find a good pop station, a good rap station and a good country station. Hope I helped!
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Does anybody have fun summer ideas for sleepover parties...
Im 14/girl
i have a trampoline
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Get together you and a few of your girlfriends and get your bathing suits on. Fill up water balloons and jump on your trampoline while trying to nail eachother with water balloons, then you can get Color Pulse hair dye that comes out in 8-10 shampoos and you can all dye your hair funky colors! Hope I helped!
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i just got a turtle and i need ideas for a name (link)
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I like Gregory
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In my Humanities class, we are working on a paper proposal for a 4 page paper we need to complete by the end of the year. The topic is completely up to us as long as it is somewhat dealing with Humanities. I have 2 different areas that I would like to try researching and eventually writing my paper on, but I'm at a loss as to which one to choose from. The first is Abortion, and the second is Teen drug/alcohol abuse. My paper proposal is due tomorrow and I'm not sure which topic to choose and what I should write about in the proposal. Can you give me your opinion as to which topic I should pick and how to go about writing this proposal? Or, if you have any other suggestions as to a topic to use, that would be helpful too. Thanks so much! (link)
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I say you should do Teen drug/alcohol abuse and you can write about the causes and effects and put statistics in the paper. hope I helped!
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i live in this very small town and im 14 and so is jessica, we've been goodfriennds since we were 10 and she was always sort of an ugly girl, but now shes really gorgeus, shes fit into her body, pretty face, killer body.. she has the whole package. i love her becuz shed never ditch me and shes still the same but now shes been seeing or hangin out with older guys, some 18, some 21, or 23. and i mean if she can do it good for her but i hungout with her, this 22 year old john and his friend vince and i mean we rented a hotel and her and john went in but me and vince stayed in the car and we smoked and kind of hookedup, im getting feelinds for him and i know hes older but is it ok? she didnt make me like him or anything (link)
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Number one, you shouldn't be smoking, it can kill you. And no you shouldn't be hanging out with guys that much older than you, as much as you may think you like them/him they are more mature than you and dude their college age guys! They're gonna be into sex and drugs and things you aren't ready for. Sure not all of them are going to be bad sexaholics but alot of guys will try to. You shouldn't be proud of her for being able to get with guys like this you will get hurt eventually. Hope I helped! :)
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Theres this guy he creeps me out every time I sign on he's on and he IMs me saying he's gonna rape me and crap and I'm scared...What should I do I'm 14 years old I need your help Allison please!!!!
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Here's what you need to do... Call the police, so they can track him, tell your friends to watch out for him, tell your parents, and DO NOT give out any personal information or if you have personal info in your profile... REMOVE IT!! This is a crime! I'm prayin for you hun! :)
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I'm a 14 female. I use to cut myself badly but stopped in the beginning of Jan. I haven't cut since. Every day i think about sucide. the people i'd hurt. those i wouldnt. my moods always tend to be shitty. I'm not sure if thats cause im 14 and a brat or if im possible depressed. I'm usually okay in school, in front of my peers. once i get home i feel completely lost. I've attempted sucide once, failed, obiviously. but i've never had a docter examine me. my parents do not believe in giving teens depression medicine. my parents and i have talked about the possible depression. i asked to see a Shrink. My parents agreed. That was 2 months ago. it has not been brought up agian. my parents this my cutting was their fault, when in fact their the reason i hadnt pushed the razor harder. i constanly take 10-20 advil at a time. u cant OD on it. im not sure why. i've read the symptoms of depression and i match quiet a few. how can i figure out if i do have a mental problem or if im a typical teen?
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Well cutting definately isn't normal but it's good that you stopped and i'm proud of you for that. If your parents agreed to let you see a shrink then they need to follow through. Explain to them that you don't want to hurt anybody including them and yourself. Bring it up until they take you or call the place yourself. You need to find out what it really is. I hope you are ok. :)
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Hey I am 13 and I am having troubles with one of my best friends. We have been friends since just about 1st grade. We have always been best friends. I feel like since now we are in Junior High we are splitting up. She is hanging out with new friends and I am sort of too. I feel like our friendship is breaking in two. What should I do? (link)
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This same thing happened to me so I understand what you're going through. It may be time to move on and find a new best friend.. that's what I had to do. But if you really, really don't want to lose her talk to her about it or if you don't feel comfortable doing that write her a note. Chances are she's feeling the same way as you. I know my friend was. You can still save this friendship! :)
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okay this question is for my friend who can't ask it so i am doing it for her. well her best friend just recently died at age 12. and she wants to go to her funeral and wants me to go with her but her mom won't let her go because its during school and she thinks she will get all emotional but she really wants to go so she can say bye and she wants me to go with her so she has a shoulder to cry on if she needs one. does anyone know how she can get her mom to change her mind and let her go to her best friends funeral? please help. (link)
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wow... explain to her mother that this is her BEST FRIEND! and that she won't ever be able to see her again! Explain that this is a one time thing and that it won't happen again! Tell her you would understand if it was a vacation but that this is a DEATH! Her best friend just lost her life! She can't say good-bye any day she wants like she can with other friends.. that this is her only chance to be with her best friend for the last time. I hope her mom will let her go and you get to go with! I'm sorry for your friends loss! :)
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I was just worried because I try and try to do my work but I still fail, and now I might fail the hole year, what should I do? Can anyone help me? (link)
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Go and talk to your teachers. Explain to them how hard you are trying.. try to work out a plan with them and see if they can help you improve your grade. Ask for extra credit, and anything you can possibly do to get more points. All hope is not lost! :)
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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Chances are he still likes you as a friend, and doesn't want to hurt you. I know that is hard to hear but if he has another girlfriend then he has probably moved on by now, and you should do the same. Go to some parties, flirt with some guys you don't usually talk to. Life will go on and you will meet new people! It'll be ok! :)
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Sporkster here, and I've got a question for you lovely people here on Advicenators:
I've got this "friend" of mine who's been rather...hard to get along with lately. You know who you are, "friend." Anyway, in Study Hall one day she just errupted like Mt. Vesuvius. I mean, over something so petty she just blew it. My boyfriend had moved to another table to take a quiz and she came over to sit with me. There's this stupid rule my SH teacher came up with stating that only two people can sit at one table until ten minutes prior to the bell rings. My boyfriend finished and came back over, and right before I was going to tell him to wait a minute so I could finish talking to her she just..."*slams book together, packs up bookbag, moves* Fine, I see who's more important, I'll just move! *mutters incoherently*" I just was...shocked. She didn't even give me a chance to tell him that I needed to finish talking to her. Anyway, she's been really sore over this for the past week or two. I mean, she doesn't sit with my boyfriend, me, and our friend anymore. She never talks directly to me, however, she has this obsession with talking ABOUT me. She's lied about my boyfriend and me, giving people the impression that I'm some sort of slut. This is really starting to annoy me. Not the fact that she's talking about me, but that she's lying about me. I really do wish she wouldn't be so sensitive and...paranoid. Our friendship has been an ongoing battle ever since my boyfriend and I have been going out. I don't really want our best-friend friendship back, I just want to come to terms with her and "agree to disagree", if you will. But she won't even compromise with that! I've tried everything you could possibly think of and then some, but she doesn't want to listen to a word I say to her. Can anyone offer some sort of ideas for getting her to just listen to me for five minutes to sort things out? Any input would be appreciated, though I am looking for good, well thought-out, helpful answers. Thank you in advance for every good answer. (link)
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Ok this is a toughy but what i've been through exactly what you are talking about. Instead of trying to directly talk to her about it since she obviously doesn't want to listen to you write her a note. Don't be disrespectful or rude... just honest. Explain to her how you are feeling and at the end of the note ask her to please write you back, and try to understand her point of view. If that doesn't work the best you can do is try to ignore it... chances are she's jealous of you and is try to get under your skin. Don't let her. Eventually she will get bored when she sees you have no major reaction and give up. I hope you and your friends can come to good terms! :)
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