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Location: Dominican Republic / Livin in Jersey
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Age: 16
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i feel like im ugly or i am too pushy or my standards r too high...idk i have only started dating when i was in 5th grade the longest relationship i have been in has only lasted 3 months.....now i had a bf that i really loved and really cared about and i still do but he didn't want to be tied down cas basically he wasn't finished fooling around and well our relationship lasted 3weeks and 1day i still having feelings for him and i tryed goin out with other ppl but it just didn't work out i don't know what to do.
so basically i am asking what should i think about if i want to have a long lasting relationship and how should i act towards a guy?
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I went through the same thing you are going through... its ok to be with different people and wander around n see who is right or not for you. or who is u're type and who isn't. dont ever feel like you are less than anyone or anyone is more than you. Always set your standards to a reacheable level and im sure that you will find that perfect guy. That you will know if u love him or not by his eyes, his smile, and his touch. Always remember to put yourself first n to be a confident person.. because if u first dont love yourself no one else will...!!!
take care i hope i helped!
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How big of a chance do I have of getting pregnant considering I had sex the day before my expected period? Like, I had sex last night, but he didnt go but theres still pre-cum, but whats the chance of me being pregnant? I usually get my period between the 20-23 of every month, so far I haven't gotten it and I know I can't be pregnant that soon. So what are my chances? (link)
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There really sint a big chance if you used protection. Wait a least a week or two and then go to the doctors or get a pregnancy test. Its ok i've been scared like this before... Try not to think about it and dont stress out. Because if you do that there is a bigger chance of your period coming later. Because stress affects your hormones!
i hope i helped you!
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About a month or two ago I made a promise to God that I would not masturbate until I turned 14. Several months ago, probably like 3 or 4 maybe 5, I turned 13. But, I broke that promise. And I know it's really bad to do that, and I'm a Catholic! But the really bad thing is, that I keep telling God I won't do it again, but I do! Sometimes when I cross my legs my clitoris throbs and it feels good, does that count? A part of me feels like he forgives me, partly because it was the time of my period when you're in heat, but part of me feels like he won't forgive me and I don't deserve to go to Heaven. I feel like I've broken my promise, God never breaks a promise and I feel unworthy. I talk to God a lot, I pray a lot, and praise him a lot. But sometimes I'm not nice to others like I should be. Like lying, or making fun of someone and not apologizing, although most of the time I do, yet I do it again! I truly, truly, truly need help to keep my promise and stay un-horny. Will I go to hell for this? Will he forgive me? I feel so scared, I want to go to Heaven! I worship God with all my heart, I really do. And I believe in Jesus and his commandments and in the beatitudes. But one night a while back, I wanted to sort of have my own way of getting an immediate answer with him. Years ago, I bought a statue of Jesus from Canada and the hands broke off accidentally. So I took one hand and fell alseep with it in my hand and asked him to have me wake up with it on the right side of my bed if the answer was "Yes, you will go to Heaven." and it go to the left side if the answer was no. It landed on the left side underneath me! I'm scared. I've done this before, and I asked him if I would meet my sisters in Heaven (I never met them) and it landed on the right side. Is this kind of witch craft or something? Well I'm really scared, so please answer this question! (link)
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God has his mysterious ways of working. But everything he does is for a reason. I don't think you should be feeling scared becasue masturbating is a sin but we are teenagers.. and we cannot control our hormones. It like having sex before mariage, that is a major sin too but we do it anyways because it is hard to control our instincts. Life is filled with surprises hun. God knows what he is doing with each and everyone of us. Im aslo a very big catholic. See dont go by if the broken hand is on the left or right side of the bed when you wake up. I understand how you feel but it is a normal feeling!!!
I hope i helped you.. take care!
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Ok so lately for about 4 monthes (give or take) my period has been kinda screwed up. But before that it had been nearly on time EVERY TIME since i started it. The last couple monthes my period had been about 5 days (not uncommen) but had been a couple days early and late and that stuff (nothing big). But this month i have been really freaked. I have had my period for 1 year and a half (about). But i think i missed my period. I know its 'commen' for a teenager but like i said, i have never had this problem before. I was supposed to get it the 5, and its the 18 (almost 19). I have been sick for about a week but when i got blood work everything was fine. So now the questions. o and btw i am not sexually active, so i can not be pregnant.
1. Could this be the reason for my period problems?
2. Should i see a doctor?
3. Should i declare it missed or should i still wear pantie liners?
4. AND LAST- my boobs are really sore and they have been for a while. does that mean anything?
THANK YOU SO MUCH !
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Hun, if you are not sexually active then there is no way that you can be pregnant! I have a friend that didnt get her period for a year and a half.. and then got it back again! so dont worry.. its just part of growing.
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