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what does it mean?
ok well yesterday i graduate middle school. and my best friend and i are going to different high schools. people all assume we're a couple because we're practically glued at the hip but he told me he didnt like me like that but ive always liked him. problem with him is he gives a lot of mixed signals. so i was talking to him on msn and he had to go. i said "wow im not gonna see you at school tomorrow anymore. its so weird.." then he said "i know...i love you" and i said "i love you too". the he said "we sure say a lot for not a couple...some major questioning is to be done." what does that mean? i really have no idea what he meant. and i told him i dont like him anymore. so he doesnt think i still do. and i know its time to move on and just be friends but what did he mean by that? thanx
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you guys are as close as you say you are - ask him. Say that you don't want to risk your friendship, but your feelings run deeper. You are willing to respect his decision, but if he wants to be just friends, then he doesn't need to lead you on.
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Well, first, congratulations on graduating!
Hmm, alright, so i would definitely say that he likes you..his feelings could have changed from when he told people that he didn't like you, OR, he could've lied to them.
I can safely inference that he likes you, not only because he said I love you--but especially when eh said "We sure say a lot for not a couple..."
Maybe he was getting at asking you out.
I don't know if it's worth it to like him, because you said he's going to a different high school.
But if you really like him, GO FOR IT! Talk to him. Call him on the phone or something..
Wishing you the best of luck!
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You know, I don't know your best friend, I don't know you, and I don't know the details of your situation, so I can't tell you what he meant by that. But I do want to tell you something else. You need to tell him how you feel. I'm in a similar situation right now, so I feel the need to say some things to you. I'm not the kind of person to tell someone when I like them, and I don't like to talk about my feelings. But I liked one of my best friends a lot, and my mother is the one the convinced me to tell him. I told him how I felt, and it turns out he felt the same way too, but I waited too long to tell him. He (sort of) rejected me, but he didn't make me feel stupid about it at all. If this guy is really your best friend, even if he doesn't feel the same way about you, he won't feel any differently about you after you tell him. I felt so so soooo much better after I told my friend (& I'll spare you the details, but the story has a happy ending!) and you will too. You can't keep things bottled up inside, just tell him. Good luck =)
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hold up. do you still have feelings for him?
because obviously, he does too.
so rewind a little bit & call him.
tell him, you've liked him for quite a while.
and by that he meant we need to see if we
are supposed to be together and if we like
eachother <3
and if he doesnt like you, which i doubt,
then stick with being friends <3
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