my name is ashley. i'm a really open person who usually can make anybody laugh! i love who i am and i dont change for anybody... i think calling somebody fake is useless. i hate when you people try and "change" others! its retarded. i'm honestly confident and if i love somebody, i'll easily tell them.btw, i'm single. most people, well that i have heard, respect me for who i am in a lot of ways. i'm well known in my school for having good character and always, always helping anybody. i dont believe in popular. in fact, i hangout with everybody
Gender: Female
Location: chicago :]
Occupation: none
Age: 14
AIM: cutayxindaHOUSE
Member Since: June 13, 2007
Answers: 19
Last Update: June 30, 2007
Visitors: 2548
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What, for you, is the most comfortable place to put your hands when your making out? (link)
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well i'm a girl & i like to put my hands
usually on his lap :]
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Can anyone give me ideas for a screenname (AIM)?
(My names Leah, & my lucky numbers are 7 &4, if that helps?)
thanks! (link)
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call me LEAH xO
love LEAH xx
kily x
woaa x yer hot
leah is cute x
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i've been really undecided about college lately. i've been stuck between about 5 colleges. one of them happens to be in a city called Statesboro. i don't live anywhere near statesboro.
i went to the gas station today and a man was looking at my shirt. i thought he said something so i said "hm?" and he said "oh, i thought your shirt said Statesboro". i thought that was the weirdest thing! it's not like i live close to the city at all, it's about 5 hours away! and someone thought my shirt said that! is that a sign that i should go to the college in statesboro? (link)
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hmm, well if you believe in fate & all that
stuff, then yes it is a sign :]
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hi friends, well i am very much confused about certain things and that is....though i like girls and do enjoy their company, yet at the same time i also happen to get attracted to boys and men i.e. of my gender. i believe i am a bisexual! but sometimes i do feel like i am a lady and i do fanatsize me being that. this really does embarass me. i don't know what to do. I am CONFUSED!??. kINDLY advice. (link)
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dont be embarrassed.
knowing your age would be helpful
though because if your lets say
14 or 15, your still going through
puberty and sometimes your hormones
go crazy =D dont get too worried.
take it step by step and see if you
still are attracted to guys after
a while. =D
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Ok, you see I just hooked up with my ex-bf that I havent seen since I was 8. BUT, before we went out, this other guy asked me out at the pool, i said yes. But I know I'll probally never see him ever again. But I want to know if Im cheating because Ive never cheated in my life. If I am what should I do? SHould I break up with my bf I havent seen since I was 8, or forget about it because I know I'll never see the guy who asked me out ever again. (link)
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i understand why your concerned.
but seriously, forget about the
guy at the pool. you pretty much
answered your own question. you'll
never see him again, so why worry.
and if someone wants to say " OMG
you are cheating on that guy " ,
then they are wrong. =D
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i feel like im ugly or i am too pushy or my standards r too high...idk i have only started dating when i was in 5th grade the longest relationship i have been in has only lasted 3 months.....now i had a bf that i really loved and really cared about and i still do but he didn't want to be tied down cas basically he wasn't finished fooling around and well our relationship lasted 3weeks and 1day i still having feelings for him and i tryed goin out with other ppl but it just didn't work out i don't know what to do.
so basically i am asking what should i think about if i want to have a long lasting relationship and how should i act towards a guy?
plzz answer asap (link)
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i think you should be yourself and just go with
the flow of the relationship . dont try to make
it perfect or anything. a lot might happen when
two people are going out & you just want to ride
along with whats happening. when your dating a
guy, try to talk to him everyday but dont keep
bothering him. plan some dates together, but dont
go overboard with that. give him space. no guy
wants to be tied down. let him know he has your
trust by not keeping him on a leash. also, give
him freedom. dont get mad at him for "flirting"
with a girl. like 3 out of 5 guys are flirters.
its just how they are =D
acting towards a guy:
be flirtatious(if he's single)
dont look slutty or sleazy
give him compliments
be confident with what you say or do.
hope i helped babe.
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i\'m 14f. and theres this guy whose moving state pretty soon, and we want to see each other before he goes. before school ended we almost went out, but then he backed down, then wanted me back. i made out with him a few times. hes almost 16. he said he wants to have sex and make some memories before he goes. he said hes having a leaving party, and there will be alcohol and his parents r gone. but i dont know if i\'m ready or whats gunna happen. i\'m just worried about the consequences and stuff. dont say \"just tell him your not ready\" cuz i would be except for what could happen. i just need to talk about this and need opinions.
thanks so much xx (link)
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honestly, this all sounds like a bad idea.
for one, you have no idea what could go on
if you got drunk & two, these "memories"
that he wants to make arent a good idea ...
they'll either make you miss him more or
you'll just regret it later on. make love
with a guy you love, not a guy you just
madeout with.
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Lay 'em on me girls! I want all your beauty tips - no matter how weird! Of course the guys can help too, but I though this would be more up the girls' alley!
What I mean is - I recently found out how amazing you look after tanning, or what a HUGE difference tweezing your eyebrows make! And if someone would have just told me this sooner I could have saved myself a lot of tears, i look 10 times better now and in 10 days I've gotten more boys than I ever have in my life! (i used to be bullied, boys wouldn't even look my way!)
So help me - tell me what you've got?! Any discoveries that completely changed your life (or atleast your look!) ?
Thank you! It could be anything from eye-make up to ... well, anything really. Haha :)
Thank you and have a good summer! (link)
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http://beauty.ivillage.com/archive/0,,13-4-5,00.html
they have a lot of tips on girl stuff..
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ok well yesterday i graduate middle school. and my best friend and i are going to different high schools. people all assume we're a couple because we're practically glued at the hip but he told me he didnt like me like that but ive always liked him. problem with him is he gives a lot of mixed signals. so i was talking to him on msn and he had to go. i said "wow im not gonna see you at school tomorrow anymore. its so weird.." then he said "i know...i love you" and i said "i love you too". the he said "we sure say a lot for not a couple...some major questioning is to be done." what does that mean? i really have no idea what he meant. and i told him i dont like him anymore. so he doesnt think i still do. and i know its time to move on and just be friends but what did he mean by that? thanx (link)
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hold up. do you still have feelings for him?
because obviously, he does too.
so rewind a little bit & call him.
tell him, you've liked him for quite a while.
and by that he meant we need to see if we
are supposed to be together and if we like
eachother
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well my cousin died in november, im 16 he was 27 but he was my best friend like i talked to him all the time and we were just really close. does anyone know of any quotes about just missing somone who has died and wanting them to be here soo bad, i miss him and i just need good quotes. please help (link)
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well the song " who knew " by pink
is about the same thing except her
" friend " died and she misses him
very much! check out that song
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okay...im datin this guy named michael lee....i like him ..but im havin second thoughts cause its like everytime were on the phone..we hardly talk...then on 6/13/07 i met this guy named Kaleb..he is sweet..we have alot in common and when i say a lot i mean alot....we could hardly stop talking the nite he called me...we can talk about ANYTHING....unfortunately he lives in Hawaii..but if i say with lee im gonna be moving to MD so it still wont work...i jus dont kno wwat to do...
HELP!!!
HELP!!!
HELP!! (link)
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For One - how did you meet kaleb?
if he lives in hawaii, then how do
you know him? where do you live?
For Two - do you even know if he likes you?
dont end a fine relationship on a silly
" maybe crush ".
For Three - just because you and your man
dont talk, doesnt mean that you guys arent
right. but, i do get what you are saying.
maybe he isnt the one. but again, this kaleb
doesnt sound like a great guy to date...
you actually sound like you'd be better single:]
(not to be rude)
so do this ---ยป
find out if k. likes you.
if he does .... then spend some
more time with him to make sure
that hes the right guy...
if k. doesnt, try and see if you and
m. are a good match & that you stiill like him!
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ok i want a myspace, im 14 and i think im old enough to know what is out there. my mom has been thinking about it for like 3 days and still picks out all the negative things about it, there are more positive. what should i do to help my mom know im old enough to have one? (link)
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tell her you won't put anything personal
on it. like a picture, school, last name,
school logo, and hometown/phone number!
i'm 14, i was able to have a myspace when
i was 12 but my mom made sure that i didnt
have anything like that on it & i was fine.
and i totally think your ready for one,
because DUH- your 14 ;]]
just be safe and dont talk to stalkerish ppl.
you know the deal :]
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My boyfriend is going to parties since school has ended. You know? Those high school parties and then he talks about going to those college parties. It really bothers me a lot :[ He's quite handsome and I'm sure he wouldn't do anything with other girls.. but girls have always flirted with him and tried to do stuff. I don't want something to happen. I know.. he's going to get high, drunk and whatever. It bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do... I'm afraid something might happen.
But I know that I can't tell him.. he can't go.
Is there anyway that I can distract myself? (link)
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to keep your mind off of what he's
doing, hang with your girl friends:]
have a girls night out & talk about
some other crap thats going on
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Whenever I hear my voice on some kind of recording I think it sounds really bad and nasal.(dvds of my performances) Even though everyone I've worked with says "oh you have such a gorgeous voice it's really strong" and "no you're not doing it nasally. at all!" (and these are vocal professionals) I still think my voice usually doesn't sound too hot on recordings.
What is an accurate way to hear my voice- the way it TRULY sounds? Getting a demo CD? How do I go about doing that?
(since I know your own ears don't hear your voice accurately because they're behind you) (link)
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only you are hearing your voice nasally.
and it seems like it doesnt matter 2 much
anyways :D trust me, if your voice sounded
really weird; you would be told that.
EVERYONE'S voice sounds at least a little bit
different on for example, an answering machine
its just how the machine attracts your voice's
sound waves! be more confident in your "work".
:]
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ok so my mom is soo overprotective and i dont know what to do. here are some examples, she looks over my shoulder and reads what im typing to my friends on aim, if i say liike "wow today was so much fun" so one of my friends, my mom would be like "Why, what did you do today?" oh my gosh all the time and then i was looking at myspace layouts and she saw one[the myspace layouts on the internet are just previews, so they have TOM on the top 8. and my mom is like who is that man? im like oh my gosh its the owner of myspace, he is always on there. like ughhh she wonders why im always upset, and its because she doesnt trust me. she says its not a trust issue, but all of the apove, pretty much spells it out. theres other things she does but i dont know please help me, what should i do? (link)
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sweetie, your mom isn't really overprotective.
my mom does the same. when i was younger, she
put this 'thing' on my aim called NANNY and it
saved everything i wrote... i didn't care that
much i guess because i didnt write anything bad.
but if you care that much, then just tell her.
be like, mom, i understand why you wanna be very
protective of me and do the best you can for me,
but lately your getting over the edge and you
can trust me! keep reassuring her, by doing
good in school & being in the house on time to
have her trust so that way, she'll cool it:]
hope i helped dear:]
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I don't know why, my nose is clean and everything but everytime I breathe out it has this liek whistle sounds coming out and it is VERY annoying.
Like i can't laugh during school or else you'll hear a whistle sound and I can't sleep either because everytime i breathe out it makes this annoying whistle sound!
And beleive me, i cleaned out my nose in evey way you can imagine! (link)
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GO TO A DOCTOR.
i had to get my tonsils out because
my breathing passage was so narrow.
so maybe yours is too, but in your
case, your nose! the best place to go
is a NOSE/THROAT doctor. (obv.)
dont be so self conscience about it either.
:] hope i helped.
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first of all sorry for the length
so i have a bff her name is china and another and hes a guy and hes absolutely gorgeous! ive had a thing for him ever since i can remmebr. well one night there was this party...with alcohol..well im sort of a good girl so i left because im not a alochol person..so anyways the next day i asked my frined maggie what kind of scandals happened and she told me that my BFF slep with my GBF(guy best frined ok lolz!) anyways so i was filled with so many emotions...anger...dissapointment...rejection...hurt ...anywyas so i found out like 2 weeks later that china is pregnant and my gbf (maxwell) is the father. i was soooo angry and hurt and dissapointed and sad...so i went to him and i told him how i was so dissapointed in his horrible decision and he said he didnt mean but he was just soo shitfaced i mean seriously! ugh so then right there he confesses his love for me... i know like the OC right? anyways i was so sad i simply said "my heart cant bear it" and walked away. well hes been getting help for the past 4 months because since ive rejected him hes been drinking/cutting and everything..and china had an abortion... well now hes back and he looks SOOO GOOD
its almost like nothing happened! well hes having a sweet 16 and i wanna tell him my feelings because i havent gotten over him but my probelem is
im wearing a strapless dress and no panties ... what shoes would go good? the dress is puke green with sparkles IT GOES WITH MY EYES!
also..i have horrid bacne.. anysolutions?
oh and do you think he likes me? or do you think the people he was with when getting help told him to dump his friends??
HELP! (link)
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sweetie, this guy got your best friend
pregnant... c'mon, you seriously want to
start a relationship with him right away?
go ahead and tell him your feelings, but i
would seriously stay away from this guy. not
saying he's in terms "bad", but he def.
sounds like a guy that could screw you over.
even if he did get help, it probably didnt
improve his attitude towards people/girls.
in my opinion, i dont think he likes you.
he might, but after being away for a while,
he probably moved on. so your relationship
(if you still want it after my advice) -
will take a little longer to develop .
hope things go well :]
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OK, so this is gonna be long but i`m so sorry but bare with me PLEASE i need help...
so there is this girl, "g" and we became best friends ever since the begining of the year. we were both new and she was still attatched to her other two BESTBEST friends, "E" and "A", so we hung out allll the time! and we went to the mall, EVERYTHING together. however, toawrds the end of the school year, she began ditching US, me and my other best friend "M" for her OTHER friends. we fought and then made up and THEN, yesterday, there was this banquet thing and she went to her friend "A"'s house and didn`t come to the banquet. But that day, when we were like, so youre ditching us for HER and she was like yeah. and i was like ok then youre saying we shuldn`t be friends AT ALL anymore? and she was like yeah.
and we were all WTF.
but today was the last day of school, and we were ok-ish, not bffs.
in two days, i`m having this little get together and i invited her.
but yeah, i still want to be friends with her but shes not coming back to my school next year and shes going to surf camp with two of her friends this year E & A.
PLEASE HELP;
i still wanna hang with her over summer.
thanks (link)
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i personally wouldn't even bother to try to
contact her again in the summer. i mean, the
get together is fine, but seriously, if this
girl leaves you like that; she's not a good
bff! do you want her to keep ditching you,
leaving you in the dust? you are bound to lose
her anyways because shes moving away! fine new
and better friends that you can rely on...
who cares if she WAS your bff, you gotta move
on. and to that, find new friends
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this is a question for girls or guys...but i am really really scared about my relationship with my boyfriend...so i need some experienced answers.
how can you tell if a guy is still "emotionaly attached" to his exg/f????
thank you (link)
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usually a guy will definately flirt with
this ex or always talk about her. for
example... if you guys are talking about
school - he could bring up what a great time
she is to be with! your guy will probably
invite her to parties or etc. although some
people might find this "bad", i have done it.
take a peek at his cell phone. if his recent
calls are from this ex, then you know they
are obviously still keeping in touch...
if you think he is interested in her...
either break up with him or just tell
him . he'll either tell you... or he wont.
good luck babe!
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