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Parties
My boyfriend is going to parties since school has ended. You know? Those high school parties and then he talks about going to those college parties. It really bothers me a lot :[ He's quite handsome and I'm sure he wouldn't do anything with other girls.. but girls have always flirted with him and tried to do stuff. I don't want something to happen. I know.. he's going to get high, drunk and whatever. It bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do... I'm afraid something might happen.
But I know that I can't tell him.. he can't go.
Is there anyway that I can distract myself?
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Don't try to hide the fact that it bothers you. The most important things in a relationship are trust and communication. If you don't want him to go, then you have to tell him. If he doesn't understand your point of view then I would kick him to the curb.
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to keep your mind off of what he's
doing, hang with your girl friends:]
have a girls night out & talk about
some other crap thats going on <3
go on a little vacation this summer
with a couple friends...
trust me, if your with your girlfriends,
chances are, (hopefully) you'll be having
way too much fun to think about what
"COULD" happen. and you said it yourself,
he's a good guy and he wont do anything
thats gonna ruin your guy's relationship.
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maybe you can go with him to the parties, you don't have to do anything like drinking or smoking but you'll have an eye on your boyfriend :] X0//ALLY.
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hey
girl, if he messes up & he does stuff with another girl, it's HIS loss, not yours. i know it's hard to keep your mind off, but i'm sure you are a beautiful, smart, friendly girl that guys would die to date. but honestly, if he decides, "ehh i don't really care about her" you shouldn't care one bit. although, you should definitely clarify that you don't want him doing stuff at the parties, just so he knows you're aware of it.
all in all, act like you don't care when you do. if you find out he did stuff, let him go. & don't talk to him again cause he's not worth it. and it was a choice he made.
if he really really likes you, he won't do anything stupid. but honestly, what are the odds that he won't even look at a girl? if a bunch of hot guys were surrounding you at a party, wouldn't you feel the urge to do something despite the fact you have a boyfriend? he is probably going to at least flirt back, but if he does more let him go.
if anything suspicious happens after the parties, like he stops calling and stuff, i'd definitely talk to him about it.
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