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this girl & her friends are mean to me!!!
hey everyone... im a 15/f && i have been getting bullied since 8th grade by this girl && some of her friends... && this girl in 8th grade started IMing me on the internet and started cussing me out.. && then in 9th grade she got my cell phone number and started prank calling me along with her friends... && she also would say im ugly and i try to hard to fit in... she told me this when i talked to her eariler today!!! i wuz like im not ugly && i don't try to hard to fit in && i don't care what u && yur firiends think of me... but she was like fuuck you && go to hell && don't tell me what to do... do she's going to keep bothering me!! so how should i prevent her from bothering me? i've tried to ignore her && that didn't work... && i've tried standing up for myslelf
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Show you don't care.
Ignore them.
if she talks to you on IM, block her.
If she makes fun of you, AGREE WITH HER and laugh.
If you keep doing that, where's the fun? Seriously though. If you are making fun of somebody ..you want a negative reaction. Just joke along and tell her you're wasting your time.
Get a new number and give it out to only CLOSE friends.
WHAT YOU THINK.. MATTERS.
if you think you aren't ugly.
and you know you aren't trying hard to fit in.
Who cares what they think?
She can't bother you.. if you don't care.
Laugh at her. Smile. and walk away.
If she calls you, say something before she does and hang up.
Whatever you do, don't try to cuss her out or anything. It eggs her on to do something worse.
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Alot of my group of friends, are mean like that.
They are very insecure. When there just with like me & there other friends. They always say how ugly they are or whatever. But, when there around other people, they act like there worth a trillion bucks. They also, I remember, they'd pick on this one girl, I don't know you, so I can't say your just like this girl. But, she wasn't lets say, the most popularest person alive. & so she was easy to pick on, because she would never stand up for herself. Then, one day.. they'd say like, you're so skinny, you'll break in half.& she would be like "Awww thanks." They probaly pick on you, because they want you to get hurt, & they want to make themselves feel good. I suggest, when they do, joke around & just go with it. If that doesn't work, tell them off. & about them calling you.. thats harrasment. They could get in big trouble for that
Hope I helped! bye =)
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I'd just tell her off again and keep letting her know that you don't give a shiit what she thinks and if she says something like fuuck you and tells you off again just go fuuck you I'll do whatever the hell I want to and if you have a problem with it you can shove it up your asss cuz I don't give a flying fuuck. and if it still doesn't work tell an adult. course knowing me I'd just slug her in the jaw. but violence is bad so. yeah.
hope i helped a bit
<3 Captain Hilary
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ok the next time she prank phone calls you you tell her "ok you measly good for nothing dirt bag ive had enough of your gay jokes from you and those fags you call friends so im going to let you go this time but if you ever fuucking call this number again , i know your number ill call the cops for and report you for hurassment and prank phone calling and then lets see how good you will look the next day of school with everyone talking about how gay and childish you are still playing the same retarded jokes that was dead and burried in the 5th grade" or you can just tell your parents and they could solve your problem by talking to her parents
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Basically just be nice. If she says, "You're ugly," say, "Thanks," and walk away. Pretend like what she says doesn't bother you, eventually she's going to get bored and move on to someone else, I know it may seem like she won't but by you being nice, she'll get really pissed. Trust me, my brother and I go at it all the time and I've been called names before but by saying shit back, it provokes them. Hope it works :)
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Well first off, people only bully other people because either they are bullied too or they are jealous of you so don't take any offense of what this girl is saying.
Second, what I think you should do is maybe tell her to get a life and leave you alone. If that doesn't work then just tell a teacher or adult, that can surely settle the problem. Keep standing up for yourself, no one should tolerate that kind of stuff!! Good luck I hope I helped you out! MUCH LOVE! Neelz
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BLONDShorty is probubly right BUT what shes saying is resroting to the bullies level, and should be used as a last resort only! Get some friends together, if there are are a bunch of people around you who will stand up for you that might make her stand down it's worked for me before, when my friend was being bullied one day, when I stood up for her the buly and her friend backed of .
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i had this problem too in the eighth grade. i always thought i was standing up for myself. but, i really had to tell her off for her to stop. the best thing you could do to her is this:
-first try to be nice to her. like excessively sweet. but do things behind her back, like put bugs in her locker and stuff and then when she asks who did it, just smile and say "you didn't think innocent little old me would have anything to do with this..... did u? shame shame"
-then befriend her friends. her group of friends is probably just as fed up with her as you are but are just afraid that if they aren't friends with her, she'll continue picking on them too. befriend her friends
-give her a taste of her own medicine. call her and tell her all those things she tells you
- or you can get somebody else to stand up for you without making it seem like you sent them. if you have a brother or something, make him say he was listening on the other phone and that he has been listening and to f*ck off or something like that
- usually bullies have a really low self esteem so either don't answer her phone calls or find out what ticks her off and what she's self concious about
hope i helped
and good luck! i know people can be cruel but most people that are just have a low self esteem
*muaz*
xoxo
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