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i know men can have them because of their prostates, but can women? (link)
women can, but not because of something that is inside on thier anus. They can because of stimulation during anal sex, the fact that the actual act of anal sex turns you on can also lead to an orgasm, however rare. There are ways to get pleasure out of it but it does not involve anyk ind of "female prostate"


im looking dfor a very difficult song, its something like this ..but is one of those songs where you cannot really tell what is the person singing :S cause its too hard to understand i got this part though i dont know if its alright please help me ive been looking for months!!!!

"i would be feeling drowning on the floor bouncing out of love what would you do what would you do when what would you do if ..." (link)
it could be ateens? called inside out.

the lyrics are: inside out, buuncing off the cieling upside down, a stranger to the feeling, i've got no clue, what i should doooo id go crazy if i cant get next to you


This is my first year going to a public school. it is really hard cause it is my 9th grade year so all the girls there arleady know each other and they are sorta snobby. there are a few girls there that are really nice and i hace talked to, but i am really shy and we'll be talking and we don't really know each other so we just end up with realy akward silences. oh yeah and how do you tell someone you don't want to go out with them without hurting them. telling them you dont know them well enough doesn't work cause they just want to get to know you better. HELP!!!! (link)
well you just gotta rememver to always be nice to them, they'll warm up to you, i was one of those girls last year. As long as you go into it just wanting to make friends and not have an attitude or anything you'll be fine. and as for the guy, u really just have to be blunt. if they ask you out, just say youd rather be friends, you dont think its right. U cant beat around the bush


do guys like belly button piercings or not? like are they to slutty or cute?

and i have a really good body (not to be conceited) but just saying that cause im not some big girl everyone tells me it would be cute on me but im wondering what guys think of it? (link)
it depends on the kind of guys your into also. if you want an intellectual guy they might think they're slutty becaue they're not into those girls, but if you want a hot bad buy then he'lll like it for sure. u gotta watch what you wear too though, like no dangly chain rings or belly shirts.


im going on a big mall trip today. and its really cold and yucky and crappy out.. so i wanna wear sweats. is that completely bummy? i just want some opinions :) let me know ♥ (link)
not at all, if your do your hair nice and wear a cute shirt your totally fine, i do it all the time.


My hair is layered and it's kinda longish. I straighten it before school in the morning (it's naturally wavy) and by the time i get to school its all wavy again and it goes thick and like straw. It's disgusting I hate it. Please, please, can someone help me. I need it to stay straight. I can't stand it, it's disgusting! (link)
i have VERY similar hair to you, and i was using this 25 dollar straightner from cvs. if you go to folicia.com and order the sedu revolution it will do WONDERS for your hair, its 130 dollars but well worth it. Use repairitive shampoo (like dove) because the healthier the hair the better it will hold the styling. You can buy serum by john frida, or stick straight by bedhead and put that in your hair before or after your striaghten it and that will make a HUGE difference.


Does anyone know any good websites that you can get free ringtones? I really want "PS I love you" by the all-american rejects or "Boys of Summer" by the Ataris. Can anyone help me out? Thanks so much. (link)
go to www.phonezoo.com and make an account, you only get charged for the text message and you have a pretty much endless amount of ringtines to choose from


my friend ryan committed suicide about two weeks ago and i just can't get over it. just seeing him in that casket made me sick to my stomach and burst into tears. it's so wrong to see a 15 year old in a casket.. it's just wrong. everything reminds me of him cuz he was the coolest person in the world. plz tell me how to overcome this or help me to be at peace with his death. i miss him so much (link)
there have been three suicides in my school in the past three years and its nothing easy to get over. You can't expect it to go away, and the pain is something that you just have to live through, soon enough you will feel numb to it, but it will never go away. You jsut have to try to understand that he did it because he was unhappy, and that now hes in a better place. be happy you had such an amazing person in your life. you have to try to flip the situation to the bright side, to see the silver lining. celebrate his life, dont mourn it. THink about him all the time, keep him in your mind, and you will eventually come to peace with the facts. stay strong, thats what i;m sure he would want.


So everyone says fingering yourself gives you EXTREME pleasure. Anyways, I've tried it and...nothing. Could someone please tell me what to do?? Thanks!! %% (link)
well i think its different for everyone, some girls feel more pleasure that way then others, and there are certain spots that you can hit to relaly make it pleasureable. When you have a guy do it to you its much hotter, mainly because you get turned on in the first place and then having someone be that sexual can be really hot and its much better that way,


my friend uses a vibrators EVERY DAY. can this make it so she can't have children? (link)
no she can have as many children as she wants, theres absolutely nothing masturbating can do to hurt your body, its all good. :)


I NEED TIPS! how do you do it right? like just lean in? sorry this sounds so silly. I NEED HELP though :)

15 fem (link)
It really depends on the situation, but the two of you will both be leaning in, and your gonna come together alot faster then expected, its not like it the movies where you drag it out, your first kiss is never that sensual so your not gonna have to worry about it. Just go in for the kill and kiss slow! thats the best advice i got for ya


15/f. i use proactiv for my skin and it really helps. my skin normally looks really good except for maybe one zit. but now i'm on my period and i'm breaking out like crazy!

what can i do? i look horrible. my face is all red and blotchy from the zits.

so just what can i do in addititon to my proactiv to make them go away? (link)
you really just have to wait it out when you have your period, aviod sugar and greasy foods, they can make your face worse. Try calming mosturizer, it will reduce redness and blotchiness in your face.


idk if this is in the right catergory but oh well

alright well im thirteen: in the beginning of the school year i was outgoing fun perky and always happy and now im always just blahh &the exact opposite:
did i just change? am im going to be like this forever? whatsss happeninggg :(
i need tips getting through this too: pleasee
thank you in advance! (link)
you could have a mild form of depression, you might want to ask your doctor about this one. It could aslo be that you just hab;t tried to put in the effort, you need to be willing to try. Just go out one night and pretend to have fun, acy happy and excited around all your friends at a dance or party and i bet by the end of the night you will stop pretending and actually have a good time. I tink you just need to find better activities or friends based on how you have changed and what you want to do now.


i have these reddish bumps on my arm. some other girls/guys i know have it too...i was just wondering what it was called. my doctor told me that people are born with it and it is not contagious but it can't be cured. what is this called? is there a website about it? (link)
I don;t know the medical name for it but in "slang" or whatever its called chicken scratch. You can't get rid of it but you can try to minimize it, use cream thats made to decrease redness, the bumps will be less visible, and you can also get acne body wash (even though this is no acne) to help lessen the bumps as well.


hi, i was wondering if anybody knew any products that help with really oily skin? also with acne.
mine isn't too bad, but i'd like it to clear up :]

any suggestions are very much appreciated :] (link)
There's a line of face products made by clearasil formulated especially for people with oily skin. if you buy the face wash and night cream it should definitly made stuff better, it relaxes the pores and makes it significantly better. There are also skin pads that you can buy and keep in your purse for times you need spot control.



i\'m 14f. and theres this guy whose moving state pretty soon, and we want to see each other before he goes. before school ended we almost went out, but then he backed down, then wanted me back. i made out with him a few times. hes almost 16. he said he wants to have sex and make some memories before he goes. he said hes having a leaving party, and there will be alcohol and his parents r gone. but i dont know if i\'m ready or whats gunna happen. i\'m just worried about the consequences and stuff. dont say \"just tell him your not ready\" cuz i would be except for what could happen. i just need to talk about this and need opinions.

thanks so much xx (link)
i think thats a very bad idea. even if you are ready this is NOT the guy that you should be having sex with. That line about "making some memories and having sex" is absolute crap. i bet you he'll forget about you in a year, and you'll remmeber him as the ass that got you in bed sorry to be so rude about this but its definitely a bad idea. and you've only made out with him a few times? not good. I would wait until you have a guy whose less of a creeper and you have more of a connection with.


im looking for eyeshadow quads/trios.

any recommendations? i want them to stay on long...

ive been looking into rimmel and revlon...any preferences? (link)
actually N.Y.C makes a really good quad, called MOD. its got opposite colors and they really make your eyes pop. They stay on for a long time and they really work.


one of my best friends has become obsessed with being popular. unfortunately, the popular kids dont even like her. so she just follows them around and tries to look like shes with them. sometimes one of them will ask her to go to the movies or something, but only because they need a ride there. then when they get there they ignore her or ditch her. then she sends them messages like "why wont you be my friend? am i not popular enough for you?" shes making a fool of herself and im really embarrassed for her. i wish i could say something to her, but what would i say? or is it better to just let her figure it out on her own? (link)
i don't think shes gonna learn, only because every time they acknowledge her, she gains hope. and that hope isn't easily beaten down. its gonna be up to you to show her and prove to her that shes better than them. She'll learn it eventually but not without the help of a real friend.


I plan on having my first kiss this summer.
Any tips? (link)
go slow. thats the thing i wiiiish someone had told me. all the other stuff, like technique ans junk will come to you. but when you go slow, its way neater, more enjoyable, and the boy is way less likely to try to engulf your entire face. thats the thing thats most important, you have to enjoy the first one!


This is a question for teenage girls. My daughter and I have always been very close. She's always been very open with me and willing to share things about school, friends, boys, etc. Now that she's 13, though, things have changed some. Sometimes I can tell she's upset about something, but when I ask her what's wrong, she doesn't want to talk about it. I realize this is normal, that she wants some privacy and doesn't need her mom butting in on everything. But I also know it sometimes helps to talk about things instead of keeping them inside. I want her to know that I'm here for her and that she can tell me anything. Should I keep trying to get her to talk, or should I just leave her alone and hope she'll open up if she needs me? (link)
well i;m a teenage girl and i know what your talking about. The thing is, the stuff shes going through now she probably can't tell you. mainly because its about her friends hooking up, or drinking, or smoking or something. so all of the gossip she used to love to spill to you, she no longer can. As long as she knows that your available, she'll want to talk to you whenever she can. and don't push the "whats wrong" question, because personally, the more people ask me the more peeved i get.




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