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boyfriend&his ex girlfriend.
Okay, so ive been going out with my new boyfriend for like a 2-3 weeks now, and i never really cared about his ex-girlfriend (megan) cause he is the sweetest thing ever, and he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. so his ex-girlfriend is like satan, seriously. with other girls he went for she sent other people to go "Sweep her off her feet" so she'd stay away from chris (the boy). anyway. So when we were just friends, i asked him what he did with megan, and like he never fully said that he had sex with her, just that he was about to then, he left like, walked out. and then today i found out he actualy did. but like, i don't care taht they had sex, just that he didn't tell me. and then my one friend amanda is like listening to megan whine about how i am now going out with chris and how much she misses him. and i want to text her and be like, can't you just get over him? he moved on. you should too. its been almost 4 months now since you two broke up. PLUS, she like has a boy she likes too! like, why is she even bothering?! like seriously just back off. i understand shes upset, but now its just pathetic. like today she like saw us kiss in the hallway, and she started crying. and then she recently was like texting him and saying how we would be going out for a year soon, and that she was gunna get him a wii if they were gunna make it for a year. what the hell, you're gunna bribe him back to going out with him? but anyway, i don't know what to do with confronting him about lying, or maybe she is lying, or even saying anything to megan. :) anything will be useful at this point.
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no offense but it sounds like your hurting her, the way you want to settle it is saying "cant you just get over him, move on" You have to picture yourself in her shoes, she's obviously upset and she had sex with him, which could have been a big deal to her. I admit okay its not right for her to complain and bribe him, but i think you need to be more compassionate about it, picture yourself in her shoes. You can settle it by talking to her in a nice way, it would show that your mature
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she might just be upset still because they were "physical" and that might cause more emotion..but seriously if it is bothering you alot...tell her to get over him..
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