Hey. I'm in my early twenties. I'm currently pregnant with my first child...Well for a couple more days atleast :-D! I live in sunny Sun Diego. I'm married, to a Sergeant in the Marine Corps...
I am here to help and get help. I'm not trying to portray that I'm a perfect person with no problems, but I have been through alot so I figure I'd help people learn from my mistakes...
I've been through alot, from my father death, to my best death, to middle school/high school/college, bad relationships, good relationships, engagment, marriage, deployment, pregnancy, stress and depression...
I am deffinetly here to help 110 % so if you want to talk dont hesitiate i'm here for all of you...xoxox
E-mail: blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.
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I need some help on knowing how to make sex more intersteing for this one guy. we have never had sex together before so i want to make it a time he wont forget and he is more experienced then i am. so any tips on how to make sex amazing for him would be helpful.
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Well when you guys are doing forplay make it last as long as you can, kiss him all over but dont let him in until you can tell he's begging for it!!!
You should get on top and take control, it'll drive him crazy...go sloooooww and just kinda rock around with your hips...you'll have him going crazy...
GARENTEED
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I am having some bleeding and its way too early for my period but i am having heavy bleeding and no clotting. I had sex like a week ago and the guy did use protection but it could have broke or something. I heard that if you are pregnant you cant use a tampon but I am using one and its kind of comfortable. But I just need some advice on what may be happening and I dont have the money right now to buy a pregnancy test. I am only 17 I really need some advice..please help me thank you (link)
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It's true you can bleed while your pregnant, but honestly your not going to bleed that much...Sometimes when the egg is emplanting into the side of your cervex, you may spot a little but nothing like your explaining...your period may have just came way early...wait it out for a little while then seek help!!!
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I am a virgin but I have given and recieved oral sex but when guys go to finger me i freak out, why do i do this and is it gonna hurt that bad? (link)
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I think you'll be fine...I didnt have sex right away but I got fingered, and it never hurt me...It's no big deal you'll be fine...Dont stress out...It's not like losing your virginity or anything...
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i'm a girl and i'm straight. i very much enjoy riding my boyfriend's dick, but i like to watch lesbian porn. i watch porn, not just lesbian, often and get very turned on by it. is something wrong with me? (link)
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I'm an adult and i watch it sometimes. I think sometimes a womens body seems more appealing...dont stress about it. I'm compltly straight, married and pregnant...so your fine :-D
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What are the differences between the girl being on top and the boy being on top during sex if there are any? thanks (link)
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It's a different pleasure, in each position. Granted, when the girl is on top she is doing all the work but i find it to feel better, and it feels way better for the guy, with the guy on top, it's just the usual you get pleasure but no as amazing as the girl on top :-D
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14/f
when your "cherry pops" do you bleed?& if you do r you supposed to bleed?
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Yes it is common in most women to bleed after losing their virginity. You might bleen a time or two after that and it might be sore, but after the first couple of times, you no longer bleed and it's not as painful.
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alright i have tried everything that i can at my age. i've tried fingering, carrots, cucumbers. I mean im too young to buy a vibrator..i really want to get and orgasim. all i get is like a tickly feeling. please i need your advice. thanks in advance (link)
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as gross as it sounds, if you lay doen spread your vagina lips with one hand and rub with your other hand on your clit, fast then slow, it's best to do it in the shower...hope that helps!
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if you arent taking birth control and you have sex using a condom one time, what is the chance you will get pregnant? (link)
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Probably 1 %. Honestly, I used condoms as a way of safe sex for awhile and never had any scare!!!
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okay so me and my ex boyfriend hung out and we had sex. he did not use a condom. we went for about 15 min. or less. he didnt keep it in the entire time we did it though either. i heared that if he did not cum and was not about to then theres no chance id be pregnant. but im still not sure. he said he did not cum and wasnt about to and he never did even after we stopped. so is there a chance i could be pregnant? all my friends say i should be fine and so does he.
also for 3 days it hurt when i peed and i blead a little. it stopped now, so is that just because i had sex for the first time? (link)
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Bleeding and being sore is completly normal after losing your virginity sometime you even bleed a little more the next few times. No biggie it's just your vagina getting use to it...After that it'll feel amazing if it doesnt already...
You should be fine but next time use protection, it's safer...
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15/m
like how do you do phone sex? i know you're supposed to talk dirty but what else do you do? just wondering because my girlfriend and i are thinking about trying it
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You usally talk, while masturbating or rubbing yourself, and your describe to each other what your doing to yourself it goes back and fourth...which is suppose to make it more initmate and hott...
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is it true that freshman grade doesnt count when you go to college? (link)
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Yes, your freshman year does count, and if you let things go down hill during your freshman year then your more likely to let them go every other year...
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so when me and my boyfriend have sex, i never orgasm. it feels really good, and i love it - but i just don`t get off. i get off when he goes down on me, etc., but not during sex. what`s wrong? am i doing anything wrong? i don`t understand why i don`t get off... i`m 17 btw. any suggestions or answers would be helpful! thanks (link)
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It's harder for some women to have an orgasm during sex. You can try rubbing your clit while he's going at it, and i'm sure it'll turn him on even more, and please you at the same time. It's kind of like a two for one!!!
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my boyfriend and I were having sex the other night and he went soft. Why did this happen, is it because of me? Or because he was drunk or what? (link)
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Drinking can do some weird things to mens hormones. Some men become very horney while others not so much. He probably got really into the moment then forgot what he was doing. Its not you at all, just think about a males attention spand and then think about his attention spand plus drinking...lol :-D
I wouldnt worry a bit!!!
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k so i have thiss..
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12607_-1_12552
if you look where it says, tanks/camis or whateer, and it shows that girl, with the cami on, well i have that [they dont have it on the site anymore, because i got it awhile ago.] but its basically what that girl is wearing in the photo. but the only problem is, i dont know what to wear under it. like i try tank tops, and ehh i just didnt like it. i saw this one girl wearing a tshirt, but like it dipped down, and it looked perfect, like i actually thought it came like that with the shirt underneath. [sp?] anyways, mines baise. or light brown. so what can i wear underneath it? or what did you do if you have it? (link)
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I worked at hollister for 3 years...just quit i actually have that tank top...you would usally wear it with one of our mini skirts or pair of shorts, it looks rreally cute with baiting suite underneight it's not really made for the layer look.
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What days should I avoid having sex during a girl's
cycle?
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Always use protection. You can get pregnant any day of your cycle and expecially two weeks after your cycle.
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Can I wear tampons for my whole period, or do I have to alternate using tampons, then pads, then tampons? I only have tampons, so would it be dangerous if I only wore tampons the whole time, and just changed it every few hours? I have liners too that I wear at night though. (link)
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Tampons are completly safe to use all the time as long as your remember to change them every so often!
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what is the best tampon to use if you have never used one before? my body type is petite. i got my first period over a year ago. (link)
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Tampax Pearl.
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what happens to your body after you loose your virginity (to a girl)?
this is what i heard:
you gain weight
you get flab on your stomache
your legs get spread open because of the vagina
so what happens? (link)
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Don't let people scare you. Noting really physical changes about you it's mostly mental...In all reality you lose weigh sex is a great exercise plan!!!
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can you use a tampon when you dont have your period? maybe so that you can get used to the fact of wearing it and letting your vagina spread for it i guess? (link)
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It's not the best idea. I dont know why you'd want to. Honestly, I used tampons from age 8 and didnt lose my virginity till i was 16 and the tampon made no difference what so ever in the size of my vigina. I still bleed my first time and it was still painful. I dont know if that was your reasoning behind using one while you went on your period but thats about the only rason that popped into my head.
Also you've got a high risk of getting TSS if you are using a tampon while not on your period...The tampon is use to soaking up blood and then it's not as toxic to your body but when it's just sitting in there not soaking up anything it's dangerous...
PS. i hope i helped
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hey guys or girls i would like to know how do u give a hand job? (link)
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put your hands or hand around his shaft and rub up and down...not too tight and not too lose, sometimes using a little lotion or lub makes is better for the guy.
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