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brother's best friend.
Hi, I'm fourteen years old and I'm a girl. My brother is 15. His best friend Mike is 17 and we've always got along pretty well. I've been spending a lot of time with them lately and I'm starting to have strong feelings for him. I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me, but he flirts with me a lot. My brother knows I like him and he's fine with it. I'm just not really sure how to get Mike's attention. Like, how do i make him realize that I like him without being too forward? Sorry if this is long. Thanks in advance. I greatly appreciate it.
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Hey I know what you are going through! I'm 16/f but people always think im at least 18 and all. And my bf is 18.
Well my point is that I was going for a guy that was 2 years older than me(aka, my bf, before we were going out)
Before we started going out, we got along really good too because he was so easy to talk to and nice. But he was nice to EVERYONE, so i was thinking how can i get him to notice me more than a friend, above all the other girls?
Well I would first find out "type" of girl he likes. Well not TYPE per se but you know how guys like certain things in girls? like some guys like it when girls wear skirt (which seems like most guys anyways) and if they smell good and all that.
Also we started talking on the phone. I mean I know asking for his number is bit weird but I'm sure you already have his number or at least your brother does.
And definetly like what other person has answered for you, keep flirting.
If things go well with flirting and you feel brave, try to lean your head on his shoulder when you guys are sitting down next to each other, if you feel awkward doing that say something like you are really tired. That gives you a good excuse ;)
and he will most likely put his arm around you if he wants to flirt back
so hope this helped and if you need more, hit me up anytime
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Well usally older guys like 17 year olds like girls who play hard to get. btu then you want him to no before he gets sumone else right?hmm thats hard well i think you should spend more time with him and flirt a little more. but not to flirty. and smile alot.<3
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Well that wasn't long at all plus extremely common. Okay I'm guessing since you are mature for your age, that's why you and Mike get along well which is good. To have a guy notice you like him without being forward would just doing what you're doing. Flirt back and forth little and see how it goes. Most of the time guys usually pick up when a girl likes them so I think he'll realize it if you keep flirting. He might even like you too if he's flirt, that's a possibility. If you want something between you two to happen (after the flirting and such) try talking to him about it. Maybe something will flourish between you two, especially if your brother is totally okay with it.
Good luck, message with anything else, and I hope this helps you. :)
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