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MAKING OUT
okey here's the deal. 15/f and i have never made out. i really really REALLY want to, but i'm afraid what the boy's reaction will be. example: what if i'm a bad kisser? what will he think? is that going to affect the way he thinks of me? i'm just really afraid of what he will say. I could either be a good kisser or a bad kisser and i just don't know. people are starting to call me prude now and i obviously am but i want to change that. help me?
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i used to have the same problem and if you find the right guy that you want to makeout with just go for it, if you dont you will spend alot more time wondering what if im bad or what if he doesnt like me anymore and stuff like that. if he really likes you then he wouldnt care and youre never going to know if your good or bad until you do it so stop worrying about it the more you worry about it and think about it the more your going to suck at makeing out...as long as you doint bite or drool on the guy then your fine. i used to be known as the prude girl to so just dont even listen to them when you find the right time then go ahead
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don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with just because of what other people are saying..I am the same way...I don't feel like it is necessary to hook up and make out with a ton of people like my friends do..I'd rather save it for a relationship..so either wait it out...or just do it for the heck of it...but i would suggest waiting.
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i used to be JUST like you. Truth is, you really just have to do it. If you want it to be meaningless the first time, then just hook up with someone at a party or soemthing to get the hang of it, but if not, then when you and your guy are together just go for it, he'll like it if you make the first move, and because he cares about you i can honestly say that he won;t care how you kiss, and after one or two make out sessions you will me MUCH better. you just get better with every kiss. a little piece of advice, stick to slow, its really hard to be bad at it when you go slow.
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practice by eating m&m's off of a mirror
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First of all, ignore the people calling you names- screw them, they can do what they want but should leave you to do the same, end of.
Second of all the best way you're going to be a good kisser (and I know everyone says this but it's really true) is to be with a person you genuinely like and are comfortable with and to just relax. I have had some pretty amazing and some pretty horrendous kisses and I can honestly say that even the best 'techniques' do absolutely nothing if the person means nothing to you.
The only general tips are fresh breath, not too much tongue or saliva (noone wants to feel they've gone 10 rounds with a seaurchin....trust me) and to just laugh about it if something goes wrong.
Oh and to enjoy it!
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