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I used to answer questions everyday..then I stopped...but now I'm Back! Just your average highschool student! Don't be afraid to ask anything!
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My mom constantly thinks I'm doing something wrong, but she used to buy me and my friends beer and stuff and even tried to get me more drunk than I already was once. I will admit I'm not perfect, but the worst thing I've done is smoke (cigarettes) and then drink with her permission. But now she asked me if I was sniffing WD-40! I dont think thats even possible! And she always thinks im lying. What do I do?
well honestly, and i am not trying to be rude, your mom is to blame in this situation..she should not be buying you beer and letting you drink, if you are underage...you need to talk to her..next time she accuses you of something, call her out...but be nice about it somehow...tell her that you are not doing anything bad and that the only things you have done have been with her and she condoned it so thats why you did it.
okey here's the deal. 15/f and i have never made out. i really really REALLY want to, but i'm afraid what the boy's reaction will be. example: what if i'm a bad kisser? what will he think? is that going to affect the way he thinks of me? i'm just really afraid of what he will say. I could either be a good kisser or a bad kisser and i just don't know. people are starting to call me prude now and i obviously am but i want to change that. help me?
don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with just because of what other people are saying..I am the same way...I don't feel like it is necessary to hook up and make out with a ton of people like my friends do..I'd rather save it for a relationship..so either wait it out...or just do it for the heck of it...but i would suggest waiting.
Uhm hello my brother has done a few sexual things and he is in the 6th grade and supposed to be in the 7th. Hes 13 years old. I am in the 8th grade and i have never done nething sexual except for a couple smooches.Uhm. He doesnt think its a big deal I do. Any advice i can give him.
umm to stop doing stuff at such a young age...that is it gross and wrong..tell him he is going to end up getting someone pregnant and they will bother him for the rest of his life and he will have a shitty job.
Okay, so ive been going out with my new boyfriend for like a 2-3 weeks now, and i never really cared about his ex-girlfriend (megan) cause he is the sweetest thing ever, and he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. so his ex-girlfriend is like satan, seriously. with other girls he went for she sent other people to go "Sweep her off her feet" so she'd stay away from chris (the boy). anyway. So when we were just friends, i asked him what he did with megan, and like he never fully said that he had sex with her, just that he was about to then, he left like, walked out. and then today i found out he actualy did. but like, i don't care taht they had sex, just that he didn't tell me. and then my one friend amanda is like listening to megan whine about how i am now going out with chris and how much she misses him. and i want to text her and be like, can't you just get over him? he moved on. you should too. its been almost 4 months now since you two broke up. PLUS, she like has a boy she likes too! like, why is she even bothering?! like seriously just back off. i understand shes upset, but now its just pathetic. like today she like saw us kiss in the hallway, and she started crying. and then she recently was like texting him and saying how we would be going out for a year soon, and that she was gunna get him a wii if they were gunna make it for a year. what the hell, you're gunna bribe him back to going out with him? but anyway, i don't know what to do with confronting him about lying, or maybe she is lying, or even saying anything to megan. :) anything will be useful at this point.
she might just be upset still because they were "physical" and that might cause more emotion..but seriously if it is bothering you alot...tell her to get over him..
So, I liked this boy and i told him, and he said he liked me too, so we start to get to know eachother better and blahblahblah, then i start talking to boy number 2, and he is so amazing, like the guy i've always dreamed of havin' kind of a thing. We were just friends and then he broke up with his girlfriend and i helped him along with it and we became real close, and we are always like "love you" and such, then boy 1's best friend just got lead on and dumped by this one chick and he was like "I WOULD DIE IF THAT HAPPENED TO ME!" so that just made it worse, like i can't do that too him now. So he asked me out a few days later and of course i said yes, i still like him at this point but i like boy2 more. That night boy2 got back together with his girlfriend and i just got real angry at him for it. And i like "confessed my love for him" you could say. And he said "I was actually going to ask you out later but then you told me your with the other Evan" So, that really screwed things over. Right now i don't have a lot of feelings for boy1 ((the one i am dating now)), but strong ones with boy2, and he says he has better feelings for me than his current girlfriend. But for us to be together i would have to break up with boy1, and he would break up with his girlfriend. So we can be happy together. But is hurting the other two really worth it?
Do i break up with Boy1 so i can be with boy2?
I use boy1 and 2 because their both named Evan.
Please Help??????
well if you aren't happy with boy1 and boy2 isn't happy with his current girlfriend..then breakup with them and get together. It might hurt their feelings but your feelings are more important.
first off im 13 in 8th grade and female. well, at school i'm made fun of for my chest size. its kind of embarrsing because i'm just a 32a and many of the 6th and 7th graders are already bigger then me. i do get jealous sometimes but what really bothers me is when the boys pick on me because of it. all my cusins are bigger then me by two cup sizes. i dont want to talk to my mom or anyone about it. i'd feel stupid. i know theres no way to make them grow, but is there a special makeup or something to help them appear to have cleavage? =[ i sound so stupid rar.
first of all, you are only 13, you still have a long time to grow to your fullest potential! haha...well all i can say is get a padded bra or something to give you a little more...but dont make them too much bigger or people will think you are stuffing your bra. don't listen to other people...some people are just small naturally too.
i bought nikes the other day and my friend told me they were not the right ones [air force ones] and i was wondering does anyone know where i can buy the RIGHT ones. i know like foot locker but can you tell me the url? oh yeah im a female..
thanks
these are the shoes im talking about
http://www.footlocker.com/catalog/productdetail/cm--Brands%3A%20Nike/supercat--brands/model--78306~13324111/mvpid--brand~60352/sport--all/
the only way to get the right shoes is to order them from nike.com
ok i have this so called guy friend who likes my good friend, my friend knew that he has a crush on her and he knows it too
and him and i always talk about her and i always listen and trying to help him out and he said this to me after my friend told me to tell him:
"friend": she said she likes someone ?
me : yeah
"friend": : ic...
me : yeah
me: ey no meeting in the library for a while
me : cause people are being UGh
me: so annoying
"friend": : well theres no need to talk to you anymore
me: as in?
"friend": : i only talk to you cause of her...
me: icic
me: umm ok then
"friend": : nice knowin you
and he signed out so was he using me?
from what i can see he was using you to get to her...just dont talk to him anymore.
where can i get a cheap one? links pleaseeee.
cropped or full length, and no crazy buttons.
THANKSSS, XOOO :)
I would just go to a normal department store, like Macys, Dillards, or JC Penny...there will many choices and different prices.
This question is for Christians, please.
I consider myself a Christian. I pray and whenever I do, I feel a sense of joy and I feel like I'm talking to the best person ever. But I always sin and I hate myself for it. Everyday, I judge people and I am vein and I get angry.
Whenever I do my hair or put on makeup, I feel like I'm being vein and I feel ugly in God's eyes. I also judge EVERYONE. Like, if I pass by an overweight person, I instantly think "That person is fat". This also makes me feel ugly to Him. I also gossip, lie..I do basically every sin except kill, steal, commit adultery, and worship idols. I repent though.
All of this sin that I do makes me feel like God won't accept me into Heaven when I die. I know that Jesus forgives us when we repent, but I sin so much that it seems like he would never let someone so sinful into his kingdom. When I ask to be forgiven, I always think "You've asked God to forgive you for doing that sin a million times. He won't give you another chance"
What do you suggest I do?
God forgives everyone, even killers and cheaters, etc. Everyone commits sins, even if they are small, it is just what Jesus died to save us for. Everyone is going to be judgemental and vein at some point in their life,and as long as you keep praying and commiting your life to Christ, then you shouldn't worry. The little sins do not make you a bad Christian.
okay well im set that my dad is cheating on my mom. these are the things that lead me to beleive that.
1. when we first got our sprint cell phones, he only got me 500 text msgs a month because he said, "if you need to tell/ask someone something, just call them" and stuff like "texting is stupid" "its so pointless" yatta yatta. but i was cool with it. well i went over twice and he said "if oyu go over again, you get your phone taken away" then like yte next day, he texts me and says he got me unlimited and he unblocked texting from his phone, so now HE could text. i was like... okay?? but COOL. then one he was texting like CRAZY and i was just like "who ya text'n" and he was like "NONE OF YOU FREAKIN BUSINESS" and he like, hisd his phone. and he talks on it every night when my moms not home and when i ask, "who ya talkn to?" (real casually) he freaks out and says "WHY DOES IT MATTER?!?!"
2 he says he need to go to the grocerie store and i was like "okay" w/e. and i asked him to get me some peach tea. he was gone for like a hour and a half but i though "oh he's probably buying a bunch of stuff" you know? but he came back and the ONLY thing he had bought was my peach tea... i was like "wow. that took forever. and all you bought was peach tea?" (cause we are like low on food, and i had nothing to eat) and he got all defensive and was like "JUST CHILL OUT, OKAY?"
3 he always talks crap about my mom behind her back. little things that dont even matter. they are pointless. like we are talking about something that has nothing to do with her and he'll bring up somthing bad about her and go on raving about it.
4 he's been late coming home from work lately
5 i know this seems gross, but they never like, kiss or flirt with each other anymore. and im pretty sure they dont have sex. (ew, but a necessity in a relationship)
so idk. what do you guys think? its freaking me out. omggg. and if you think he IS, what do i do????? i am so helpless. do i tell someone. who? do i talk to him about it??? gaww im so lost. ):
thank in advance.
xoxo (:
ps. my parents have been separeted MANY times before and devorced twice but got back together both times.
It sounds kind of sketchy, but he might not be cheating on your mom. They might just not love each other anymore...which is sad to think of, but if they have already been seperated before, the feelings just might not be there. I hope everything works out!
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to your comment- i think you should maybe try and talk to you dad...and if he gets angry and says " It doesn't matter", be like "Well Dad, I am sick of your secrets, i just want to know the truth." Tell him how you feel...and if he doesn't want to have the conversation with you, talk to your mom about it.
ok, so i am a little confused. i am a female, 14 years old, and a catholic cristian. i was wondering what we can and cant do with sex. i know God wants us to wait until we are married, but could we get naked infront of a guy? or what? please explain this to me!!!
thanks!!!
Well, Christianity says no sex before marriage..this means sex, and any sexual activities like touching the opposite sex in an inappropriate way, etc. So considering these facts I am pretty sure that getting naked in front of a guy is just provoking his "dirty" and wrong thoughts, which christianity is also against.
Hi, I rubbbed my bare vagina on my boyfriends penis while we were makin out orally. He was wearin his pants but he said he's havin pre-come... Do you think i'll get pregnant?
umm NO...you didn't have sex, and his pants were on...no way you could get pregnant.
what does sex with no strings attached mean? and please don't give me a link...
basically meaning that the relationship is ONLY for sex, no more commitment.
On my application form it asks "Have you ever been refused a bond application?" What is that and do I answer yes or no???? I'm not a criminal so if it has anything to do with jail and stuff I guess its a no but i want to know for sure. Please help. Thank you!
just put no, since you havent been in legal trouble.
It's Thursday and I haven't eaten since Sunday. And now I am extremely weak and dizzy. What exactly should I eat to feel better?
you feel dizzy because you haven't eaten! eat something fast! eat something with protein and vitamins, like fruits and veggies, then some meat and bread...EAT!
So basically,for the past 2 years i've LITERALLY BEEN INVISIBLE. to like everyone at school. So next year, i want to make a name. i was to be fun,crazy,and wild. So to get out there,i was thinking of trying out for Drama, Cheerleading, and finally Vollyball. and takeing as much electives i can get. But the thing is,i don't know how to cheer lead,it looks wicked fun though :o). im really short and light,so you know,i could be a flyer. but seriously,i dont people to hate me because i cheerlead,that stupid sterotype. anyways, is it easy to learn how? and is this a good idea? thankss.
I am a cheerleader and its not hard...just practice alot and you should catch on fast. Also, no one should hate you just because you're a cheerleader...the sterotype is stupid...just don't leave your friends and become stuckup and then no one will hate you.
I am a very enthusiastic christian, and the perverted people that i had to sit on the bus with (two Pastor's kids and three practicing christians!) started making fun of me because i didn't know all those perverted terms, and because i don't cuss, and i never even kissed a guy(saving it for marriage)and i actually felt bad about this afterward! I know that they were the ones in the wrong, but they made me feel like i was. What can i do? BTW-i already prayed for them like a million times.
Just keep practicing your beliefs. Don't feel bad because you don't know what they are talking about, obviously they are not very good christians, and the pastor's kid should be ashamed of themselves. Just don't let them make fun of you. In the end, you will be more respected because you didn't do anything bad.