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i dont know :(
i\'m 14f. and theres this guy whose moving state pretty soon, and we want to see each other before he goes. before school ended we almost went out, but then he backed down, then wanted me back. i made out with him a few times. hes almost 16. he said he wants to have sex and make some memories before he goes. he said hes having a leaving party, and there will be alcohol and his parents r gone. but i dont know if i\'m ready or whats gunna happen. i\'m just worried about the consequences and stuff. dont say \"just tell him your not ready\" cuz i would be except for what could happen. i just need to talk about this and need opinions.
thanks so much xx
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Listen to me, if you two have only made out you are not ready. Just because hes leaving, doesn't mean you should use sex to remmeber eachother or anything like that. If you dont love him dont do it, besides hes older then you hun and I wouldn't want you to get hurt. If you have sex with him, you probably will regret it. Not only that it will hurt alot for you as well. [i'm 14 female and i lost it two days ago to my boyfriend who've i been with over a year] well, do what you want, i hope everything works out.
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You shouldn't have sex just for "good memmories". Sex is a serious step and to me you're just too young. I don't think you're ready if you're asking us because you seem unsure, and like I said to another person, it's like your looking for approval from us just to convince yourself that having sex with him is the right decision. Virginity is a precious gift, and you should really think about if this is the guy who you want to give it to because once it's gone it's gone, and it's not coming back (unless if you want to be a "born again" virgin,which technically isn't a virgin anyways). Sex should be for those who KNOW they're mature. If you do choose to have sex with him you should both get tested to prevent any STDs or illnesses that may result and use condoms, but although they do help prevent pregnancy, they're not 100% effective. Keep that in mind.
I hope I helped!
And again, make the right choice, YOUR choice.
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BAD idea.
BAD idea.
a] no offense, hes NOT into you if he backed out of going out with you. He only wants you for sex.
b] Alcohol leads to other issues. If your drunk, and hes drunk your not going to use your best judgement.
c] you'll probably get busted.
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I don't think it's a good idea to have sex with him. You want to have sex with someone you love and care for and you want it to be special. I don't think you're ready for this quite yet, especially if he's not even your boyfriend. It sounds like he's just trying to get in your pants to me. "Memories?" No honey he just wants some ass. So wait and tell him no. I don't advise you drink at that party either in case he tries to pressure you into anything.
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i think thats a very bad idea. even if you are ready this is NOT the guy that you should be having sex with. That line about "making some memories and having sex" is absolute crap. i bet you he'll forget about you in a year, and you'll remmeber him as the ass that got you in bed sorry to be so rude about this but its definitely a bad idea. and you've only made out with him a few times? not good. I would wait until you have a guy whose less of a creeper and you have more of a connection with.
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Don't do it. It's a really big step, something that will carry with you for the rest of your life. If you're not positive that you're ready, don't do it. You'll regret it. Aside from emotional consequences, theres always the chance you'll get pregnant, however small that chance is. If you're not ready to deal with the potential consequences, don't do it.
Thats my opinion. Good luck
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honestly, this all sounds like a bad idea.
for one, you have no idea what could go on
if you got drunk & two, these "memories"
that he wants to make arent a good idea ...
they'll either make you miss him more or
you'll just regret it later on. make love
with a guy you love, not a guy you just
madeout with.<3
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