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Stuck between two


Question Posted Friday June 15 2007, 5:44 pm

okay...im datin this guy named michael lee....i like him ..but im havin second thoughts cause its like everytime were on the phone..we hardly talk...then on 6/13/07 i met this guy named Kaleb..he is sweet..we have alot in common and when i say a lot i mean alot....we could hardly stop talking the nite he called me...we can talk about ANYTHING....unfortunately he lives in Hawaii..but if i say with lee im gonna be moving to MD so it still wont work...i jus dont kno wwat to do...


HELP!!!

HELP!!!

HELP!!


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coolwater answered Friday June 15 2007, 11:53 pm:
If it's awkward between you and Michael Lee... then I think you should move on because an awkward relationship is uncomfortable. You do not want to get in a position where you get hurt by a guy because it didn't work out. Do not go all out for a guy if the guy doesn't even put effort in the relationship, you know? The guy and the girl has to make things work for a relationship to seriously work out. As for Kaleb, he seems really cool from how you described him. Since you and Kaleb talk a lot, do you really like him more than a friend? Would he accept you as a girlfriend and does he have feelings for you aside being just friends? Think about it because if you break up with Michael Lee too soon, you might regret it but then again, like you said, it wouldn't work out anyway. But I think you should confront Michael Lee about this awkwardness and why it's so hard to talk to him & as for Kaleb, make sure, you want to be with him. It's ok if he lives in Hawaii. If you truly feel some connection, vibe, etc. with him... go for it! Chase after your dream, you know? :] My advice to you... as a girl: follow your heart! :) Never give up & just, do what your heart tells you to do! Good luck & have an awesome summer!! <3

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SwtDevilz answered Friday June 15 2007, 6:37 pm:
hi i know what you mean. It's hard when you have a boyfriend but then you have doubts. It's okay to feel this way. This is one way you can handle this situation. You can make a list of both and list what you like about them. That thing is a classic. If this doesn't work you should see it in your heart what you want. Either way you would have to stay away from one of them. I hope you find a way.

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omgzstfux answered Friday June 15 2007, 6:31 pm:
For One - how did you meet kaleb?
if he lives in hawaii, then how do
you know him? where do you live?

For Two - do you even know if he likes you?
dont end a fine relationship on a silly
" maybe crush ".

For Three - just because you and your man
dont talk, doesnt mean that you guys arent
right. but, i do get what you are saying.
maybe he isnt the one. but again, this kaleb
doesnt sound like a great guy to date...

you actually sound like you'd be better single:]
(not to be rude)

so do this ---ยป
find out if k. likes you.
if he does .... then spend some
more time with him to make sure
that hes the right guy...

if k. doesnt, try and see if you and
m. are a good match & that you stiill like him!

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