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ok, so i am a little confused. i am a female, 14 years old, and a catholic cristian. i was wondering what we can and cant do with sex. i know God wants us to wait until we are married, but could we get naked infront of a guy? or what? please explain this to me!!!
thanks!!!
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if its for pleasure. no. even gettin naked is againist the bible. the reason why i say that, is beacuse it has somethin to do with sex. and its earthly. bible says we shouldn't do earthly things, we should focus on heavenly things. so in other words.....instead of gettin naked in front of a dude, and havenin that lead to sex, WHICH WOULD BE AGAINIST THE BIBLE! seek God and see what he says. hope this helps
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Catholicism is very strict on abstinence until marriage, and also on never using birth control, but you shouldn't really let that define you. You should choose abstinence not only to respect yourself, but God. Lots of people choose to have sex before they're married, and that is their personal choice, but at 14, that's crazy. (CH)
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Everyone interprits the bible and Christianity differently. I don't think you would be any less a Christian, a catholic or follower of Jesus's works for having sex, touching others/yourself or being naked n front of anyone male/female.
None of that affects your core religious beliefs or makes you any less a Christian. God's not out to judge or punish you for having natural and sexual desires. At your age however, it's best that you not act on them by having sex.
This is to keep you healthy and safe. But as far as God punishing you or condemning you it's not going to occur--or all of us would be going to hell for acting on desires. Think about it. You're still a devout catholic, a good person, and following your religion.
It's all about practicing the religious principals, following Christ etc. but as for condemnation I wouldn't worry. While the bible may make mention of waiting until one is married all of this is open to intepritation and the book is not meant to be taken literally all the time.
Regardless of if you descide to have sex before marraige most teachings say God is a loving God and not one who condemns or punishes people for things like this. He would for murder etc. Everything about sin etc. is interprited a million ways to Sunday School by each different religion sect.
Don't worry as you're a good Christian and practicing what you are taught and doing the best you can each day. That's what you should be doing. If you choose to have sex before marraige it's okay.
Nobody else can make that choice for you or has any right to try to do so or impose their beliefs. You have to listen to your own heart and act accordingly to make such a big decision.
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Well, Christianity says no sex before marriage..this means sex, and any sexual activities like touching the opposite sex in an inappropriate way, etc. So considering these facts I am pretty sure that getting naked in front of a guy is just provoking his "dirty" and wrong thoughts, which christianity is also against.
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I would assume the naked thing would not be allowed, just because when you confess you have to confess to things like having dirty thoughts.
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I think this means that you cant have intercourse. You can get naked in front of a guy if you want to, that is not considered sexx. If you just avoid intercourse then you'll be fine.
Good Luck
krystal
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No, you cannot. I read at an online Christian website about this.
God does not want anything sexual to go on between unmarried people. This includes oral sex, anal sex, nudity, phone sex, and sex.
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