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in love with best friend
i have a really good friend jon. he is one of the hottest guys in the school and pretty nice. i never even dreamed of dating him till just a week ago. i would ask him out but what if he denies and it ruins our friendship. what if we broke up and it did the same thing? and, he has one flaw: he cheats on his girlfriends. he has never had a girlfriend that he hasnt cheated on.
help! thanks for everyones advice. 14/f
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Well, if the problem was only about him being your best friend, I would say go for it. But, with it being also that he is a cheater...I don't think I would risk my heart on it, because being cheated on is probably one of the worst feelings in the world. What do you think made you want to date him so suddenly? Curiosity, maybe? I've been there. But think of what's going to be better for you: not being with this one guy, or getting your heart broken?
Good Luck!
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Dating him is a bad idea. Not because he's your best friend, but because he's a cheater. The last thing you need is boy drama that is completely avoidable. Staying just friends with him is probably your best choice. But if you really wanted to date him, ask him about it. Ask him if he's ever thought of you that way.. if he says no then just say that it's no big deal and that you wouldn't want anything to come between your friendship anyways.
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Well honestly, I wouldn't date him. Mostly because he always cheats on his girlfriends. Why would you put yourself in that situation? I would only do it if you think you'd for sure make him not want to cheat on you. Which, with a guy like that, he'd probably need to like you a lot. So if he does, maybe you should try it, but if it'd be just kind of a normal relationship with not much there between you, then don't.
Also, if he found out you liked him & wanted to date him, at that age, he might just avoid you if he doesn't feel the same way. Which would probably ruin the friendship. Boys that age are usually pretty immature about those things, & the friendship is almost always ruined.
But in the end you have to follow your heart, but take those things into consideration before you go for it.
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