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My boyfriend broke up with me about 7 or 8 months ago. We only went out for a little over a month. He broke up with me for another girl and it took me a while to get over because i still liked him. We managed to stay friends because we chill with the same group of people. Just a few days ago my friend told me how he was talking about how he doesn't even know why he went out with me and it was only because i had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". And now its really been making me upset and i dont know why, what can i do?

did you do something to make him mad?or have sex with him?becuase i think he is lying he wouldent stay with you that long then hate you.maybey you did somehting to make him mad just try talking to him

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I'm trying to create my own myspace profile with the help of a website but I can't find any that will let have it like I want it. I don't want headings or sections. Here is an example of what I want:

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=86269673

What sites can I use?

Thanks

If you want to create a cool backoround go to www.mygen.com
and upload picture www.photobucket.com
and coods like marquee that make words go across youyr page and stuff go to www.whateverlife.com

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I am a virgin but I have given and recieved oral sex but when guys go to finger me i freak out, why do i do this and is it gonna hurt that bad?

probally beacuse your just nervouse its okay its normal im the same way but it dosent hurt if they do it hard it hurts a little but you will get use it it or tell them to slow down

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I've been watching porn on TV for the past couple of nights. Not the whole thing but just segments. Im 16/f by the way. I've never had sex, or even kissed. Im feeling pretty ashamed by it. Does anyone else watch it? Is it a common thing for teens?

Yes it is comment at that age beacuse you go through the stage of doing stuff with yourself and thinking of stuff and you finally realize

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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.

Thanks so much to you all.

i thank you should get a abortion.
beacuse you dont even no that guy and her probally though of wow this will be fun yanoe? thinking of nothing about a baby so yeah abortion best way to go.and rap is totalyyy opposite.

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Okay there's this guy and he's 17 and he likes a girl thats 15 and he doesnt like me because im 14! I dont really understand! Why do people think there is such a BIG difference between them? It really makes me mad. Everyone always says im too young and when they see a 15 year old thats only a year older than me well they say no shes not that young but you oh no you, you are a year younger and thats way too young for sex or even making out! Oh my god you do not know how much this makes me mad! I've been waiting forever to grow up and nobody respects me because Im so little and i have sorta a baby face so they just all think im young and they think my cuz thats 15 is sooooooo much older than me and she's not she's a year and like 3 months!

That kinda is older.17 and 14 15 is differnt beaucse he likes her and shes closer of age just find somone else ur age

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Ok,I am trying to find a good cellphone to buy....

What plan is best (At&T, T-Mobile, Verizon, Sprint etc.)

and what kind of cellphone works the best? is worth the money?

and what cell phones do you NOT get?

Please Help!

i live verizon it works best and you like never lose service

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i'm going to a thing this weekend where there will be lots of people i don't know. i really want to talk to new people and make friends with them, but i always feel awkward just joining a different group. any tips? i don't know what to say.. usually they aren't welcoming. i feel like i shouldn't talk too much, but i shouldn't just sit there. where's the balance? any tips on flirting with the guys too? should i flirt straight away or not? thanks

about meeting new people if you are by your self just like go up to them and be like hey im blah blah or if thats akward beacuse its a group and evryone will look at you when you see one person go away go up to the one person and start talking to her & she will probally introduce you you get it?well about the guys like chasing the girls so start off with a flirty smile. and let him come after you

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okay so i think i'm jealous of some of my friends with boyfriends. they've hooked up, and there all so happy together. and i feel like crying really hard. i've never even had a first kiss. and whenever a guy likes me it's when i dont like him. in 5th grade this guy asked me out and i liked him but said no because i was scared, and now i regret it like hell. i just wish i had someone special that cares about me. it burns inside to see my friends so happy. i dont know how to make myself happier. none of the guys like me, and i have friends who get dates with really popular guys, even though there not the most popular girls and there not mean. i just feel like an abandoned puppy. how come no one likes me? no one wants me..
how am i supposed to feel better about this?
:(

Just be confident to yourself and when u hangout with guys be yourself or ask ur friends to hook you up with a guy. or your friends boyfriends to bring guy friends. no matter what i promise you you will find that someone
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(shes a 15 year old girl) So my friend has a pretty complicated situation.She used to go out with this guy who was a complete jerk off.He used to control everything she need,and got mad at her for everything.I kept telling her to break it off,and finally she did.(after going under serious depression and dealing with alot of problems)Now,shes been with this other guy for 2 months.He is really cool,and he never usually disrespects her.Now,out of nowhere he says that he likes one of his girl friends! But he also says it doesnt mean anything and that he still loves her and wants to be with her.The only problem is that hes constantly hanging out with this other girl alone and never wants anyone to be there when they hang out.(he says nothings happening,theyre just "good friends")But shes so bothered by it and shes constantly crying because she really loves him,its just that she always pictures them together and stuff.She doesnt want to break up with him, and i feel horrible everytime i look at her because i feel like theres nothing i could do =[
any advice on what she should do? Sorry for length

i think she should talk to him about it. and if he keeps saying nothings going on she should say well then let me hangout with you guys and if he says no thats fuckit.she should breakup with him that obviuosly means there somthing more then friends if he dosent want his girlfriend there

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am i still a virgin, even though my cherry's poped because i fingered myself?

yes you are.

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Hi, I'm fourteen years old and I'm a girl. My brother is 15. His best friend Mike is 17 and we've always got along pretty well. I've been spending a lot of time with them lately and I'm starting to have strong feelings for him. I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me, but he flirts with me a lot. My brother knows I like him and he's fine with it. I'm just not really sure how to get Mike's attention. Like, how do i make him realize that I like him without being too forward? Sorry if this is long. Thanks in advance. I greatly appreciate it.

Well usally older guys like 17 year olds like girls who play hard to get. btu then you want him to no before he gets sumone else right?hmm thats hard well i think you should spend more time with him and flirt a little more. but not to flirty. and smile alot.

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My boyfriend has been a jerk lately.. You see, I barely get to see him and we talk mostly on the phone for about a good 15min a day.. Which kinda bothers me a bit because I wish to see him more often, but he has work and when he does have a break.. he'd rather hang out with his own friends first.. then when it gets to me, he'll tell me he's too tired to hang out.. I let this go for awhile, but now it's just getting to me.. 2 days ago I called and asked him if he wanted to go see a movie and what do I get? A "I don't want to hang out with you.." Me being usually cheery when I talk, my voice lowered in an instance and I just kept quiet for awhile.. He then asks why I'm upset, ...HA! like he doesn't know.. Then he starts saying, "If you're going to cry, I don't want to hear it. I'd rather hang out with my friends and I'm telling you in the nicest way, I DO NOT want to hang out OK?" My heart sank.. It's the first time he's ever said that.. Like that.. And of course, the tears came out and I had the sniffles and guess what happens? He tells me to call him back when I'm done crying.. I do call back, but this time I was pissed. I told him I never get to see him and if he even notices that.. Notices that I needed him.. And what a total jerk he's being.. All I get is a "Don't talk to me if you're going to be like this, you need to grow up." *click* ..so here I am today, wondering what to do. He hasn't called, so I guess it's my job to. But.. should I even bother with this? ..we've been going out for almost 2 years.. should I just throw all that away.. I don't know what to do.. I don't want to be alone.. Help please? :(

That is so hard to do.well i would suggest you do is when the next time you hangout with him is you need to talk to him make shure noone is there and its sumwhere where tehre is no distractions. and start off asking him stuff and be like whats going on we have been together for 2 years is this the end?and ask him whats going on no matter if it hurts you you need to no. bacause he can be hiding somthing it seems like. just talk to him and dont be mean just talk to him nicley and try to get it out of him an dwhen he tells you just say i understand.

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my mom's extremely strict and stubborn. i can't hang out with guys, can't date them, and i can't do a bunch of other stuff that every other 13 year old girl CAN. i can't have sleepovers with friends. and it drives me NUTS. i've had one in my life with a friend because my parents had a wedding, and thats IT. my friend jenna and me are staying home all summer and we wanna hang out..a lot. (were best friends) and she was like "lets have a sleepover on friday with ana" (ana is my other friend) and im scared my mom wont let me. im not sure if shes okay with it or not, because its summer and she knows i have nothing to do. im just so scared. i know jenna is going to have SO many sleepovers like she always does. and i always feel like im a weirdo and im always outside of my circle of friends. they have millions of sleepovers with each other, and i havent had any. i just really need some VERY convincing reasons why i should be able to have sleepovers over the summer. please, i dont want to be left out all summer to..:-\

I think you should just keep talking your mom into it letting her trust you. it seems like she dosent trust you just say you will do chores or somthing that will let you go and she can talk to the parents or somthing && if she still says no tehre nothing you can do && bugging her is going to make her more mad && just have a sleepover at your house && see how it goes. its better then nothing

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so I hooked up with this freshman a few times and we are like friends who just hook up and hes moving in august to Colorado so i wont see him after Sunday because of camp.then last week at a party i hooked up with two people in front of him because I was drunk and i ended up doing more shit with one of the guys that he may or may not know about because we went into a room. He hasn't talked to me since and I want to talk to him and like be friends but its awkward. He hasn't said anything to me and we usually talk every night or every other night. What should I do?

Try calling him, && be like come over or somthing && talk in person he may no that person or somthing about that person and hes worried for you or may not like seeing you like that i had that expericene guy friends are just over protective so just try to talk to him.

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Is "Ginny" short for a different name (a girls name)??

And can everyone PLEASE tell me their favorite boys and girls names??


Thankss soo much!!

girls=i like amerouse shelby samntha amber
boys=nathan fabian juan marcus

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and the other day on the phone, randomly he goes, i wish i could see you, and hug you every second of the day.
is that sweet or just plain weird?

THANKSOMUCH!

Thats cute that means hes saying he wish he can spend evrey second of his life with you babygirl

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Well, i go too high school. At high school we have populars and well geeks and i really, really hate this! No one has the right to tell you who you are or name you.
Populars think they can boss me about for example 'get out of this room', 'go away, you can't hang around here'. Am really fed up i just want to answer back but then everyone will hate me, and my friends are scared because they don't want to be hated, and everyone eles sucks up to them.
i would really like to know how can i stuck up for my self without being hated by people.

theres no way the worl dosent work liek that anymore hunny hahah
you just have to be a bitch if they treat you like that and stick up for ur self dont be a kiss up like ur friends are if they tell you to do somthing say no. os sumtin people will be surprised.

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I need some help on knowing how to make sex more intersteing for this one guy. we have never had sex together before so i want to make it a time he wont forget and he is more experienced then i am. so any tips on how to make sex amazing for him would be helpful.

well be ur self just do it how you want to on ur guyses first time guys like moaning alot btu let him take control guys like that

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