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Question Posted Thursday June 28 2007, 12:31 am

I am a virgin but I have given and recieved oral sex but when guys go to finger me i freak out, why do i do this and is it gonna hurt that bad?

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DONTFORGETABOUTUS69 answered Thursday June 28 2007, 8:12 pm:
probally beacuse your just nervouse its okay its normal im the same way but it dosent hurt if they do it hard it hurts a little but you will get use it it or tell them to slow down<3

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kaydence answered Thursday June 28 2007, 2:49 pm:
I think you'll be fine...I didnt have sex right away but I got fingered, and it never hurt me...It's no big deal you'll be fine...Dont stress out...It's not like losing your virginity or anything...

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FiaBean answered Thursday June 28 2007, 11:29 am:
You probably "freak out" just because you are no used to it. i don't think that is anything to worry about right now. Just make sure you know what you are doing before you go HI-HO and get fingered. To the next question: In the beginning it probably will hurt because you aren't used to anything going in there yet but as time goes by your vagina won't be so tight and it should be more enjoyable for you and less painful. Hope I helped!

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nonamecat answered Thursday June 28 2007, 2:09 am:
You probably "freak out" because you know you are not prepared for what is about to happen. By the sound of it you are too young to be engaging in sexual activities, including oral sex. No, fingering doesn't hurt when done correctly. But, I cannot promise you that it will not hurt when done to you if the person you are with is not experienced or does something wrong.

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0NEL0VEEx answered Thursday June 28 2007, 2:02 am:
it's not gonna hurt at all.. and you probably just get like that cause you're nervous, really though, it won't hurt, i promise.. and if it does (which there's like a 2% chance it will) then just tell himm to stop, and it's over with =) no worries &hearts;

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2tammy2 answered Thursday June 28 2007, 1:58 am:
i doubt it hurts at all, andn maybe the only reason your afraid is because your instincts tell you that you arent ready.

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