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Confused
hi friends, well i am very much confused about certain things and that is....though i like girls and do enjoy their company, yet at the same time i also happen to get attracted to boys and men i.e. of my gender. i believe i am a bisexual! but sometimes i do feel like i am a lady and i do fanatsize me being that. this really does embarass me. i don't know what to do. I am CONFUSED!??. kINDLY advice.
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm a bisexual guy and went through the same confusing things as you.
If you really and truly want to find out if you're bisexual, you need to date girls AND guys. Until you have an actual boyfriend to experiment with, you will always be confused.
Also, there's NOTHING wrong with being bisexual. Some people actually think it's cool. But just to let you know, there are a lot of stereotypes about bisexuals, like:
-bisexuals are slutty (not true)
-bisexuals are really gay, but don't want to admit it (not always true)
-bisexuals are confused (not always true)
-bisexuals say they're bisexual for attention (not true)
So you see, many negative stereotypes are attached to the word "bisexual". But you have to learn to ignore them. =]
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maybe you are bisexual. thats ok. don't be embarassed it normal. lots of kids feel like that in their teenage years.
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so what if your bisexual...if thats what you are then thats what you are...don't be ashamed or embarrassed of yourself be proud to be who you are...bisexual or not...if you feel that way don't suppress it
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If you are bisexual, then so be it.
You are embarrassed? STOP THAT. Don't EVER be embarrassed of who you are. There is nothing wrong with you, or your sexual preferences, ok? That's just a part of what makes you your own unique individual.
ygs-29/f
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you have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. it sounds like you are bisexual and that can be really confusing, but you shouldn't be embarrassed at all. good luck with figuring things out.
<3
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dont be embarrassed.
knowing your age would be helpful
though because if your lets say
14 or 15, your still going through
puberty and sometimes your hormones
go crazy =D dont get too worried.
take it step by step and see if you
still are attracted to guys after
a while. =D
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