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i can't keep a boyfriend!!!:(
i feel like im ugly or i am too pushy or my standards r too high...idk i have only started dating when i was in 5th grade the longest relationship i have been in has only lasted 3 months.....now i had a bf that i really loved and really cared about and i still do but he didn't want to be tied down cas basically he wasn't finished fooling around and well our relationship lasted 3weeks and 1day i still having feelings for him and i tryed goin out with other ppl but it just didn't work out i don't know what to do.
so basically i am asking what should i think about if i want to have a long lasting relationship and how should i act towards a guy?
plzz answer asap
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I went through the same thing you are going through... its ok to be with different people and wander around n see who is right or not for you. or who is u're type and who isn't. dont ever feel like you are less than anyone or anyone is more than you. Always set your standards to a reacheable level and im sure that you will find that perfect guy. That you will know if u love him or not by his eyes, his smile, and his touch. Always remember to put yourself first n to be a confident person.. because if u first dont love yourself no one else will...!!!
take care i hope i helped!
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The first thing you should do is back off. The be-all end-all is not having a boyfriend. Although you seem like you like this guy, you seem more concerned on having a long relationship. Take a little hint from the guy -have a little fun first. You have the rest of your life to be settled down. (This does NOT mean be promiscuous)And, just maybe, when this guy sees what a fun RELAXED person you are, you might be able to start a relationship again. Start out having fun and let the relationship develop naturally for seriousness, otherwise it's not worth it.
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i think you should be yourself and just go with
the flow of the relationship . dont try to make
it perfect or anything. a lot might happen when
two people are going out & you just want to ride
along with whats happening. when your dating a
guy, try to talk to him everyday but dont keep
bothering him. plan some dates together, but dont
go overboard with that. give him space. no guy
wants to be tied down. let him know he has your
trust by not keeping him on a leash. also, give
him freedom. dont get mad at him for "flirting"
with a girl. like 3 out of 5 guys are flirters.
its just how they are =D
acting towards a guy:
be flirtatious(if he's single)
dont look slutty or sleazy
give him compliments
be confident with what you say or do.
hope i helped babe.
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it sounds like you've got the issue i had there was this boy that i really liked we went out for two weeks and he dumped so i moved on i never got over him but the guys i went out with treated me pretty well and i usually kept him out of my mind while around others so maybe you just need to surround your self with ppl you no can make you feel better who knows maybe he'll start liking you again after a while cuz my guy did and wel have our third month anniversary next sunday so hope this helped some, y-vet
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