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my dad cheating on mom?
okay well im set that my dad is cheating on my mom. these are the things that lead me to beleive that.
1. when we first got our sprint cell phones, he only got me 500 text msgs a month because he said, "if you need to tell/ask someone something, just call them" and stuff like "texting is stupid" "its so pointless" yatta yatta. but i was cool with it. well i went over twice and he said "if oyu go over again, you get your phone taken away" then like yte next day, he texts me and says he got me unlimited and he unblocked texting from his phone, so now HE could text. i was like... okay?? but COOL. then one he was texting like CRAZY and i was just like "who ya text'n" and he was like "NONE OF YOU FREAKIN BUSINESS" and he like, hisd his phone. and he talks on it every night when my moms not home and when i ask, "who ya talkn to?" (real casually) he freaks out and says "WHY DOES IT MATTER?!?!"
2 he says he need to go to the grocerie store and i was like "okay" w/e. and i asked him to get me some peach tea. he was gone for like a hour and a half but i though "oh he's probably buying a bunch of stuff" you know? but he came back and the ONLY thing he had bought was my peach tea... i was like "wow. that took forever. and all you bought was peach tea?" (cause we are like low on food, and i had nothing to eat) and he got all defensive and was like "JUST CHILL OUT, OKAY?"
3 he always talks crap about my mom behind her back. little things that dont even matter. they are pointless. like we are talking about something that has nothing to do with her and he'll bring up somthing bad about her and go on raving about it.
4 he's been late coming home from work lately
5 i know this seems gross, but they never like, kiss or flirt with each other anymore. and im pretty sure they dont have sex. (ew, but a necessity in a relationship)
so idk. what do you guys think? its freaking me out. omggg. and if you think he IS, what do i do????? i am so helpless. do i tell someone. who? do i talk to him about it??? gaww im so lost. ):
thank in advance.
xoxo (:
ps. my parents have been separeted MANY times before and devorced twice but got back together both times.
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Ok, i think that you should talk to your dad
Whats the worst that can happen?
He should know that you care about him
and your mom
so all you wanna do is know the truth
Just ask him a simple question like
"whats going on with you and mom?"
or
"Hows mom lately?"
or even
"Are you ok?"
It might feel awkward
and he might even get a little mad
but im sure that he loves you alot
and he will talk to you
And he might not even be cheating on your mom
Maybe hes just stressed out lately or something
like that
I really hope that this helps
Let me know what happens
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Ok... This has happened to me...But it wasn't what I thought... I used reverse psychology on my dad... One day as my dad was sitting on the couch I came back home from school and said really nastily, " I know what your upto dad, and you better stop it !!". Then I ran upto my room. My dad came upto my room. I thought he would be really worried and would be like , "Okay so you know...But dont tell mom about this..." But instead he asked me if I was facing some problem or had some trouble with him...Then i calmed down because my dad wasn't upto anything wrong... So why dont you try something like this...It really will work and if your dad is wrong he will be worried... But whatever the case maybe just know that you have many people around you who are there to help you... But always support your mom...
Best of luck, xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx
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You need to sit your Dad down and talk to him.
Then you need to sit your Mom and Dad down together, and tell talk to them. Tell them that their relationship obviously hasn't worked, so maybe it's time for them to move on.
Cheating sucks.
I hope I helped somewhat.
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i had something kinda similar, but not really, happen to me. I found out that my dad smokes cigarettes and he was trying to hide it. So one day after he caught me smoking something else (dont wanna go into details}, i grabbed his pack of cigarettes from his hiding spot and confronted him just like he confronted me. Do the same with your dad. Just be like "hey dad, do you mind if we talk real quick after dinner? I have something I've been wanting to ask you.." and then say "I know its stupid, but i keep getting the feeling that you are cheating on mom" or something like that. DONT make it sound like you are attacking/berating him or he will deny it out of self defense.
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talk to your mom and let her know. seriously, it's her right to know. maybe she could straighten things up. just pleaseee tell your mom!
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It sounds kind of sketchy, but he might not be cheating on your mom. They might just not love each other anymore...which is sad to think of, but if they have already been seperated before, the feelings just might not be there. I hope everything works out!
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to your comment- i think you should maybe try and talk to you dad...and if he gets angry and says " It doesn't matter", be like "Well Dad, I am sick of your secrets, i just want to know the truth." Tell him how you feel...and if he doesn't want to have the conversation with you, talk to your mom about it.
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